cj
Bluelight Crew
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ha yeah i hadn't considered that selling a major asset counts as a life changing decision but that makes total sense. thanks!
i still feel a bit guilt cos i've been working my ass off this month so i can buy a new bass guitar, get tattooed and have money for my holiday. i'll have earned more than i was earning in my job. i offered my dad to not buy the guitar and give him the money instead but he recognises that having stuff like that will probably benefit my recovery and the guitar money is less than 0.05% of what i owe my parents.
Your dad is probably smart enough to realize your earning potential is far better sober then high or even dead. My advice set a calendar for 365 days from today. Until it runs out don't give another thought to the money you owe your parents. You get one year to focus soley on your health and well being. Recovery has to be selfish in the beginning. Are you in therapy? If bit you really should be. Having a pro to help sort this stuff out is very nice.