Sex "addiction" on Dr. Phil

[blue1995]

Just using that age as an example. It should really go without saying, that people grow up at different rates, and ~15 is generally regarded to be a rather angst-y time of one's life. Way to pick out a detail and totally miss the obvious point.

You don't know anything about my drug use and attempting to throw something like that in my face when 1.) this a drug forum, duh 2.) you are a member of this forum, too so point that finger right back at yourself 3.) it has absolutely nothing at all to do with the point being made on either side, just shows you know you have no real leg to stand on in this argument and you're talking out your ass.

 

[RedRum OG]

I don't really get what your point is, this is not clearly written

Monogamous relationships are very popular all across the world, accepted in many, many countries, cultures, religions, and peoples.

Why the hate towards America?


Sex with one person can be satisfying if you know how, it is by no means a punishment or unnatural thing for this to happen

 

[Ksa]

Just using that age as an example. It should really go without saying, that people grow up at different rates, and ~15 is generally regarded to be a rather angst-y time of one's life. Way to pick out a detail and totally miss the obvious point.

You don't know anything about my drug use and attempting to throw something like that in my face when 1.) this a drug forum, duh 2.) you are a member of this forum, too so point that finger right back at yourself 3.) it has absolutely nothing at all to do with the point being made on either side, just shows you know you have no real leg to stand on in this argument and you're talking out your ass.

I never said drugs were bad, I believe it's a beautiful experience that everyone should have. If you claim you are not self-centered, why do you take drugs? If you were not self-centered, you would give them to your boyfriend, parents or children. Why enjoy them by yourself, they too deserve such beautiful experiences. It is selfish! You got a sweet, goody-goody there going on and you keep it to yourself. Share it! To the very last pill. Keep none to yourself.

Taking drugs is one of the most self-centered approaches. You contradict yourself. That's why you dislike the argument. You give yourself no way out.

 

[blue1995]

Why not break the legacy, set yourself free of all preconceptions, and what people think life is about, because they likely have it wrong.

And listen to you, instead? LOLZ

 

[Ksa]

I don't really get what your point is, this is not clearly written

Monogamous relationships are very popular all across the world, accepted in many, many countries, cultures, religions, and peoples.

Why the hate towards America?


Sex with one person can be satisfying if you know how, it is by no means a punishment or unnatural thing for this to happen

No I love North America, wouldn't live here if I disliked it. My hate is for doctrines. For people who tell you how you should lead your life and how you should not. When someone claims his lifestyle is the right way, I have to prove to him it's not. That's not a doctrine, it's de-programming. It's showing him he got mislead into believing something that's not part of reality.

 

[neversickanymore]

My hate is for doctrines. For people who tell you how you should lead your life and how you should not.

Personally the opinions of others used to cause problems for me, mostly in the forum of social anxiety.. Then I realized that all I had to do was live the correct way for ME.. the only person that knows whats right for me is me.. Fuck what other people say is the right way and Double Fuck what they think. There is no one correct way to live life for everyone. Now I do what I want to do and nicely tell people to GO FLY A FUCKIN KITE, when they try and show me how im not doing it RIGHT and how I need to do this or that. How do they know what I need to do and how I need to do it.. they dont even know where I'm going or how I want to get there. I love how some of these clowns think I want what they do out of life8(

 

[Noodle]

I feel the same way about everything I choose or not choose to do.

 

[lola]

Yep OP, I've got to say that for someone who claims to hate dogmas, doctrines and rules you seem to have a pretty dogmatic doctrine with rules of your own about what relationships mean to millions of people you've never met, what the realities of their lives are and how they could be happier.

There is no one-size-fits-all. Many people can be perfectly happy in monogamous relationships. I can't; perhaps you can't; others are. Everyone's choices in their own lives are valid and I'm not nearly arrogant enough to think I know better than another person what they feel or what they need or desire. Look after your own happiness first, don't watch Dr. Phil and don't think you have the solution to everyone's (imaginary) problems.

 

[Johnny1]

Ksa, I don't think you understand women very well or the purpose of families. There's a reason why the marriage & family structure has existed for so many years and is predominant in almost every culture.

But more importantly, you seem to be way out there with many of your posts in the past few days. What's going on? Does it have anything to do with your avatar? Are you frying your brain? I don't mean to come across as critical or dismissive. The way you are talking is like you're on a different wavelength than everyone else. Have you always been on this wavelength, or is this new?

 

[Ksa]

Always man :D

 

[Ksa]

Ksa, I don't think you understand women very well or the purpose of families. There's a reason why the marriage & family structure has existed for so many years and is predominant in almost every culture.

But more importantly, you seem to be way out there with many of your posts in the past few days. What's going on? Does it have anything to do with your avatar? Are you frying your brain? I don't mean to come across as critical or dismissive. The way you are talking is like you're on a different wavelength than everyone else. Have you always been on this wavelength, or is this new?

Anatomy specialists were just like you when they noticed there were some nerves in the human body that were uselessly long, that went in serpentine for no apparent reason. So they thought, it was like this for 350 million years, there must be a reason why the nerve is uselessly long. It turns out there is none. Nature got it wrong. The nerve could be shorter and prevent dozens of diseases, but it didn't bother too much if it was longer so, that's how it stayed.

The argument that, because something was predominant for thousands, or millions of years, that it must be right is naive. Just like the invention of the cigarette was naive. They copied aboriginals living in the trees saying the same thing, these people smoked the pipe got thousands of years, it must be right. And it was wrong, the cigarette turned out to be the most harmful nicotine delivery system ever created by man. Nicotine gum was far superior.

Also, insults are not arguments. I am a Diablo II player with a famous youtube channel "proxyspam". I can debitate so many insults per minute that I could tell off 7 persons at a time and win. Don't try that with me.

 

[Johnny1]

Not trying to insult you. If you've always been this way, then more power to you, man.

 

[Captain.Heroin]

You forget how joyless pseudo-religious and anti-spiritual the people of North America have become, eh? It's easy to forget that, too.

Get some X-ray goggles and watch your neighbors/roommates (the latter is more enjoyable TBPH) go through abusive relationships... watch them quarrel and bicker and bitch and moan and plea in agony. That's their God.

Before you know it, you'll be shocked to find that - GASP - some people may actually enjoy materialistic existence and not just see it as a curse upon their wretched bodies. Hi, my name is Cpt nice to meet you. A lot of Bluelighters will see what you mean KSA, and some of them (along with all of MURRKA) won't and can't. They're brainwashed into a severe degree of counter-phobic love of bad things and bad feelings out of fear of THE INVERSION OF BAD, not so much "good" if you will (as neither exist).

Free your children of...family.

Giving up all children born in the year 2014 sounds like a great idea to force the US federal government into a deeper recession! I'm in. *throws away condoms*

In all seriousness, I agree fully with you.

 

[neversickanymore]

Ksa, I don't think you understand women very well or the purpose of families.

Wait.. I was picturing KSA as a woman. Not disrespecting of making a joke, we just dont cross paths to much on BL so are you male or female?

 

[Ksa]

Wait.. I was picturing KSA as a woman. Not disrespecting of making a joke, we just dont cross paths to much on BL so are you male or female?

I am a single man, atheist. Ksa means kick some ass, not sure what woman would choose that as account name xD

 

[Noodle]

I could see a single butch lesbian doing just that!



Your posts entertain, even if your tone is condescending and smug. The name fits.

 

[Ksa]

I could see a single butch lesbian doing just that!



Your posts entertain, even if your tone is condescending and smug. The name fits.

Thanks :D

 

[laugh]

Dr Phil lol

 

[Jabberwocky]

I love this thread. The opening post made my giggle for about 10 minutes, so thanks, Ksa :D

I'm just wondering, so if Dr Phil refers to "sex addiction", whether this type of addiction would then fit into the "addiction is a disease model". If so, then through logical deduction, having sex with a multitude of partners (or even with one single partner) on a regular basis is a disease?

At what point does enjoyment through sex become addiction? Are we not allowed to enjoy ourselves by having sex? There are other species of animals that are thought to have orgies for fun, for example dolphins...are dolphins sex addicts too?

 

[Ksa]

I love this thread. The opening post made my giggle for about 10 minutes, so thanks, Ksa :D

I'm just wondering, so if Dr Phil refers to "sex addiction", whether this type of addiction would then fit into the "addiction is a disease model". If so, then through logical deduction, having sex with a multitude of partners (or even with one single partner) on a regular basis is a disease?

At what point does enjoyment through sex become addiction? Are we not allowed to enjoy ourselves by having sex? There are other species of animals that are thought to have orgies for fun, for example dolphins...are dolphins sex addicts too?

"Addiction is the continued repetition of a behavior despite adverse consequences"

Let's define what are the adverse consequences of such sexual addiction, let's say, through masturbation, so smart people don't pick on us with STDs:

- you cannot buy the golden iPhone of superior quality because you are less productive and have to settle for the colored one.
- you might lose interest in watching TV and are no longer exposed to adds, commercials and brainwashing.
- you might reject the basic assumptions of civilization, especially the importance of material possessions.
- you might stop buying crap you don't need and collapse the economy further.
- Martha Steward will lose money if you don't buy duvets. You cannot do that to her.
- you might lose interest in marriage and the divorce lawyers will have to change careers...universities will lose money if less students register law school. Bad!

As you see my friend, sexual addiction is a real problem and needs to be dealt with harshly!