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***Singles Thread*** A kit kat chunky stole my relationship!

^ as you say its technically deceitful but im not judging anyone negatively as its the intention of the act by which you judge character

Its a fine line between 'pride in appearance' and 'insecurity in appearance' (brought about by peers and societal pressures on females)
If you can happily/unselfconsciously go on a night out without makeup, heels, etc, i'll concede the former
 
^^ That's why i can say that... you know i can quite happily head out and about sans make up and heels. I take pride in my appearance, but i'm very aware that all that external shit doesn't make me who i am, it merely occasionally enhances what i've already got. :)
 
See, i love glamming up as well, but i know that i don't need to, and i don't with the intention of misrepresenting myself as someone i'm not.

I think it's all - all being red lips, stilettos, short dresses, push-up bras and plunging necklines - fantastic as long as the intentions are kosher. :)
 
samadhi said:
^^ That's why i can say that... you know i can quite happily head out and about sans make up and heels. I take pride in my appearance, but i'm very aware that all that external shit doesn't make me who i am, it merely occasionally enhances what i've already got. :)
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i totally agree:)

personally im not a big fan on heels regardless lol & have never been one to perk up the boobys, i like them the small little size they are & would prefer not to have my chest gawked at anyway. i love dressing up for a night out but see me day to day & you (unfortunatly lol) will get nothin but honesty and im happy with that.

the one vice i have is to cover my freckles/bags as i do not like them and i can do something about it.
if someone believes thats me being dishonest or self consious then sure it probably is, im not going to deny that but i really really dont see why anyone else would care besides myself. its not like i wont choose to go out without it, i do quiet often just if i have the choice, why not?
if i was a bit better looking then maybe sure id go out without it but im not so thats what i do. if someone judges me on that then thats not my problem, people should know what you look like has nothing to do with the person you are.

btw not at all aimed at your post m4ddog!!:) just imo
 
ValeTudo said:
I dunno. Call me shallow but frankly I'd spewin more if girls didn't do any of that stuff :D
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I'd be happier if you dudes would quit it with the faux mohawks and gel in your hair and salmon pink popped collar tshirts.
 
^ I have witnessed you making out with a guy wearing a salmon pink popped collar shirt! :p ;) :D
 
zephyr said:
I'd be happier if you dudes would quit it with the faux mohawks and gel in your hair and salmon pink popped collar tshirts.
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I have never worn any such attire ~
Infact I have a closely cropped haircut as per military guidelines and i do most of my shopping at BigW 8(

More of a "closest thing to the bed when i get up" kind of guy personally :D Infact today that happens to be a wrap around sarong and i cork hat :D
 
samadhi said:
^^ That's why i can say that... you know i can quite happily head out and about sans make up and heels. I take pride in my appearance, but i'm very aware that all that external shit doesn't make me who i am, it merely occasionally enhances what i've already got. :)
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You're a braver girl than I!!

Funnily enough lots of people comment on how 'natural' I look but it couldn't be further from the truth. I never leave the house without foundation, mascara and lip gloss at least. Usually blush too. I might, on horrifically hungover days venture to the corner shop with just my sunglasses on but I'll at least look in the mirror first, wipe old mascara off from under my eyes and brush the bedhair down. I guess the trick with makeup a la naturelle is to be very strategic and minimalist about it so it looks like you've just emerged from a brisk walk through a forest or a run at the beach! *not* from the Circe De Solie.

Some people are lucky they look really good naturally sans makeup, authentically (like you, Samadhi ;) ). The rest of us like to take advantage of means at our disposal to come up to standard.

REAL natural look: blotchy, red-here and there, white other places, little blemishes, dark circles under the eyes, no eyebrows, pale thin lips = Arrrghh! Run away kiddies! and 2 = yeah I REALLY do look my age.

Strategic natural look: 5 minutes to lightly dab foundation on, slick mascara (okay, fuckit, I'll be honest, it's usually eyeshadow in 2 neutral tones as well, and brown eyeliner flicked out to the edges - almond shaped eyes in under 30 seconds!), light flush of peach blush and lipgloss and I feel like I'm somewhat human again.

The variation of this theme for night-time is darker lipstick. That's all.

I don't own a pair of low heels except for the sneakers I use to exercise in. Even my flip flop/thongs have some sort of a heel. I'm a short arse, I feel like a right dumpling in flats! Does my arse need to be any *lower* to the ground than it is currently? ;) I think not.

Luckily, I have the boobie department covered, that's all naturelle.

BTW, what the fuck am I doing in this thread? :D
 
zephyr said:
I never said we werent pal, it doesnt affect me when they are though- so I dont really give a shit if they are.
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Well if you don't care how some women are towards others(Towards men in this case.),cause it doesn't affect you.I'd say you are getting the karma you deserve,for being so selfish.
 
there's still lots around, you just don't hear much from them cos there's less to discuss than there is about single life.
 
they all self-destructed, Sid and Nancy style. ;) No there's still some around... I think, but Jo's right, do you really want to hear about our boring trips to the supermarket and Blockbuster video?. And this is the wrong thread, isn't it? Aren't you all angsting about singledom here?
 
^either that or hating being together but being too proud to end it because all of aus social will laugh and sneer about bl relationships always being doomed...
 
To all da haterz:

Be very careful if you make a woman cry, because God counts her tears. The woman came out of a man's rib. Not from his feet to be walked on. Not from his head to be superior, but from the side to be equal. Under the arm to be protected, and next to the heart to be loved!!!

Preach it!
 
Duely noted. Actually yeah, get your own thread fools =P

joannie: I pondered that as i posted earlier. i guess the only way would be to just break it in slowly and hope no1 realises immediately. or do the big dramatic ITS OVER EVERYONE OH MY GOD and make a 7 page thread, with a poll (& a few incoherent posts about effects of communism on the marital home =D i jest)

Seriously heaven forbid it should happen but i wonder what the fallout would be like for a realtively "high profile" couple with a heavy joint-presence. This might not even pertain exclusively to bluelight, its just in crossed my mind given the prevalence of the internet in dating & socialising these days.

Would a breakup be no different to to normal life amongst friends? or would it be a big issue given the purpose of forums being to discuss things/gossip.
 
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