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I used to do the long hair, been cutting it short most of the past year. I think I like it shorter, if not for the practicality, then for the fact that women seem more interested in me since cutting it short.
 
Cream Gravy? said:
I used to do the long hair, been cutting it short most of the past year. I think I like it shorter, if not for the practicality, then for the fact that women seem more interested in me since cutting it short.
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Same thing has happened to me. Cut it two years ago for a job and just never went back. I get _a lot_ more attention from women now plus it isn't such a pain in the ass to keep looking nice.

Xor: sorry to hear about the crazy ex, can't give much advice aside from telling you to listen to this song: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-DjPsjol1Xg Pretty much the attitude I have with them all now. Didn't want to be this way but eventually you go through so many crazy ones that you just stop caring.
 
I used to have longer hair with dreads anf braids but I flat out shaved it and left a kinda long braided mass at the back. Unsurprisingly, this did not result in more female attention. :|

Then I just embraced my baldness :D







(that sounds a bit wrong)
 
I always just put on the #1 attachment on my clippers and do my whole head that length (beard and top)

Got way more female attention when I started doing that.

This is when I have hair, anyway. Still missing it from chemo at the moment.
 
My girlfriend loves my long hair. I've been growing it for about 4 and a half years, before that I cut it to like 2 inches... it's about 16 inches now. She begged me not to cut it a couple of years ago so I've been growing it since. She has taken a few inches off twice to get rid of split ends and such. I take care of it well though, it's wavy/curly and sometimes women ask to touch it. ;)

I love long hair, how it feels, but it's a pain to wash.
 
I loved having long hair, used to keep it at my shoulders for years. I really miss it sometimes but my hairline recided and i have no choice but to shave it. It's alright though easier to take care of and i look good, well my girlfriend thinks so at least.
 
Ah man, bummer all you guys who are losing your hair! I had about a 50% chance of going bald, but fortunately I got my dad's side genes (and actually even one of his brothers went bald). I'm 35 and my hair is really thick and hasn't receded at all so I think I'm good. My hair is actually a big part of my identity, I would be pretty crushed if I lost it.
 
Emily and I are fighting again. Talking about breaking up.

It all started because she got mad that I posted this status to Facebook: "Pretty depressed lately and I feel guilty for it because life isn't even that bad lately."
 
^ Yeah that's a weird reason to get mad. Usually fights with my wife are over some stupid thing and not really about that stupid thing but some underlying more vague thing.

I used to have nice hair and usually wore it long. I got a lot of attention about it from women/girls and so I built up some ego around having nice hair. Then I started going bald way too young, starting around 24 I think, and it was really devastating! It was a big blow to my self esteem to loose this feature that I felt was what made me attractive to women. All the while I knew it was very vain to even care, and beat myself up a lot about letting this bother me, such a trivial thing. Anyways it was quite a negative spiral that took me a long time to get over.

When I finally did get over it and embrace it, and found out that it didn't matter at all, and began dating much more attractive women than before when I did have hair. Looking back I realize that loosing my hair was the catalyst that made me grow up and grow balls and not worry about shit like that. It's more important to be comfortable in who you are, and be comfortable with who you are attracted to.
 
Man. :\ It sucks that this hurts you so much that you'd think of ending it. I want to say it's just a girl, but I do understand your feelings. Still, it's just a girl. It's false to think she's the only one who'll want you.
 
pharmakos said:
But I'm probably dying of cancer, who the fuck else is going to want me.

Been back to really considering suicide lately.
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When things get down I feel like this too man but then one comes along to remind me the single life isn't that bad. I had a real wacko throw herself at me a few weeks ago. We hadn't even gotten into bed yet and she already had the wedding planned out. 8)
 
pharmakos said:
But I'm probably dying of cancer, who the fuck else is going to want me.

Been back to really considering suicide lately.
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Dont give in to the abyssal thoughts. You are a warrior fighting fucking death, winning so far. Who wouldn't want that?

<3


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Usually fights with my wife are over some stupid thing and not really about that stupid thing but some underlying more vague thing.
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Lol, sounds like a relationship.
 
Yeah man Xorkoth and Img_9999 are right it's definitely false that she's the only one who'd want you. On top of being a total warrior you're a good looking guy from your photos the other day and that never hurts. It might be worth putting up with batshit crazy behaviour to some extent, I think every woman I've dated has had moments of total nutso, so I've resigned to putting up with a good bit of it, just try to move on and not dwell on them. I know not all women are like that, but a lot are. OTOH if she's just an emotional drain on you, you need your energy for your real battle, so it might not be worth putting up with the bullshit..
 
Had two people attempt to "make up" with me today and both pulled the same shit:
-Lied/refuse to admit fault
-Attempted to give me "all with be forgiven" line

It isn't my fault they brought the end of the friendship on themselves. If I'm such an asshole how come they've spent months attempting to both get in contact with me and convince everyone that I lied about the things that happened? They've both got it in their heads that I'm constantly going around town gossiping about them too. Maybe people wouldn't think they were such pieces of shit if they didn't act like it and constantly post the drama on social networks. One of them even sent me a string of txt messages from multiple numbers about how they've "lost it all". Well that tends to happen when you conspire with your cocaine dealer to rob your best friend after he paid your rent for months. Don't get pissed off because I told someone about it 6 months ago and word got around because it's a small town.

The other is attempting to say I've robbed them because they refused to pick up their stuff from my house over a year ago despite my many attempts to return it to them. I'm not running a storage locker. Again don't get mad that an item you left at my home for over three years finally got tossed out because I was sick of tripping over it every time I got up in the night. Maybe if they would have come and spoken to me when I said I needed to speak to them this could have all been avoided. They chose to get mad instead then stew on it for two years all while I tried to get anyone to come pick up the item. Soon as they hear I've tossed it suddenly I'm an asshole thief.

Fucking people man. You stop giving them free liquor and drugs and they turn on you.

So excited to leave this shit hole soon and hopefully find people worth spending time with.
 
Ill never cut my hair. It stopped getting longer maybe a year ago? Its down to about my nipples. Id have dreads if i had it my way, last year i had an appointment with the best black salon in pittsburgh to get my hair dreaded, i jadnt washed it for a month and all that, but i had misplaced my wallet and got all worked up about it and so i got a little sweaty after obsessively looking for it so my hair looked thinner and when i showed up the stylist was like its too thin just barely
:(
Ive been told by multiple people that my shit is def thick enough to dread..but when i told the story to the chick working at the weed store the one time i was in DC she did say she thought it was a little thin and said she knew where to get fake ones that look/feel real.
I think she liked me. She was cute, black chick, i was tweakin and thats why we talked for a few mins and shit..i shoulda got her number cause i went down to DC again a week later when i saw hype. I def woulda gt laid if i took a chick on a date to go see dj hype and dance all night with me
So my new job today was literally the hardest day of work ive ever done an mind you ive always worked, im not lazy...i had passed outt last night by 645 and woke up at like 1030 or 11 and ended up being up till 3am then getting up for work at 5 and working from 6 till 430. It wasnt so much being tired as it was how much i physically had to lift over the course of the day. Theres a few super cool people at my job, i got a little crew who i kick it with on all pur breaks at work, including my partner (we work in pairs, my partner started same time with me and hes mad cool, we should be kickin it sometime, possibly tomorrow after work. Ive worked 40 hours since tuesday not counting the 4 hour orientation i did on monday and the 6 hours of work tomorrow morning. I feel really good about having a real job and ill use a good bit to pay my fines and get my license back here soon. That and get my galaxy fixed so i have a nice phone again. Im really happy i got this job cause now im getting factory experience and experience running a machine cause thats what i do. Im on the punch press, i put the screw holes in the metal.
Im gonna go to bed soon though
Its hilarious though today my partmer at the end of the day was like omg shaggy youre shaggy you look just like him (i have the goatee and everything. And people always see me as a hippie cause of how i talk and the long blonde hair and shit..)
They called me shaggy at my last job too , i love it. My mom thinks itd hilarious that people compare me to shaggy. I like it.
Im gonna get me a 10strip with this first check and stash most of it for the next couple shows i hit (idk when ill be able to.go out tho)
But one of my boys at work is like a deadhead and likes to eat L but told me he hasnt eaten tabs for a few months so im gonna be like yo dog lets eat some tabs and listen to metalheadz stuff. Im gonna hopefully get the metalheadz logo tattooed somewhere on me in 2 weeks on my 2nd check.
 
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