Drugs for sure. I don't enjoy random sex with strangers. In fact I can't enjoy it at all unless it's someone I love on a deep level and that love is returned. I agree with the posters that think sex is much too easy these days, in fact that's why I'm turned off to the whole concept. There was a time when you could actually go out with a bunch of different people, and sex was not the norm, and not expected. It's turned into something dreadfully generic as far as I'm concerned, save for perhaps when love is added.