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Should I tell my friend about his girlfriend and my brother??

when you fuck an engaged/married woman, you should go into that thinking "hey if her man ever finds out I could lose a couple teeth." if not, then that person is a dumb ass

honestly - he's lucky the guy just wanted to use his fist. this is how people get shot and stabbed, and this is the oldest excuse in the book
 
MrNoDramaMan101 said:
I came home to see my brother (45mins ago) and seeing where he was at I went to his room to see if he was asleep and walked in on him and my best friend (been knowing since I was 2 years old) girl friend having sex. My mouth dropped now I am stuck in between a rock they begged me not to tell Franklin (my best friend) what was going on the past 8 months, 8 MONTHS this been going on, my brother also said if I was a real brother then I wouldn't tell Franklin and his girl friend begged me to the point where she had tears, telling me not to tell my best friend. Its just not right and I would feel wrong if I ratted on my brother cause we are real close brothers and I love him to death but I love Franklin just as much like a brother but I am caught in between a rock like I said and I need to know what to do. Should I tell my best friend or keep it from him and don't rat my brother and my best friends girlfriend out. Thank you guys

P.s My best friend and his girlfriend are getting married in 3 weeks this is crazy.
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they are getting married? FUCK YES TELL HIM
 
axl blaze said:
when you fuck an engaged/married woman, you should go into that thinking "hey if her man ever finds out I could lose a couple teeth." if not, then that person is a dumb ass

honestly - he's lucky the guy just wanted to use his fist. this is how people get shot and stabbed, and this is the oldest excuse in the book
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I agree sir my brother will just have to get over his ass-whipping and you have a good day:-)
 
Morphling said:
Man. Do NOT feel bad. What were you supposed to do, keep letting it go on, let your best friend marry this cheating bitch, and let your brother continue to bang your best friend's wife? Please. That's just not on. That would have made YOU a piece of shit, which you totally are NOT.

I'd like to hope that my friends are like you, dude. I'd like to hope that my little brothers are like you. What you did was commendable, don't let anyone tell you otherwise. Yeah, it got ugly, but I think you handled things as well as could be expected. You gave her the option of being a woman and breaking it to her fiance herself, and did she do it? Hell no. If anything, she has culpability in the fact that your brother got his ass beat, as she could have prevented that by being a decent person and doing it herself! I can't believe your brother tried to make up some fucking excuse, gods, he's also responsible for the fact he got beat the fuck down on top of the fact that he was fucking her!

If anything, I would have been tempted to let it go on. I'm sure you did the right thing, pulling your best friend off him before something really bad happened, like his death, or cracking his skull or winding up paralyzed or something. There's a good chance I would have just sat there...you're a better man than I! Or perhaps just less vindictive lol. I've been cheated on before by someone I had plans to marry, so maybe I'm a bit biased by that fact.

Your brother CONTINUES to be an utter bitch by the fact that he's trying to press charges. Can't take responsibility for the fact he was fucking an engaged woman for eight goddamn months, can't man up to the fact that you had to be a human being with an actual heart by not being able to stand for what was going on, can't be a man and take a beating he WELL deserved, and runs to the cops like a cunt when he can't defend himself from the guy whose lady he was fucking. I mean, come the fuck on, he expected to not get hit for fucking someone's goddamn FIANCE, or all things? They say some guys think with their dicks but that takes the cake. I cannot.

Shit, I'd go make a deposition to the police about what went down, and if they try to pull you into court, go and testify! Make for damn sure your best friend asks for a jury trial, if it comes to that..no jury in their right minds would convict your friend with what happened to him!

Stick by your best friend, but your brother needs to man the fuck up, and someone should still kick that bitch in the pussy. I swear....
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If there was a way to vote your answer as the best I would but my brother dropped the charges..he knows now that he would have a hard time convincing the jury to side with him
 
I feel like, had you not told your friend, the whole thing would have blown up in your face and everyone would have wound up hating you anyway.

It would have gone down a little something like this: your friend would have found out somehow, indirectly, and he would have found out that you knew about it but didn't tell him, and so he would have hated you for not telling him; your brother would think that you said something to your friend, and so he would end up hating you as well. It all would have blown up in your face, I bet, so you definitely did the right thing... and at least you kept your friend this way. :)
 
verso said:
I feel like, had you not told your friend, the whole thing would have blown up in your face and everyone would have wound up hating you anyway.

It would have gone down a little something like this: your friend would have found out somehow, indirectly, and he would have found out that you knew about it but didn't tell him, and so he would have hated you for not telling him; your brother would think that you said something to your friend, and so he would end up hating you as well. It all would have blown up in your face, I bet, so you definitely did the right thing... and at least you kept your friend this way. :)
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I agree whole heartedly with you friend my brother will get over it big deal..it's his fault anyway I feel NO sympathy for him.
 
This is where, if you lived in the ghetto, you could just get your cousin Tisha to come and kick the girls ass too!
 
Captain.Heroin said:
Ever hear that message "don't shoot the messenger"? Well, the
messenger always gets shot. Might as well tell the truth and be honest as you are getting shot anyways.
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I do not mind getting "shot" in this situation... my brother was pretty slimy for banging another man's fiancee for 8 months and if he want's to be mad at me for telling the truth about for exposing his ass then so be it...I couldn't let my friend that was supposed to be getting married in three weeks marry a woman that had the nerve to be cheating on him when so close to engagement time...I mean really what was the point of her even marrying him if she was going to be banging another man??
 
You're a stand-up guy in my book! You didn't take the easy way out, you did what you knew in your heart was right. Integrity is everything to me. A lot of people are so worried about their image and what people think of them, superficial bullshit, but something like that shows what kind of person you really are...a good friend.
 
Man this is an awful situation. You need to do something. How would you feel if this happened to you, and no one told you?
 
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