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Singles thread - home of the quirky alone!?? :p

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samadhi said:
Did doofqueen mean falling in love when she typed "falling hard"? I know alot of people consider it another term for falling in love, but i've used falling hard before and haven't meant "falling in love".

Regardless, it's nice to see happiness. :)
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I realise it's new and I get wrapped up quite easily in my emotions. I realise this and am always the first one to admit it. I didn't write "in love" because i know i'm infactuated which is why i wrote "falling hard" and yes i think they are different :)

and thankyou :) <3
 
haha@ Vani and Mel: Resident Singles Thread Bitches.

I have a date with someone who I've had a mad crush on for a while and I'm so excited. This is probably the first guy ever who I met and liked when I wasn't totally drunk! What a new experience!
 
is in the air

doofqueen said:
and when was the last time i fell in love?
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Dude, come on, you admit yourself you fall hard and fast often.

Don't make her sound like a bitch when she's pointing out not only the glaringly obvious, but the self-confessed glaringly obvious.
 
drugfukkdrockstar said:
So sad. Hopefully i'll bounce back to being myself again soon.
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^Yeah, that part I'm finding to be incredibly hard. :\

I'm yearning for the inate sense of confidence that's caused by the knowledge someone cares about you so much.
It's the security and the safety of a relationship I find I'm missing the most. I just don't feel whole, and I hate that*.

*Before anyone says anything, it's not an emptiness from being without a partner. I've been single for long periods in my life and enjoyed myself immensely, and really grown as a person. I don't 'need' to have a partner in my life to be happy.
I more speculate that this emptiness that's set in is a symptom of conflicting emotions and morbid thoughts about my ability to ever experience something so wonderful ever again.





[Sorry to bring everyone down. :(]
 
doofqueen said:
and whats that supposed to mean?
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she means your relationships last as long as the mad minute on Sale Of The Century

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and your time starts............now
 
Im more upset about the possibility of losing my pet than a dude.

DQ: I hope it works out for you....I think you'll find that some of the single girls (me included) do exactly the same thing- become infatuated with someone quickly or fall for someone they cant have or is with someone else- fuck Ive done all three myself...but it is easier to find fault in other peoples actions than it is to face your own repeditive behaviour at times. I hope it works out for ya dood :)- but as I said in LJ for Gods sake tread carefully, give only as much as he does and no more ok! :D
 
well.

I am, I'm intrigued. Me, I never seem to fall in love/fall hard/whatever, at all. Its like a chronic disease, I even lived with someone for an entire two years and... nothing. No love. I'm like the rock of emotional dullness. Lust is about the most I can manage.

Hense the immense intrigue.

I didn't mean it in a bitchy way miss smarty pants.
 
^^ im the same :)

i envy those who fall in love easily. im overly cautious of confusing lust for love. im not even sure i know what love is lol. probably not. sure il figure it out one day.
 
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Innocuous said:
well.
Me, I never seem to fall in love/fall hard/whatever, at all. Its like a chronic disease, I even lived with someone for an entire two years and... nothing. No love. I'm like the rock of emotional dullness. Lust is about the most I can manage.
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^ repeditive behaviour in relationships- everyone does it, which was my point.

DQ wears her heart on her sleeve whereas you might do the exact opposite, which is probably the reason why DQ's posts sem far more emotional and a lot less blunt than yours. :)

/ smart ass
 
Well, i guess at the end of the day its just a message board. No one really knows what is *really* going on in eachothers lives after all.
 
trancegirle said:
^^ im the same :)

i envy those who fall in love easily. im overly cautious of confusing lust for love. im not even sure i know what love is lol. probably not. sure il figure it out one day.
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Concur in the 'not feeling anything' column. I'm yet to decide whether it's better than falling easily. I was young, and naive and horny once, and well, they were nice times. Nothing now.
 
^ its probably a lot better in the long run to not fall hard all the time as you don't get the broken hearts that are inevitable.

I have been in love twice and both times didn't fall head over heels immediately- it took time and even more time to wear off. I fall in lust all the time and that wears off just as quickly as it comes on.
 
I would be interested to know whether something has happened in the past that causes a negative association with 'falling in love' (or the complete and utter vulnerability that goes along with it) for those people who say they now don't (or prevent themselves from falling in love by looking at everything absolutely rationally....it's amazing how easy it is to logicise your way out of a crush)
 
ps just wanted to say that i don't automatically think 'omg you guys are fucked up and must have been traumatised in a previous relationship', just thought it might be a possibility, as i'm sure that's a pattern that occurs in some people :)
 
A wise man once said: Love is a weakness, but lust conquers all :)

Then he stuck it in his vag :D
 
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