two people on papers (probation, parole, drug court, conditional release, codefendants) are not supposed to associate outside of the judicial system or a recovery (NA/AA, rehab, etc) program. they can violate you for that if they wish.
quick edit: people on papers aren't even suppose to associate with convicted felons either outside the listed environments.
Correct about not associating with convicted felons or codefendants. Also you cannot associate with anyone involved in criminal activity. But seriously, if you're on probation for something you did 2 years ago and you have a friend who you recently met who is also on paper but was not involved in your offense, you cannot associate with them? Wow... no wonder people go to jail instead of that sometimes (well, that and the fees). That said, my (now former) best friend who was on paper for stealing a mailbox was smoking herb and drinking, caught another charge, and still has not been violated (expect that's coming). Oh, the law...
Anyways, in SLR-related news, met a guy last week at the dog park of all places, he's single, I'm single, we had dinner on Sunday, he has a job and his own place, no crazy ex, no kids, no major issues, and he is sweet and shy the way a boy is around a girl he likes.

We have plans tomorrow for dinner again.
I haven't told recycled ex 1 yet. I really don't know how he will take it.

I'm going to figure out whether this will last before I do that. Recycled ex 2 just wants me to be happy and understands that I'm not really too willing to move back to his part of the country for a relationship that did not work the first time. 1 and 2 know about each other. I just want to meet a nice guy and enjoy spending time with him, and it appears I am doing that.
