citizen cained
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Hi all, a new girl has started at work and we get on really well and are similar in a lot of ways, I have to admit, I am developing a bit of a crush but want to know if she feels the same, I will list some signs which make me feel she does and some which make me feel she doesn't
1. we have the same sense of humour and she is always laughing at my jokes so much so that she says I am distracting her from work (in a playful way) and is often crying with laughter.
2. She sits next to me (that is not her choice, she has to as that has always been her desk) and always turns to face me when talking to me, she is always smiling when she is talking to me and swings about on her chair.
3. she talks about dates she has been on and how bad they were, she also said recently that she is going on a date with a guy and said "he seems a bit weird"
4. she doesn't use Facebook much but has reactivated it since I mentioned that I am on Facebook same with a few more social media apps etc
5. she wasn't going to go to a work party but now has since changed her mind
6. we were discussing dating and she was giving me advice about what girls like and what she likes on a date
7. she mentioned that she worked with her ex before they got together (hinting that she is ok with dating colleagues)
8. when my other colleague mentions things about us getting together (normally a passing comment like, "you guys are made for each other" when we are fooling about) she either makes an awkward laugh or doesn't say anything. (this colleague often gives her a lift home as they live nearby, she is female)
9. when I mention things i.e. I said I was stubborn she often agrees or feels the same i.e.. yeah, i'm pretty stubborn too.
Signs she shows that make me think she doesn't feel the same:
1. when I on lunch she never comes into the canteen with me (there are others in the canteen when I am eating and we are normally talking), we lunch at different times (again, not a choice, it's the way the office works)
2. she talks about going on dates (as listed above)
3. My other colleague hasn't mentioned anything to me about asking her out etc when it is just me and her in the room and the colleague i like is out of the room (she gives her a lift home most nights)
4. she never actually touches me, although she sometimes hits me with paper in a jokey way (although she said she can't slap me yet as we havent been working together enough, in a joking way of course)
So thats about it, what are your opinions?
1. we have the same sense of humour and she is always laughing at my jokes so much so that she says I am distracting her from work (in a playful way) and is often crying with laughter.
2. She sits next to me (that is not her choice, she has to as that has always been her desk) and always turns to face me when talking to me, she is always smiling when she is talking to me and swings about on her chair.
3. she talks about dates she has been on and how bad they were, she also said recently that she is going on a date with a guy and said "he seems a bit weird"
4. she doesn't use Facebook much but has reactivated it since I mentioned that I am on Facebook same with a few more social media apps etc
5. she wasn't going to go to a work party but now has since changed her mind
6. we were discussing dating and she was giving me advice about what girls like and what she likes on a date
7. she mentioned that she worked with her ex before they got together (hinting that she is ok with dating colleagues)
8. when my other colleague mentions things about us getting together (normally a passing comment like, "you guys are made for each other" when we are fooling about) she either makes an awkward laugh or doesn't say anything. (this colleague often gives her a lift home as they live nearby, she is female)
9. when I mention things i.e. I said I was stubborn she often agrees or feels the same i.e.. yeah, i'm pretty stubborn too.
Signs she shows that make me think she doesn't feel the same:
1. when I on lunch she never comes into the canteen with me (there are others in the canteen when I am eating and we are normally talking), we lunch at different times (again, not a choice, it's the way the office works)
2. she talks about going on dates (as listed above)
3. My other colleague hasn't mentioned anything to me about asking her out etc when it is just me and her in the room and the colleague i like is out of the room (she gives her a lift home most nights)
4. she never actually touches me, although she sometimes hits me with paper in a jokey way (although she said she can't slap me yet as we havent been working together enough, in a joking way of course)
So thats about it, what are your opinions?
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