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Well if maybe you feel it was a mistake to break up, could you tell her this? Sometimes a break up is necessary to make you both reevaluate things in the relationship, and then work through them. Bu obvously if she doesn't want to/isnt ready to take another look at things then I guess its out of your hands.

I know someone has said it already once before, but if you're meant to be together, you will be. But maybe right now you need to be apart for that to happen. duck_racer and I split for a while a couple of years back, we were apart for a couple months, but we are stronger then ever now because of that.

Either way, don't lose faith in love. If not her, then there will be another woman out there for you. :)
 
I'm sure if Mugz' BL personality is anything to go by then finding willing partners won't be a problem.

Except when he's battering the stims of course. ;) <3

My ex came round last night as she was passing by, ate some chips and made me eat some of her chips as apparently I look ill. We had a laugh as always, like nothing had changed.

It got to the stage where it was getting dark so I was concerned about her getting home alright, but she didn't seem to be in a rush to do so. She also mentioned not being in work today.

Maybe she wanted me to suggest she stayed. I don't know. I just got upset about it, but not so she could tell. Silly me.

She went home and ate a cookie, I put on some sad songs.

Romance, eh? Fuck that.
 
^ sounds like she still sees you as a friend or she still see a future for ye together

Mugz: Been there in the same situation as you once, maybe 6 years ago. Was awful at first and all I thought about was my ex and nothing anyone said made me feel better. In the end I moved to a different area and just by chance for a new job. Started socialising again and as time went on I met more girls and started having fun again, the painful memories disolved over time. Some elements never go away I guess but thats life :\
 
**Gives Sam and Mugz a big wet kiss**
<3 Sorry things are a bit headfucky at the moment guys :\
But yea, as it's been said, it's just going to take time. How much time is different for everyone - It took me ~2-3 years to get over a past ex of mine. Had to completely get rid of everything that reminded me of her and not speak to her for ages.
I finally got over it though :) So if there's hope for me there's most certainly hope for yoonz ;)

Chinny - Eeep hun, sounds like Opiates aren't your cup of tea at all :\ It's odd how every person's Depression et al. is so chemically different - Opiates are pretty much the only thing that is certain to make me feel normal again :?

Speaking of which, just saw my guy (finally! He does make me wait :|) and he's said that there's been loads of busts in the area lately :\ So obviously he's a bit skittish and made me get as much as I could in one to minimise the risk / make him feel less paranoid.
Sounds like he may play it hush for a while.. Which would suck as he's my only contact.
But c'est la vie du bag'edz I suppose.
 
th3 s1aught3r said:
^ sounds like she still sees you as a friend or she still see a future for ye together
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Aye, it's just working out which. Probably that's true on her side too. As long as she's in my life I'm happy with that.

Kisses much appreciated Monsta. Could you perhaps exhale some of your toot next time too? Heroin would be so very, very nice, but having £20 between me and the workhousen means it ain't an option.

In any case, enjoy! <3
 
I shall indeed virtually exhale some toot your way, infact virtually have one ;)
And it's prolly a good thing you've not got the cash for it as it's always better to use when in a good and happy mindset than when in a bad and negative mindset :)

And thankyou! I am <3~^_^~<3
 
Break ups are shit! I haven't been with my ex for two years and I still can't stop thinking about her! She's moved on and got a new boyfriend and I'm still stuck in the same place! I mean I've been with other girls but I can't help but compair them to my ex, which means that any girl I meet has a lot to live up to. Don't really know how to get past this phase in my life, other than as previous posters have said TIME, but time goes so slowly when your looking for someone to love! I sort of wish I could be like my friends of my age who can be happy just going round having one night stands, it's just that I feel so much more comfortable when in a relationship and I have someone I can turn to in times of trouble, I mean I have friends I can turn to but they can't really comfort you in the same way a somebody your in love with! Anyways I don't think this is going anywhere so it's probably best to end it now
 
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Gah (((((( Acidtek )))))) I'm sorry mate :(
Try the "removing all trace of said ex" maybe? Unless you already have.
 
I'm sorry you're in that state, I was too about a eighteen months ago after two years away from an ex but it is better now. Had to do some painful things like consign boxes of mementoes to landfill but it was the right thing to do and now I just think she's a dick. It does get better.
 
lol i hate when that happens, chased mpa off a creme egg wrapper otha day as i was etizolamed up to fuck and was ko'in got singed ons on the left side, i think its cuz i chase right to left, or do i? i cant remember :\
 
Here you go Cherry :) Spoiled for choice now!
(Just NSFWing it due to it's vastness)
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^ Hahahah that made me smile, I needed that.

I'm quite blessed as I have long eye lashes, so its just the tips that have singed, so mascara will hide it well until they hopefully sort themeselves out. Stupid thing is, it wasn't me who did it.....I'd been doing my own lines, but my bf had the foil in his hand so I said do me a line, and he didn't check the flame on the lighter first.
 
jancrow said:
I'm sorry you're in that state, I was too about a eighteen months ago after two years away from an ex but it is better now. Had to do some painful things like consign boxes of mementoes to landfill but it was the right thing to do and now I just think she's a dick. It does get better.
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Agreed. Nice new avatar btw.

The important thing to do is not let it destroy your confidence or self-worth.

I allowed it to once and it stopped me being able to be in a proper relationship for three years. Though I had a couple of fun flings during that time. And some casual sex ranging from passable to terrible. You're right though Acidtek; it can be fun, but it doesn't quite fill the hole.

Or it does, but not that hole. ;)

You'll get through anyway, man. And come out the other end smelling of roses. :)
 
cherrycolouredfunk said:
^ Hahahah that made me smile, I needed that.

I'm quite blessed as I have long eye lashes, so its just the tips that have singed, so mascara will hide it well until they hopefully sort themeselves out. Stupid thing is, it wasn't me who did it.....I'd been doing my own lines, but my bf had the foil in his hand so I said do me a line, and he didn't check the flame on the lighter first.
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:D Glad to hear it hun ^_^~♥
Yea naturally long eyelashes are very purty :)
Ahh yuss I've done that loads while having a smoke too, and if I'm rather wasted I tend not to notice until it hurts =D
That'll learn you to keep yer bf and lighters in check though ;)
 
SamhainGrim said:
The important thing to do is not let it destroy your confidence or self-worth.
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Thats what happened to me. Then I compensated with drowning myself in an alcoholic daze for about 6 months, nearly didnt come out the other side
Glad I did though <3
 
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