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panic in paradise said:
^you have realized the joy that exists within yourself, by cause of a realization that among many things creates a physiological reaction that is highly pleasurable and motivating; hence why the sense of determination to rival extraordinary challenges of nature/matter, which you now feel the courage of mind about to face.
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My working hypothesis was she infected me with a CNS virus that turned me into a (metaphorical) phagit...
 
So I'm taking a winter intersession course (4 credits in 3 weeks... yeeeeeeaaaah I'm a nerd) and last week I started talking to this girl after class. Asked her if she was hungry, she was, so we went to eat at this diner. During our meal I told her about how I make music. She wanted to hear some songs, so I brought her back to my place. Played a few tracks for her, then we sat on the couch to watch TV and... nothing happened. After about an hour of us talking on the couch she said she had to go and just left.

I have no idea why I didn't make a move. She came to my apartment less than two hours after I first met her so obviously she was interested. I'm the one who suggested she come to my apartment, so I wanted to have sex with her, at least in my rational mind. And she's pretty, so it's not like I was repulsed by her appearance or anything.

I feel like I'm stuck emotionally. Like, I have feelings that aren't coming out, and those feelings are getting in the way of my other feelings and it's affecting my personality. Anyone else have anything like this happen to them?
 
Effuzion said:
So I'm taking a winter intersession course (4 credits in 3 weeks... yeeeeeeaaaah I'm a nerd) and last week I started talking to this girl after class. Asked her if she was hungry, she was, so we went to eat at this diner. During our meal I told her about how I make music. She wanted to hear some songs, so I brought her back to my place. Played a few tracks for her, then we sat on the couch to watch TV and... nothing happened. After about an hour of us talking on the couch she said she had to go and just left.

I have no idea why I didn't make a move. She came to my apartment less than two hours after I first met her so obviously she was interested. I'm the one who suggested she come to my apartment, so I wanted to have sex with her, at least in my rational mind. And she's pretty, so it's not like I was repulsed by her appearance or anything.

I feel like I'm stuck emotionally. Like, I have feelings that aren't coming out, and those feelings are getting in the way of my other feelings and it's affecting my personality. Anyone else have anything like this happen to them?
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There could be a million reasons why you didn't - past.

Present - you have no idea what happened, and are attracted to her...you want another shot at making a move on her.

Future - Invite her to do sumat again, you'll know whether she's interested or not when you act playing it by ear on your next date. Don't think about sex, try thinking about grabbing her chin and kissing her instead - where it goes from there, well that's wherever you take it.

It really is as simple as that.
 
So. Fucking. Sick.

And pissed... I have been the ONE person to stay well while everyone around me has been dropping like flies by using some good hygiene and good preventative homeopathy, but my sister needed me to care for her, which I did. And then she needed me to watch my two year old nephew who was really sick for the past two days. I washed my hands and made sure I didn't touch my nose mouth or eyes, but it is impossible to keep a two year old from getting snot all over you. I am so hot right now...literally...temp is around 101. Fuck.
 
Beachcat said:
I washed my hands and made sure I didn't touch my nose mouth or eyes, but it is impossible to keep a two year old from getting snot all over you.
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orly?
 
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^^^ lol rangrz.....I dare you to try to keep one of those things on your face when you have a rambunctious two year old boy in your care. Pretty fucking funny, I'll give you that. :)
 
I'd.say she is over reacting, but at the same time,I've both felt the way she feels myself, and learned a bit of empathy works better than -and it truly *hurts* me to say this- strict logic and rationality and handling this sort of thing.

Tell her your sorry, and that you see it upset her and that when you did it, you just honestly diddnt think it would. That you where just mindlessly playing around on the internets and that now you see how much it upset her that you'll do your best to not to do it in the future.
 
today one of the girls at work dropped an interesting Freudian slip.

Rather than "what do you want to do for you?" she said, "what do you want me to do to you?" I loled and educated her on Freud's fucked up ideas.
 
kaywholed said:
today one of the girls at work dropped an interesting Freudian slip.

Rather than "what do you want to do for you?" she said, "what do you want me to do to you?" I loled and educated her on Freud's fucked up ideas.
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With game like this, how are you still a virgin, mate?
 
kaywholed said:
Rather than "what do you want to do for you?" she said, "what do you want me to do to you?"
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Ah that's perfect :)

Hmmm, I got an interesting proposition when I woke up today:
hey [name].. sorry for not keeping myself in touch with you. Was very busy.
I want to say something.
I really liked you and think you are a nice person. But i am not looking for a relationship right now.
Would you like to keep our relation casual and fun ?
You can think about it and let me know.
You may think I am gross but i am thinking practical. I hope you will understand and reply.
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By his words you can tell I carried myself like a lady.. My past is nothing but a vague shadow of a dream. I truly am transformed <3
Oh good lord Shiva, brother of Jesus & neighbor of allah etc... He is completely gorgeous... I wish I could post a photo. Knowing his culture I didn't want to be so "easy"; I refused his good-night kiss. Later, I'm going "wtf" in my head when I realized I may have lost my chance for sex with this rare and well-respected man. Two+ weeks later and! All was not lost! TRUTH: I don't need another sex partner :( We all know I am a major advocate for as few number of sex partners as possible... But hear me well... I'm only going to have sex with him out of a passion for youth and beauty.

And dear me, my heart is with someone else entirely.
 
pontifex01 said:
I just wanted to publicly apologise for having been a cunt yesterday night, to whoever felt my Oh So Wrathful Wrath. A combination of being ill, an unreasonably angry wife, and a large bottle of saké did a number on my mood.

Particularly to B1tO'RoughJack (think I spelt that right). Not to the cunt who compares women to cars though lol, man that guy just freaked me right out.

rangrz you know it's standard etiquette in Bangkok to wear one of those masks whenever you're ill, as a gesture of social courtesy, to stop others from getting ill (that and there's an alarmingly high percentage of the population with tuberculosis).
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Asking me "Why were you looking at her pictures in the first place?", my simple, honest answer, "I was bored and just browsing my friends' facebook profiles, and I hadn't spoken to Dora (this girl) in ages."
Her: "Oh well god knows what she must think you think of her now!" at which point I rolled my eyes, told her she was being absurdly insecure and that I'd done nothing wrong, and proceeded to ignore her anger and get drunk on saké.
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No worries mate - I knew from how you were posting you had a problem, which is why I was checkin whether it was with me or whether you just had a bee in ya bonnet.

I suggest ya show her you understand the way she is feeling, and when she has calmed down properly, talk to her about how much you have given up for her, simply as a gesture of your love for her(the female friends), but she needs to get a hold of herself and her insecurities, otherwise she will just push you away - a facebook picture is nothing, at least you're not cheating. Then ask her if she has anything else she has on her mind, about the 2 of you - whether she has anything to ask you.

Kinda sounds like she doesn't trust you a little still because of your promiscuous days, and just needs reassurance in the clearest possible terms.

EDIT: the above advice is for next time she overreacts. You can't cave everytime, it just perpetuates her insecurities.

PS thnks for the info on the facemasks - that's neat.

Cohesion - hahahah you cheeky bitch! If a gal snubbed my kiss but wanted another date it would enrage me, but keep me wanting more ;) Also kudos on your choice of prophets and deities.
 
When does she officially become my girlfriend?

While she was in town, we saw each other every other day, and hung-out mostly at bars, but also went to museums, and we go out to eat together. We've had sex a few times, and I sleep over at her place after sex (my living situation is unsettled right now). As she's been out of town for a month straight (we started this a couple weeks before she left for school's break), we've been texting regularly. She's brought up a couple times that she's "unsure of what 'this is'"...

It seems were already in a relationship, does it not?

And now that I've skirted the issue for this long, how do we (I) resolve it?
 
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When does she officially become my girlfriend?

While she was in town, we saw each other every other day, and hung-out mostly at bars, but also went to museums, and we go out to eat together. We've had sex a few times, and I sleep over at her place after sex (my living situation is unsettled right now). As she's been out of town for a month straight (we started this a couple weeks before she left for school's break), we've been texting regularly. She's brought up a couple times that she's "unsure of what 'this is'"...

It seems were already in a relationship, does it not?

And now that I've skirted the issue for this long, how do we (I) resolve it?
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Unfortunately, there may be someone else. I only say that because I sense some flakiness by her asking that question.

Not to worry, when she returns to town, you can sex her up some more. Act as if you are not bothered by her neglecting and she will be throwing herself at you in no time

Possible go a day without responding to her texts as frequently, or maybe not at all. Will drive her crazy I promise.

Oh, and the fact she asks "what this is" or wtv, is actually a good thing IMO. It means she is wanting it to be something serious. It means she is thinking about it often, and she is fishing for reassurance, expecting you to say things like "this is serious" or "I like you so much"...

If you have already banged her and hit her g-spot, her girly brain chemicals are flowing and growing attached to you.

Play the game. Play hard to get a little. After all, you need a place to stay. This could be good.

Heh. Peace
 
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rangrz said:
My working hypothesis was she infected me with a CNS virus that turned me into a (metaphorical) phagit...
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hmmm

she could be a succubus.

"In folklore traced back to medieval legend, a succubus (plural succubi) is a female demon or supernatural entity that appears in dreams, who takes the form of a human woman in order to seduce men, usually through sexual intercourse. The male counterpart is the incubus. Religious traditions hold that repeated intercourse with a succubus may result in the deterioration of health or even death.

In modern fictional representations, a succubus may or may not appear in dreams and is often depicted as a highly attractive seductress or enchantress; whereas, in the past, succubi were generally depicted as frightening and demonic.

According to Zohar and the Alphabet of Ben Sira, Lilith was Adam's first wife who later became a succubus"
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Succubus

;)
 
soundsystem00 said:
Hmmm my girl seems to have a strange obsession with scarfs. As a bondage accessory.
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Well, that is by no means objectionable. I suggest you shopping. :p

@PiP: But, my health and wellbeing have improved. Maybe I need to adjust my hypothesis to a symbiotic eukaryotic organism that, while expressing a proteinthat binds to phagitoamine-3c2 type receptors, still has some benefits. I think we need to isolate this protein tho. It's right up your alley too! It feels the way I've imagined an entheogen should feel. :p
 
soundsystem00 said:
Unfortunately, there may be someone else. I only say that because I sense some flakiness by her asking that question.

Oh, and the fact she asks [that question], is actually a good thing IMO. It means she is wanting it to be something serious.
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Make up your mind.

soundsystem00 said:
If you have already banged her and hit her g-spot, her girly brain chemicals are flowing and growing attached to you.

Heh.
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My advice is don't listen to this kid.

Just be aware, some girls leave a good situation when faced with a lack of commitment.
 
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