Sex Vs. Drugs
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GenericMind said:
I'm grouping all sexual activity together here. I just don't think there is anything better than an orgasm... I realize that that sounds kind of crude, but I can't possibly see drugs being better than that. I guess everyone must be different though.
GenericMind said:
You dont have mind blowing sex alot do you. i dont like sex cuz the value placed on it by society or what the hell ever, i enjoy it cuz being with someone who youre totally on the level with and completely in love with produces some sex thats out of this world and not many people experience. fuck drugs, the sex with someone you truly love when both of you are killer in bed is some shit that beats out all those damn drugs and i have IV'ed heroin before so dont even start.
realm
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Lacey i've had amazing mind blowing sex before just not since i broke up with my ex. Oh well i'll have it again someday ![:\](https://bluelight.org/xf/BL_Images/Orig_Emoji/wrygrin.gif "wry grin :\")
For now im limited to one night stands. Oh and that idea that women often go unpleasured by their 2 minute man is purely false in my case, often the chick jumps off my dick first and doesnt care what i do afterwards. Damn ho's lol
For now im limited to one night stands. Oh and that idea that women often go unpleasured by their 2 minute man is purely false in my case, often the chick jumps off my dick first and doesnt care what i do afterwards. Damn ho's lol
GenericMind
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I've had plenty of great sex. That doesn't change the point of my post. All that "When two people are truly in love with each other sex is transcendent, blah, blah, blah" is bullshit. All the Hollywood romance flicks in the world won't change that.
Love = Certain chemical changes in your brain that naturally occur so people will want to perpetuate the species.
Drugs = Certain chemical changes in your brain that are intentionally produced by ingesting substances.
If society had placed the importance on drugs that it does on love and sex you'd be telling me the exact opposite of what you are now. Until that happens, check this out. It made me cry 2.5 times.
Love = Certain chemical changes in your brain that naturally occur so people will want to perpetuate the species.
Drugs = Certain chemical changes in your brain that are intentionally produced by ingesting substances.
If society had placed the importance on drugs that it does on love and sex you'd be telling me the exact opposite of what you are now. Until that happens, check this out. It made me cry 2.5 times.
GenericMind said:
Yes, everything i feel in a relationship is purely a product of hollywood and society. 8( especially when nothing about the relationship matches up with anything thats common in relationships and the way society sees relationships today. You win, yay. imma just stop right now before the ignorance in what youre saying makes me say somethin stupid.
GenericMind
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lacey k said:
That sounds like a cop-out to me.
GenericMind said:That sounds like a cop-out to me.
Yea, not wasting your time to defend or justify a opinion that needs no explanation or justification, to someone who believes youre wrong no matter what you say, is a cop out.
GenericMind
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lacey k said:Yea, not wasting your time to defend or justify a opinion that needs no explanation or justification, to someone who believes youre wrong no matter what you say, is a cop out.
I don't think you're wrong no matter what you say, I think you're wrong until you say something convincing. "You're so ignorant I can't even be bothered to respond" isn't very convincing.
If you think that civil debate is a waste of time though, I'll shut up.
GenericMind
Bluelighter
^ I think that illustrates my point pretty well.
slantedenchanted
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Wtf? Who cares if you get mad props from your friends from banging some hot chick? I actually find sex to be alot worse then drugs, if I'm taking some pills I'm taking something that's carefully made by a pharmaceutical company and gets tested by lots of people before I do it. I've had unprotected sexual encounters with some females that had me freaking out that I had some STD or some shit in the morning. I almost fainted in health class during all the discussions of all these STDs and their effects on you.
I don't mean any drugs tho. I'd most definitely take good coke and alot of benzos or a strong opiate over sex with a decently hot chick. If someone were to offer me a few hits of a blunt or 30 minutes of anything with MzFluffy. I'd definitely side with sex.
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GenericMind said:
How am i supposed to argue with someone who believes that my opinions aint my own and are forced on me by how society has molded me. theres no comeback for that cuz no matter what i say you just bring up "if it wasnt for the importance placed on it by society" bla bla bla. i would take sex over drugs, i have had better feelings from sex than ive had from drugs, cuz drugs are missing one thing and thats love...straight up drugs feel great but its just a feeling.....the feelings i get after sex are more than i could even describe. and i would take that. if i could never do drugs again, or could choose to never be intimate with my boyfriend again i would take the sex, straight up. thats way more important to me, it aint just sex, it aint bangin, it aint none of that shit, if you say you cant get transcendent feelings from sex then you aint had that kind of sex cuz i assure you it aint a myth from hollywood or romance novels. but when you try and discuss somethin you personally prefer with someone who thinks you just prefer it cuz thats what youre told to believe, its pointless.
Akoto
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shotthrutubes said:
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GenericMind
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lacey k said:
You think Eroticism is love, I don't. Nuff said. I'm glad that you get so much elation from sex with someone you're infatuated with but I think it's all a creation of your imagination, kind of like those Evangelists you see on TV who pass out from the power of God.
I think I'll stick with the tangible effects that drugs give. Aside from tolerance they always stay constant while those transcendent feelings you're talking about can completely disappear in any number of ways.
arizona83
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sex or sex on drugs
Sex is better than drugs if it's with someone you really love. Some of the most fulfilling sex I've ever had was not even that physically thrlling or pleasurable in itself; but it was the fact that I felt so close and cherished while it was taking place. It's a spiritual and emotional act as well as a physical one. It's not only about physical pleasure; sex (making love) is more about connecting. If I have an orgasm it's a bonus but it's not the be-all. I also love giving pleasure because I am a generous person. If I'm honest, too, I also get an ego trip from being able to give a guy a wonderful orgasm with my mouth. I love tasting his sweat creamy cum, but again, it's only fulflling if it's with someone I love. Mind you, I'm being nostaglic becuase I've been celibately married for many years.
Masturbating to orgasm is almost like taking a drug because it's not a fulfilling act in itself but it gives one physical pleasure. It's never as satisfying as true making love and intimacy; but it's better than nothing.
Masturbating to orgasm is almost like taking a drug because it's not a fulfilling act in itself but it gives one physical pleasure. It's never as satisfying as true making love and intimacy; but it's better than nothing.
I also think sex can be like a drug if you're lusting after someone whom you really fancy. I've felt this way about a particular individual and it's almost as though I go into heat when I think about him and the times we've been together in the past. Thinking of him or even just talking to him makes me far randier than any drug could!
GenericMind said:
I would hardly say a years long relationship is infatuation buddy. How the hell do you know what I think is love? You dont even know the vaguest details about my relationship with my BF. I would say that not knowing either person involved or any information about their relationship would be a pretty good deterrent to judging and commenting on the relationship, for most people. But, since you know everything, i guess that whole "being clueless about what youre talkin about" thing dont apply. My bad for knowing what I feel.
You proved my point exactly.
Me: I dont wanna bother, cuz youre just gonna try and discredit what im saying.
You: No go ahead, say it.
Me: OK fine. I like this because _____. This is how I feel.
You: Actually, youre wrong. You may think you know, but in reality, just like Ayn Rand, Im the only one who knows the truth of whats really going on, and you know nothing. So, Im right.
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