im from the 'no one but yourself can interpret dreams' group, there is just so many meaning that one can attribute to something.
for instance a reoccurring dream about monkeys will have SEVERE differences in significance and meaning if the person dreaming the dream was, viscously attacked by a monkey, as opposed to someone who owned a dearly loved pet monkey.
of course some people are very good at seeing underlying themes when others may not, so no offense intended PiP(you should have a shot at my Sleep Paralysis episode that left me shaken BADLY)
anyway regarding your issue, i guess you got to figure out what is bothering you, if i was you, i would keep a dream journal, when ever you awake from a dream right it down straight away, this is a basic step into the realm of lucid dreaming, im not saying start practicing lucid dreaming(but that might help you, giving you some control over the dream), but it will give you a better hold on what is going on in your dreams and could help.
being as it is reoccurring you most likely have a good grasp already, then I would look into sleep patterns, diet, room conditions etc dreams only bother you when you remember them, either way you got to work something out....