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Random Acts of kindness.

Like there's been a few times where I live, where this black woman will see me & my partner carry in grocery & instead of holding the security door open as she comes out, she just let's it shut behind her every single time. So then we have to get our key with bags of groceries on our arms to unlock the damn door. So I've stopped holding the door open for that woman. lol
Think she dislikes you because you are Gay?
Some people really hate Gays for some bizarre reason, what is her concern what you get upto in your own house in privacy?
I actually had kind of an opposite experience recently. Some lesbian chicks living here owned this big ass black dog. Always yelling at it & treating it like shit. Three different times that fricken dog got loose from their grip & ran over & jumped all over me. Even scratchs some of my clothes, which pissed me off. But I wasn't mad at the dog. I was mad at it's owners for being so pathetic. Like, if you can't hang on to your dog because he's that big & you aren't strong enough, then maybe you shouldn't have a big ass dog that you can't control. The dog also looked like it wanted to get away from this lady honestly. lol I felt kinda bad for it cause when I went to put my arm up to unlock the security door, it cowered back like it was afraid I was gonna hit it. Which tells me this chicks probably abuse the shit out of that dog & it's probably trying to get away from their asses.
I've come across people like that before, you go to say "Hello" to their dog & it pulls back, tail goes under like it thinks you are gonna punch it in the face, if Hell is real like The Bible writes about a very special place is saved for people who treat dogs like shit in that place.
but I do get into moods where I just get tired of everyone & want nothing to do with the world around me if it involves other humans. People can be just awful, selfish, self-centered, arrogant, etc....
I am 100% the same, it's times like that when I lock myself away, get into bed & put on something like Satanic Warmaster - Carelian Satanist Madness album on very loud, it's a very cathartic experience.
 

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People read me wrong, I maybe come over as harsh at times, to some my posts seem like I am being a Cunt etc but I'm not.
I am Human too like everyone else, why people on here think I am the result of The Book of the Seven Seals being opened is beyond me.

 
I see this two ways, if I make my good deeds public, doesn't that defeat purpose doing something for somebody? Am I the type of person who needs approval, affirmation, or confirmation? If not? Then why should I share personal information when the sole purpose was to randomly lend a hand to somebody who could use assistance?
 
Think she dislikes you because you are Gay?
Some people really hate Gays for some bizarre reason, what is her concern what you get upto in your own house in privacy?
Are you openly gay @DeathIndustrial88 ? Like is it obvious so that they would know and behave like that?

Or are you white (feel free not to answer)? Maybe they don't like white people.

Or maybe she's just an ignorant cunt. There's loads of them going about. Either way, how rude...
People read me wrong, I maybe come over as harsh at times, to some my posts seem like I am being a Cunt etc but I'm not.
I am Human too like everyone else, why people on here think I am the result of The Book of the Seven Seals being opened is beyond me.

He's actually a very gentle soul with decent set of morals and anyone that says otherwise is getting a boot in the baws from me.
 
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Are you openly gay @DeathIndustrial88 ? Like is it obvious so that they would know and behave like that?

Or are you white (feel free not to answer)? Maybe they don't like white people.

Or maybe she's just an ignorant cunt. There's loads of them going about. Either way, how rude...

Think she dislikes you because you are Gay?
Some people really hate Gays for some bizarre reason, what is her concern what you get upto in your own house in privacy?

Nah. Actually I'm so seemingly straight (at least to the oblivious) that sometimes I can sense when women are scared or creeped out about me in certain situations because they assume I'm a mean, rugged looking straight guy. So in those situations, I might make my voice a little more gay or kind of do something that let's them know "hey I ain't even attracted to you". lol

Generally everyone assumes I'm straight, but there are those people out there that have a good radar & can just tell, but not always. And it's usually people that spend more one-on-one time with me, rather than people I see or meet in passing.

But it's possible people can tell because they see me & my bf/roommate living together & going places together.

I am white, so she might just not like white people. I have come across some people who seem to act rude toward me just because I'm a bald (skinhead-looking) white guy. Even had a big scene play out at Walmart a few years back cause this latino chick was refusing me service when I was trying to pick up a western union. She kept telling me there was something wrong with it & that the person who sent the money would have to call & get it fixed. But I called Western Union myself & they said there was nothing wrong with the money & that I should be able to pick it up. I even asked them if the person who sent the money needed to call them for any reason & they said no. So I went back & straight up told her that & she kept giving me this whole "no, the person who sent the money needs to call them'. I was like, 'No, I talked to them & you're lying". As soon as I got even a little bit huffy with her, a big group of black dudes came out of a room in the back & crowded behind her, acting like they needed to defend her for some reason. So I just said "this is bullshit" and stormed out of the store.

Went to another Walmart & had zero problems picking the money up there. So I called that other walmart back & bitched about that chick. Never saw her working there again after that. lol She didn't directly say anything about my race during any of it, but I just got this distinct gut feeling that she had something against me for being white & bald & that's why she was being such a bitch. I mean whatever happened to "the customer is always right?". Obviously the customer isn't always right, but in my case, I was. And she didn't give two shits about the facts of the matter & just kept continuing to deny me service as if I had done something wrong.

Later on, I ran into an issue with WU because they claimed some one tagged me as a "scammer" or some bullshit. And I feel like that chick probably did it, especially after I complained about her ass. Lol Obviously I'm not a scammer, my family & fans of my music were sending me money all the time. And since I didn't have a bank account, WU was the only way I could receive it.

I have more stories about minorities treating me like trash for being a white guy, even got jumped in 2015 by a group of mexicans who stole my phone. So anyone who claims white people don't ever get discriminated against or treated differently for their race are liars.

And hell yeah on Satanic Warmaster! Have you heard his project before he was SW? It's called Shatargat. The "Wolf Der Nacht" demo is pretty nice!
 
Life at times is hard, today I had a very bad run of things going wrong & I get a little pissed off.

Anyway, I was just walking away from the chemist where I get my Methadone from & in the bus stop was a bunch of Roses, it was a nice bunch from a shop in the UK called Marks & Spencer which is for posh people, I looked at their website & the most cheap is £25 ($34 US) & the bunch I picked up are going for £35 which in US money is $47.

I was walking down the street into town to get some food for tonight & decided I would give them to the first person who I made eye contact with, smiled at and they did the same back. I went past several people but they were looking at their phone, dealing with the dog etc so I didn't have the chance to do it.

I got into town & was walking to the shop for food & saw a Woman who looked like she was a bit sad & stressed out, you could just feel "the vibe" off her & see it on her, I stopped her & said "Excuse me, these are for you" & smiled, I passed them to her & she looked so shocked.
She took them off me, looked at me very confused, then she smiled a real grin, said "Thank you, thank you so much" then walked off slowly looking at the Roses in such shock.

Just before she went around the corner it just happened we both turned around at the same time, made eye contact, she smiled & waved as she vanished.

I have decided each day when it is possible I am going to do random acts of kindness to people at random just to raise a persons mood for a few mins, I know for a fact that woman will still be thinking about what happened & will tell her friends, husband, kids etc & it made her day in a small way.

Anyone else like doing random things of kind acts to total strangers?
Omg I love this!!
 
So anyone who claims white people don't ever get discriminated against or treated differently for their race are liars.
Had to quote this out of the whole post, I am 100% with you on this one.
Being a White, Working Class Male who is "Hindu" I've been treated like shit before due to the colour of my skin by people at Temples / places of Worship when they people doing it should know better. As I have always said to them "At the Smashan (Cremation ground) Race makes no difference" 🔥💀
 
Found home for a dog and old parrot,no easy feat,now to get her hoarding situation under control ,so she can cook and bath.Fucking gross but I just let her rant and rave while I near vomit,4 hours a week is all I can give.She has lots of money and feeds another elders horses, its kindness but its unburdening me from buying feed,so maybe not so random.
 
Say hello to a homeless person and don´t acknowledge their situation in any way in the process. Talk to them about the world as if they were a normal person, because society is always trying to make them feel like they don´t matter or don´t exist. Don´t ever forget how far a smile and genuine kindness can go.
 
Say hello to a homeless person and don´t acknowledge their situation in any way in the process.

If they were to ask you for assistance on something they did not have but you did have, would you talk about it at that point?
 
Life at times is hard, today I had a very bad run of things going wrong & I get a little pissed off.

Anyway, I was just walking away from the chemist where I get my Methadone from & in the bus stop was a bunch of Roses, it was a nice bunch from a shop in the UK called Marks & Spencer which is for posh people, I looked at their website & the most cheap is £25 ($34 US) & the bunch I picked up are going for £35 which in US money is $47.

I was walking down the street into town to get some food for tonight & decided I would give them to the first person who I made eye contact with, smiled at and they did the same back. I went past several people but they were looking at their phone, dealing with the dog etc so I didn't have the chance to do it.

I got into town & was walking to the shop for food & saw a Woman who looked like she was a bit sad & stressed out, you could just feel "the vibe" off her & see it on her, I stopped her & said "Excuse me, these are for you" & smiled, I passed them to her & she looked so shocked.
She took them off me, looked at me very confused, then she smiled a real grin, said "Thank you, thank you so much" then walked off slowly looking at the Roses in such shock.

Just before she went around the corner it just happened we both turned around at the same time, made eye contact, she smiled & waved as she vanished.

I have decided each day when it is possible I am going to do random acts of kindness to people at random just to raise a persons mood for a few mins, I know for a fact that woman will still be thinking about what happened & will tell her friends, husband, kids etc & it made her day in a small way.

Anyone else like doing random things of kind acts to total strangers?
Anytime I'm in Tampa, the closest city to me, I am certain to give some money to a few homeless people before leaving. Unfortunately there are a ton of them now. I have seen plenty of decent people who are not just trying to scheme for drug money. Veterans and the elderly in particular are very difficult to see living that way. I don't mind spending 20 dollars or so doing this whenever I'm up there, which isn't very often.
 
So many things are going through my head that I could post in reply to this but I am sure all of them would get me banned from here.
Feel free to PM if you're struggling with it - I won't ban you! (I also may not satisfy your curiosity either though.
I don't carry a camera but if I find money, I give it away. ALWAYS.

I have a roof over my head, food in my stomach, warmth and a small circle of close friends. I am already rich so give to those who are not as fortunate.
That's a cool move friend. I'm aware you have low finance so that's an especially lovely way of being. It's easy to give £1k when you're loaded eh, a different matter to giving even £20 when things are tight.

I'm also low in £. Am ok week to week as have decent employment but I own nothing and have no savings above a month or so wages spare in the bank. so when job over it's poverty. So I have a similar policy regarding found / unexpected windfalls. It's not something I always do (maybe 3 or 4 times only infact) but if I've had unexpected extra ££ and see a situation where that could genuinely help someone I'll do it. Last time in fact was a couple months ago when I accidentally acquired £60. Same day I noticed someone on this site who I respect was having a massive struggle so it just seemed like the obvious thing was to go with the flow and pass on the good fortune. Person never asked me for it or even hinted and it helped a lot in a very practical way. I may need that cash in the future but I didn't need it then, so easy come easy go.

My main random acts kindness though are in the giving of time (probably our most precious resource?) to whoever appears to want it if I have spare energy...not just time, but being super-present, open and honest (even if they don't 'like' me for it) with whoever the time is spent with. Again, not always. I , like everyone really, need reciprocal relationships with people too.
 
My main random acts kindness though are in the giving of time (probably our most precious resource?) to whoever appears to want it if I have spare energy...not just time, but being super-present, open and honest (even if they don't 'like' me for it) with whoever the time is spent with. Again, not always. I , like everyone really, need reciprocal relationships with people too.
You're time is definitely one of the most generous things you can give someone because you'll never ever be able to get it back again.
 
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