haste
Bluelight Crew
- Joined
- May 21, 2000
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Catax and Taliana - I'm glad I'm not the only one in this boat
I think one of my problems is that I can tend to be over critical on people - I thinks its a bad fault to have and I've been trying to work on this. I mean everything is a risk and its fine to be cautious, but I don't think you'll ever get to know someone if you don't drop your guard and let them in.
Easier said then done. I guess one of my issues is that I also have to consider my son as part of the mix, and in reality he is part of the mix. Let me also tell you that signle dads also have a stigma like single mums - I know not everyone is like that, but you'd be suprised how many people have flown the other way when they realise I have a kid. Its not easy for someone to accept the responsiblity of someone elses child. Though I don't want someone to be his mother, he has a mother, there still is some responsibility there.
Things aren't always so simple, or I have a habit of making the complicated - I'm not sure
I think one of my problems is that I can tend to be over critical on people - I thinks its a bad fault to have and I've been trying to work on this. I mean everything is a risk and its fine to be cautious, but I don't think you'll ever get to know someone if you don't drop your guard and let them in.
Easier said then done. I guess one of my issues is that I also have to consider my son as part of the mix, and in reality he is part of the mix. Let me also tell you that signle dads also have a stigma like single mums - I know not everyone is like that, but you'd be suprised how many people have flown the other way when they realise I have a kid. Its not easy for someone to accept the responsiblity of someone elses child. Though I don't want someone to be his mother, he has a mother, there still is some responsibility there.
Things aren't always so simple, or I have a habit of making the complicated - I'm not sure