Okay so this will be long. sorry in advance.
I am currently dating this guy I dated back in 9th grade. We broke up because he was moving. Years later we started talking again and eventually started dating.
I was uncertain about dating him at first because he had a daughter with another girl and I am a bit uneasy around kids (I'm only 19 and not ready to help raise a kid). He only has her every other weekend and we don't live together so it isn't really an issue with us.
I used to be friends with two of his exes who both started slandering my name when they found out I was dating him and they gave up their friendships with me. (I blocked them on facebook so they can't contact me)
Well the problem we have is his inablity to reply to my texts or answer my calls. When we see each other he will comment about something I said so I know he got the text yet when I ask why he didn't bother to reply he basically says he didn't feel the need to. I even told him I don't like that because it seems disrespectful and hurts. He has also made promises to call me and he never does until either I call him or message him and have to remind him. Rarely will he keep to his word without me having to remind him he promised.
Yesterday into today we had our biggest fight. He had promised he'd come to my house this week since I had a few days off work then yesterday he tells me his friend is going to offer him $800 to help him move. I'm kinda related to this friend of his (he is the brother of my brother in law) and I know he isn't the type to pay off his debts to people he owes money to (he still owes my sister $300 for paying a fine years ago). I told my boyfriend that I really didn't like it how everytime his friend made some last minute plan to do something he'd cancel our time we were supposed to be together and then get mad at me for being upset he cancled.
Anyways he got me so mad today that I ended up telling him it was either me or the money because I was tired of feeling second best and how he always is willing t cancle plans with me for other people but not the other way around. He told me he chooses the money but still "wanted to be with me and loved me" then the rest of the day he ignored me until after I was at work and told me someone stole his friend money so the moving thing was off. The' he texted me again while I was still at work saying he found a ride tomy house so i didnt need to pick him up on my way home and to just go home and wait for him there. He called me then and told me the same thing but never told me when.
Ive been home for over two hours and it is now 1am and he hasnt shown up. He wont anser me when i calld or texted him and honestly im feeling both worried and mad but mostly mad. I am really tired amd need sleep but i wont leave my door unlocked because i dnt trust people. What do you think is going on? Should i just go to bed? Or wait up?
I am currently dating this guy I dated back in 9th grade. We broke up because he was moving. Years later we started talking again and eventually started dating.
I was uncertain about dating him at first because he had a daughter with another girl and I am a bit uneasy around kids (I'm only 19 and not ready to help raise a kid). He only has her every other weekend and we don't live together so it isn't really an issue with us.
I used to be friends with two of his exes who both started slandering my name when they found out I was dating him and they gave up their friendships with me. (I blocked them on facebook so they can't contact me)
Well the problem we have is his inablity to reply to my texts or answer my calls. When we see each other he will comment about something I said so I know he got the text yet when I ask why he didn't bother to reply he basically says he didn't feel the need to. I even told him I don't like that because it seems disrespectful and hurts. He has also made promises to call me and he never does until either I call him or message him and have to remind him. Rarely will he keep to his word without me having to remind him he promised.
Yesterday into today we had our biggest fight. He had promised he'd come to my house this week since I had a few days off work then yesterday he tells me his friend is going to offer him $800 to help him move. I'm kinda related to this friend of his (he is the brother of my brother in law) and I know he isn't the type to pay off his debts to people he owes money to (he still owes my sister $300 for paying a fine years ago). I told my boyfriend that I really didn't like it how everytime his friend made some last minute plan to do something he'd cancel our time we were supposed to be together and then get mad at me for being upset he cancled.
Anyways he got me so mad today that I ended up telling him it was either me or the money because I was tired of feeling second best and how he always is willing t cancle plans with me for other people but not the other way around. He told me he chooses the money but still "wanted to be with me and loved me" then the rest of the day he ignored me until after I was at work and told me someone stole his friend money so the moving thing was off. The' he texted me again while I was still at work saying he found a ride tomy house so i didnt need to pick him up on my way home and to just go home and wait for him there. He called me then and told me the same thing but never told me when.
Ive been home for over two hours and it is now 1am and he hasnt shown up. He wont anser me when i calld or texted him and honestly im feeling both worried and mad but mostly mad. I am really tired amd need sleep but i wont leave my door unlocked because i dnt trust people. What do you think is going on? Should i just go to bed? Or wait up?