Strawberry_lovemuffin
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phase_dancer said:Friends always make the most special lovers in my experience. Whether that's one at a time or all in one bed together
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phase_dancer!
phase_dancer said:Friends always make the most special lovers in my experience. Whether that's one at a time or all in one bed together
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phase_dancer!
onetwothreefour said:i used to like the relationship idea. definitely a past tense there.
now, i advocate (but can never achieve) casual sex. it's an unfortunate position. however, i'm not totally averse to having a r/ship, it's just the fact that i'm so fussy, and really doubt that i'll find anyone that i could properly connect with.
*sigh*
Is it not possible to be happy and independant IN a relationship??
DJC* said:This question is not related to anyone in particular here on BL, or to any one post made above, it is more an open question that has stemed from posts already made, and to generate more discussion:
Is it not possible to be happy and independant IN a relationship??
I've heard a few people say they feel independant while single, and sure, thats true, but why should you lose your independance IN a relationship?? Maybe these people haven't found their independance yet. What is independance?? When do you know you have it?? When do you know if you need more??
Also a few people have said how when single they can go out and have wild fun and do what they want....again, if you weren't getting that from a relationship, then obviously something was missing.
I'd like to think that the perfect relationship is somewhere in between being single and being together. A compromise. I hope to find that again one day.
DJC*
I'd like to think that the perfect relationship is somewhere in between being single and being together. A compromise. I hope to find that again one day.
I reckon that's why people are getting married and starting families later these days, because they need time to work it all out.