jancrow
Bluelighter
Defriend, defriend, it's the only way to stop you from hurting yourself with online stalking in this glorious digital age. Believe me, I've been there.
facebook is awful for relationships. its basically 'air your dirty laundry in public' book. the number of people who go from engaged to single. get married then keep changing their last names back and forth. keep bugging my boyf to get on there so i can be in a relationship with him then he points out we can have a relationship in real life instead.
got dumped on facebook before the guy did it to my face once. he claimed it was to make sure he went through with it. wanker. must not start rant about this guy.
also got ordered to delete every picture of myself in an album containing pictures of anyone i'd ever had any sort of sexual relations with by a very jealous guy.
either defriend or get her posts off your wall so you only have to see her profile in the right state of mind.
I just use it for private messaging between family or friends .. none of this advertising my every single wank i have that week or how many sheets of toilet roll i used for each individual shite i have that day
If I had a ha'penny for every time I've heard those words... :D
My ex-girlfriend says the same and yet she can tell me exactly what fairly distant acquaintances of ours whom she doesn't even like (and exes of mine of course) have been up to in any given week.
It's ruining interaction, fostering narcissism and a million other evils. Don't get me started though, as EADD has heard my little spiel before.
Why do you need to always be able to instantly message somebody anyway?
Besides which, for an FB message to be in any way more instant than say for example an email, the recipient would have to be logged in to Facebook from the word 'go' anyway. Are the people you're contacting unable to tear themselves away from Facebook?
I always used to love pointing out to people who claimed to only log into their FB accounts when they received a notification message that they could easily cut out the middleman if they're only going to be logging in when they get an email. I either got deaf ears or the grin of the newly enlightened. Oh well.
Ok thanks, that's what I shall do! Just finding it hard to move on
Do it man, you know it makes sense. If you need to move on then this is an extremely logical step towards a clearer head and less of those horrible weak moments spent trawling her profile for sharp objects with which to stab yourself, if you see what I mean.
My ex and i were still in love when we finished but we just couldnt make it work and decided to split but we kept talking to each other all the time and it just made it worse all the
Close to home just now, though you weren't to know.![]()