4-HO-MET is awesome. It reminds me a lot of LSD mentally and in how raw it makes all sensory stimuli feel, but it has a visual intensity and style more like mushrooms or DMT. It's definitely worth the experience, I've only met one person who doesn't really prefer it so far and that particular person is highly sensitive (in a bad way) to many forms of stimulation, so take that how you will. It does get kind of energizing in moderate to high doses, but again in a very clean way like LSD for me.
I've been there man. If you have the desire and patience you'll find a way to get to them eventually.... I went from only having tried 4-AcO-DMT for ages to suddenly going through 4-HO-MiPT, 4-HO-DiPT, 4-HO-MET, 4-HO-DET, and the AcO versions of the last two in less than a year. It was totally worth the wait.... These are by far my favorites psychedelics ever now, and there's still more to go.

I'm barely even interested in anything besides them and LSD anymore.