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Singles thread - home of the quirky alone!?? :p

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^ Because people here are trying to prevent you from getting too excited, so you don't fall so damn hard when it all comes to an end?

Could that possibly be the reason?















[of course they'll get some quiet ego satisfaction when they're right too, however...]
 
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all I need is a pash to satisfy me for a little while.. I'm not asking much, it's not like I'm out to seek a shag (although it would be a bonus).
 
^ the rent must be killing you :\

So last night i meet this girl.
Smart, funny, self effacing, very hot (my 'type'), all round pretty cool.
Single and definitely into me.

I agonized for a little while then walked away ...
 
So can I ask, in a situation like that, when all the odds stack up in your favour - what makes you turn away?

Was it still missing that je ne sais quoi?
Are you using someone else as a yardstick?
Are you scared to take a risk/get into something new?
 
<3 Teh Liz

zephyr said:
Well since I do have a "disability"- as you put it, I cant really have high expectations when it comes to guys can I?:p :D
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I said deformity, not disability. I think you're very handicapable! :D
 
Mary Poppins said:
So can I ask, in a situation like that, when all the odds stack up in your favour - what makes you turn away?

Was it still missing that je ne sais quoi?
Are you using someone else as a yardstick?
Are you scared to take a risk/get into something new?
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Its cos being single is kick ass! :D m4dd0g is the muthafuckin master of single, if he ever gets a girlfriend I'm going to as well because I will have lost all hope :D


In other news, a drunk girl called me last night. But she was lost and doesn't put out anyway :\
 
Mary Poppins said:
So can I ask, in a situation like that, when all the odds stack up in your favour - what makes you turn away?

Was it still missing that je ne sais quoi?
Are you using someone else as a yardstick?
Are you scared to take a risk/get into something new?
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i have been in a similar situation b4.
for a period of time during my stay at heartbreak hotel, i was dillusioned with 'love' and all aspects of a relationship n stuff.
 
^ im not disillusioned with love, i just never have been

Mary Poppins said:
So can I ask, in a situation like that, when all the odds stack up in your favour - what makes you turn away?

Was it still missing that je ne sais quoi?
Are you using someone else as a yardstick?
Are you scared to take a risk/get into something new?
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Yes to all 3.
Although its more pessimism for the 3rd where i expect it to be ok but not great which inevitably leads to telling her im just not that interested.
Ive done that way too many times and i'd just rather avoid the whole thing if i think its a strong possibility

edit: oh, and because nickyj is right: being single does kick ass
 
Last night I met a trio. Well more like a 28 year old couple with a 19 year old girlfriend/fuckbuddy/plaything. The woman was sitting alone for some time before I sparked up a conversation. The guy and the girl were in the toilets - possibly doing the dirty but apparently just talking about clitoral stimulation. And when they reappeared, they were all getting heavily into the PDA's, although given that it was a goth club, it seemed normal.

Now normally this behaviour would repulse me, but I felt strangely attracted to the girl (lust I know). Also, given the nature of their relationship, she may be free game. She lives only a few suburbs away from me and we've seen each other on the train or somewhere similar. I'll ask her everything next time I see her.
 
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^[of course they'll get some quiet ego satisfaction when they're right too, however...]
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Well that is really quite sad and petty wouldn't you think?

All that makes them look like are jealous petty morons who have not dealt with their own insecurities with being left on the shelf.

People should maybe stop judging others and start having a look at themselves for a bit.
 
There have been numerous members who have behaved the same way as doofqueen has (according to some "Falling in and out of love, lust, relationships" easily), i'm interested to know why Doofqueen is being given such a hard time suddenly, when others in the past could post what they wanted without having to be accountable?

I'm not going to name names, as that would create even more bullshit, but i could rattle off at least 2 people that have posted about meeting "the one" and 3 weeks later saying that they've broken up with that guy, but have now met "the one" - fo' realz! 8)

I'm not wanting to get into a discussion about the content of what she's posting (i don't want to get into a discussion - period). I'm merely noting a double-standard i've observed. Why is DQ being persecuted? So what if the girl wears her heart on her sleeve... but she's an adult, she knows that she's like this, she just wants to post about it. It's not like any of you are getting hurt by her actions.

Leave the poor girl alone, FFS. :\ Way to make someone not want to post... jeez. Alot of what has been said is just plain nasty, and not cool at all.
 
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Been single again now since last June, finally stopped sleeping with the ex around Christmas. Reckon I'm now at a point where I could get involved with somone else. Lol only problem is the only person I think I could possibly see myself with is currently travelling through Europe indefinately. Nuts to that!
 
^I dunno if thats enough time, (since X-mas?). I mean its enough time for a casual relationship if thats what you want but I think after break-up, especially a marriage, one should wait a couple yrs. Or just dont wait and it'll find you.:)

Been single again now since last June, finally stopped sleeping with the ex around Christmas. Reckon I'm now at a point where I could get involved with somone else. Lol only problem is the only person I think I could possibly see myself with is currently travelling through Europe indefinately. Nuts to that!
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Hrmm, I was with my ex for a tick over 2 years. Really wrecked me when we broke up in June (2 days before my birthday), we remained friends and kept sleeping with each other on and off til kinda just before Christmas when we had a fight and a falling out. We are back talking to each and are friends again, have been for a month or so. I think I still have feelings for my ex but I think I always will. I just gotta move on kind of thing and recognize that they will always be special to me and hold a special place in my heart sort of thing, even though we will never be together again and will just be friends.

I'm not looking to launch into anything super serious but I do want some company. Its been 11 months since we broke up although I guess there was a 5 month period of break up and post relationship sex.
 
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