so i fucked up by talking about noth8ng and nonsense cause they pieced together 3 seperate convos into one and used spicific things tlike names to make it sound real
See! That's exactly it! And that's what they do! Any statement you make,
any statement, will be used against you, so even when you think, "this is going really well," yeah, well, just wait until you read a copy of the police report, the same police report that, you know, will be used against you.
I believe that my girlfriend will keep her mouth shut, actually. I mean, she's been pulled over before, unfortunately when I wasn't with her, and she kept her cool, kept her mouth shut, and she made it home to cop another day. (shrugs)
Again, it's not that I think one need be snarky and disrespectful to cops. There
is a way to be respectful, polite, and to not look sketchy, all while refusing to give or make any statements and, in other words, while not entirely cooperating with police. It's not that I would sit there and say, "fuck you I ain't saying' nothing!"
If I were pulled over, I would give them all of the information that they need, that I am required to give them, and I'd let them perform the flank search and all that so they can see my car is clean... if they have their heart set on searching it, they'll search it, and I know that, but I'm not going to agree to a search or agree to make any statements. I'm just not...
I remember when my sister's friend, who was truly brilliant and who smoked
a lot of weed, stopped by the house and told us that he had been stopped on the way here -- with an eighth in his car! I was like, "oh shit dude what did you do that's crazy omg did they search your car this is crazy!" (I was young...) He just laughed and was like, "No, man. The cop asked to search my car, and I just shrugged my shoulders and told him no, that there was no reason to search the car, and that if I wasn't under arrest, I'd like to be on my way. Sure enough, the cop just kind of shrugged his shoulders, looked around the car and said, "all right well, have a good night then..." and sent him on his way.
It's when you start tripping over your words, making up stories, then making up different stories... it's like trying too hard, man, and the cops will go back and say, "well, wait a minute, you told me x so what about y?" Then, before you know it, they're searching your car, they've got more than enough to write in their police report for your "statement" and so now there's not a chance in hell of you beating this case (if there ever had been a chance), and it just turns into a shit snow-ball from there.
You just can't beat yourself up, man. For me, I know that if the police searched my car, found a stash, and then arrested me... even if the police were saying to me, "you could have made this so much easier," and I know that they say that shit, well, I wouldn't think, "man, maybe I should have said something!" I'd think, "you know what? I bet they would have searched my shit anyway, and at least now they don't have a statement from me that can be used to look like my admitting guilt.