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Ok so how many of you guys would let your woman....

Chalk

Chalk

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............... take you up the ass with a strap on. Or even with a dildo.

Theres been a few threads mentioning it and my GF even brought it up although i'm not sure if she was serious. 8o

What say you all?
 
^^Stupid question, eh...check out the n00b with the 'tude!

Okay, I'm gonna say something I very rarely say, on behalf of the old schoolers here...

STFU NOOB! And spare us your "I've been lurking for years/I lost my old account" BS!


Now back to our regularly scheduled programming...

Would I do it? Though I maintain that I'm openminded with respect to experimentation, I doubt I'd have the cajones to try it when it came time to push and shove the dildo.

I had a recent convo with a female regarding the topic...check my last journal entry for the particulars.
 
Hey Beatlebot, i never said it was my GF's FANTASY! just that she mentioned it and i wasn't sure if she was serious or not. :)

However, if it was her fantasy i'd probably go along with it. I'm pretty open and experimental, plus i've stuck it up her so if she wants to do the same i can't really refuse. It depend how badly she wanted it.

The only problem is that it's not very manly and i'd feel out of place doing it, like thats a side of you you dont want your woman seeing. I don't think my GF's dominant enough to initiate it anyway :)
 
Hah i was discussing this with my s/o tonight.She's never done anal but tryed and failed with some previous past partner , so anyway ive been trying to convince her to do it or atleast try it with me.She will agree if I take it first ......well so im like NO Way thats ever ever going to happon.Thats answers your question :P

I honestly think she wants to do it.She is very dominant & cant say she has never brought it up.Personaly it puts me off just thinking about it.

Sorry im going off topic feel free to remove this part:

she is willing to do anal with me on an ongoing bases if i get my tongue perced for her in exchange (funny hay :P ,which im not very keen but seems to sound better the more i think about it) also she fears the fact its not going to work out due to size issues.Any positive comments would be very apprieciated.oh btw we currently in a happy long term relationship.

thanks :)
 
I would do this in a heartbeat as long as the guy was willing.

:)

If he wasn't, I wouldn't pressure him into it. I've never done it before.
 
I really love this topic actually. I think that very often it is the female in a relationship that has to push her comfort boundaries to fulfil her male partners fantasies. You often see threads in here about a male complaining that his girlfriend won't do this or that and usually the tone is that girl must be a bit of a prude and she should really chill out.

Now the shoe is on the other foot and most of the men are like "NO WAY" =D

I have never done this before but the main reason I would like to try it is to see what it is like to be on the other side. I think taking on the role of the penetrator would mean that I would have to be more responsible during the sex act and watch my partner more carefully for his reactions. If I could actually get him off this way that would be a real achievement :D

Chalk gave a good reason why he isn't comfortable with this. I want to know why the rest of you guys don't want to open up and try this new thing. Are you afraid of pain? Do you not trust your partner enough?
 
I'd do it once to try it. I very rarely turn down things without trying at least once. Though I have never had sex with the same sex (due to unattraction), I have tried other things. If my wife were to do me with a strap on it'd be quite funny because she's typically submissive.
 
I have issues with doing this to a man because it would make him seem less 'manly' in my eyes. I have some very stereotypical gender views, when it comes to my personal sexual preferences.
 
Honestly, if you are going to ask your woman to endure the (initial) pain in order to fulfill your desires...Isn't it only fair to subject yourself to the same?

I mean, just cuz the woman is deemed the "penetrated" and the man is the "penetrator" doesn't mean it's gonna hurt her any less than it's gonna hurt you.

my ex let me do it to her..and the first or second time it hurt her; but after that, she actually admitted liking it. She never proposed to do it to me.

And oh jeez, I gotta go out on a limb here and say that I would probably give it a try with someone whom I supremely trusted and felt very...very close to. And it'd have to be a very small strap on...lol... Nothing over like 4 inches. Even that...ouch. Quite frankly, I'm not sure how she took me...she was a wee little laddy... what a trooper.

=D
 
I'm in pretty much the same mind as Teknique's girlfriend, my boyfriend wants to try anal with me because he's never done it before blah blah blah, so I said ok as long as I could buy a strap on and do the same to him.
I was playing around one day and told him I bought a strap on, i swear he had tears in his eyes becuase he believed me and was scared.. hahaha
 
Yeah I've been there =D

We were talking one night and came up with the idea of getting a vibrating strap-on and fucking me up the arse on ketamine with her in nothing but a cowboy hat. Well.... we didn't get as far as the cowboy hat but pretty much everything else.

It was good fun and it didn't really make me feel 'un-manly', oh hang on, yeah it did but I kinda liked it anyway. There's definitely a very feminine part of me and it got royally fucked that night ;)
 
my view on it- if you expect me to be willing to have anal sex, its only fair that you let me do the same to you... i use a small jelly anal strapon, so its more comfortable for the reciever.... never had any complaints (well its been the same guy for 5+ years), and have been told its acutally quite pleasurable, since guys do have some nice erogenous zones "up there"...
 
Nope. I'm not into the whole anal thing either though, so there's no worries there. I just like head, and giving it.
 
I would never ask for it, or even tell anyone. But if I got punched out by a hot woman with a strapon and she started raping me, I don't think I'd put up much of a fight.
 
I asked my boy whether he was interested in trying this out, because he likes him bum to be played with, but his answer straight out was 'no'. I thought it might be nice because then I could penetrate him deeply, rather than just with a finger, or a vibrator.

It seems that guys who are straight still have tiny little hangups about being 'gay'... I think the idea of a girl taking them is nice, until something that looks like a penis is involved.

Edit/Addition by MJ's boy: (re strapon's) it's less a fear of being 'gay' and more just that it'd not get me going. However, a vibrator in that area (WITH penetration) is so very nice, but strap ons are just... not as arousing? ....given a little coaxing, I'd do it if she asked to. Mightn't get me off, but if she enjoys it, why not?
 
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