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Singles thread - home of the quirky alone!?? :p

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Yeah i think so MP :) With everything, your past experiences are going have an effect how you react to certain situations in the future

My first experiences with "love" (i say that because i realise thats probably not what it was) didnt go well, didnt end well and took me a long time to get over. Hence i havent gone hop, skipping & jumping into everything thats had the potential to be "love".

Also when you are comfortable being by yourself, you tend to not be in any rush to find love. So you will most likely be that little bit more objective. For objective people, love takes time. Lust is great tho =) enjoy it! but just see it for what it is.

IMHO it wouldnt be possible to fall in love all the time. Thats what makes it special - its rarity.
 
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^ What!? Are you saying that our lust isnt special trancegirle?
Way to tell me on a public forum :(

If any body needs me i'll be in my trailer
 
^^ Zephyr:\ you sure you want to be seeing ross the scumbag?

LOL m4dd0g you know our lust is special!
 
Are you going to walk around in your undies, hair messed up, a mud pack on your face eating chocolate ice cream?
 
trancegirle said:
^^ Zephyr:\ you sure you want to be seeing ross the scumbag?

LOL m4dd0g you know our lust is special!
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At this stage of the lust cycle I just want to shag him senseless. Later on the whole "seeing him" thing will happen and after that the realisation that he isnt a prince disguised as a frog- hes just a bloody frog. Then disappointment then the search begins for another scumbag.
 
^^ You could go horse-riding or while at the beach throw an oversized beach ball with your girlfriends, like in the tampon ads?

Oooh i'm feelin' freeeee, to be just what I wanna beeee!

;)
 
zephyr said:
At this stage of the lust cycle I just want to shag him senseless. Later on the whole "seeing him" thing will happen and after that the realisation that he isnt a prince disguised as a frog- hes just a bloody frog. Then disappointment then the search begins for another scumbag.
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You should get some kind of government funding for all the pieces of shit you temporarily give hope to
 
samadhi said:
^^ You could go horse-riding or while at the beach throw an oversized beach ball with your girlfriends, like in the tampon ads?

Oooh i'm feelin' freeeee, to be just what I wanna beeee!

;)
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haha maybe!
 
nickyj said:
You should get some kind of government funding for all the pieces of shit you temporarily give hope to
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Well since I do have a "disability"- as you put it, I cant really have high expectations when it comes to guys can I?:p :D
 
Mary Poppins said:
I would be interested to know whether something has happened in the past that causes a negative association with 'falling in love' (or the complete and utter vulnerability that goes along with it) for those people who say they now don't (or prevent themselves from falling in love by looking at everything absolutely rationally....it's amazing how easy it is to logicise your way out of a crush)
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No, I'm just heartless. Or gay, I'm undecided. Gay would be nicer.
 
Mary Poppins said:
Dude, come on, you admit yourself you fall hard and fast often.

Don't make her sound like a bitch when she's pointing out not only the glaringly obvious, but the self-confessed glaringly obvious.
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yeah i admit it. I'm emotional and sensitive. I wear my heart on my sleeve. I live life with passion and i don't do things in halves. I know how i feel however.

This thread has ended up the reason why i said what i have is too special to share here. I was hoping to be wrong but i guess some people can't just maybe accept that silly little doofqueen that lives in a land of pink fairy floss could actually have something real here.

Thanks to those that expressed their happiness for me :)
 
I wouldn't normally do this, and I'm fairly sure you're going to interpret this as me picking on you, but let me caveat the following with the fact that I am trying to illustrate to you WHY people are wondering how you can fall for/fall in love with people so frequently.

These are all from this singles thread alone. I am just trying to show you that it comes from YOU, not other people casting aspersions etc etc.

I'm extremely happy that you are happy DQ, don't get me wrong, but your behaviour follows a pattern: which you (when you want to be, ie. not in the first flushes of a new relationship) are fully aware of and acknowledge.

This could be the real thing, this one could be forever, you might have found the one. But don't expect people to immediately accept a truth that defies logic based on past experience, and don't get defensive and act as if they've greatly insulted or wronged you.

That being said all the best for this one - he sounds great and I really hope it all works out for you :)




doofqueen said:
No, I mean a more than "just friends" kiss after cuddling watching dvds all arvo.... and then him coming over for dinner the next day and stealing kisses all afternoon that day

hrmmmmm

shouldnt go here....

why do i always do self destructive things?
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doofqueen said:
i'm over dating
then i'm not
i want a boyfriend
then i dont
i want an open relationship
then i'm not sure
i want just playmates
then maybe i think i want more

bah!
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doofqueen said:
So what’s a fairly sexual kinda girl supposed to do when she starts seeing someone she really likes, looses interest in everyone else she has been dating, is over just having playmates and is thinking of having something “serious” with this guy (he has totally changed her mind about her “no relationship faze”) and he tells her that he has reconnected to his faith recently and that if they were to pursue a relationship there would be no sex before marriage? This is doomed huh? :\
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doofqueen said:
Fuck! :(

- well actually - no, there will be none of that it seems....

I was talking to an ex today via sms and briefly spoke about the situation and she said it was "so me" - that i always seem to want what i can't have.....

gah - maybe it could work... i could go to church and stuff.... sex isn't THAT important? Maybe i'll want to get married....

ummmmm
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I don't really care Jill. I know it seems like boy who cried wolf (which is also why i didn't want to share this here - cos i predicted right - wow i know other peoples behaviour patterns as well as my own - crazy huh?) I have nothing to prove and justify to anyone. People can think what they want.

The above that you selected is just my confused times. I'm not confessing to being in love at all. I know what i have and i know how i feel and people can laugh behind my back and judge me all they like. It's only bluelight :)
 
doofqueen said:
yThis thread has ended up the reason why i said what i have is too special to share here. I was hoping to be wrong but i guess some people can't just maybe accept that silly little doofqueen that lives in a land of pink fairy floss could actually have something real here.
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lmao!

To rephrase... "I know I live in a world of fantastic delusions, but my god you people are stupid for pointing out some possible realities."
 
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