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Need to Stop Masturbating

I don't masturbate anymore, simply from reading different sources of material and altering my belief system.

Yes there have been studies linking it with reduced risk of prostate cancer, but there are many other things u can do which will equally reduce the risk, and you don't have to waste semen every day. (and waste $$ on more porn)

Since I've stopped, my life has been much more pleasant, I no longer let sex control my every action, and when I do engage in sex it's much more meaningful.
Recently I let my urges take control, and I whacked it, and it actually did not feel good. I'm sure this is a change for the better, but then again it's personal and I wouldn't recommend it for everyone.

As for ejaculating in your sleep, that seems to be a natural way of the body releasing semen and personally it's much more pleasurable than masturbating (usually coz I'm sleeping with supermodels in my dreams) %)
 
1. you can't waste semen
2. i've never spent money on porn
3. whackin feels great every time

but do what you want. =P
 
LiquidMethod said:
Since I've stopped, my life has been much more pleasant, I no longer let sex control my every action, and when I do engage in sex it's much more meaningful.
Recently I let my urges take control, and I whacked it, and it actually did not feel good. I'm sure this is a change for the better, but then again it's personal and I wouldn't recommend it for everyone.

/\ I can totally relate to that, even though I do do it.

@aanallein: I think you can waste semen. Or energy at least. Lifeforce. To me it amounts to the same thing,semen being a physical manifestation of energy / lifeforce.
 
Well to me semen is a bunch of semen.. I don't think you shoot your lifeforce out when you beat off. But that's just my take on it.
 
keiths31 said:
If you really want to stop...move in with a woman. You don't want to be getting caught doing it with her around

Some chicks like when dudes do it, alot of guys get turned on seein a chick get herself off, some females get like that with dudes. you never know, you should see if your girl is into that, you might have a load off your hands...lol bad pun....but unintentional
 
Something which has always weighed on my mind....Do Catholic priests whack off?
Can their faith transcend their balls?
 
When I didn't have a girlfriend I didn't jerk off as much because it makes your libido higher. If you don't jerk off then you're really horny for a few days but if you keep yourself to once every couple of days, and then once a week you'll find your libido dropping off.

This was good for me because I figured without a girlfriend having a libido is just annoying.

Now however I have a girlfriend and I won't go a day without some kind of release...often two...if I'm not with her I'll jerk off. Why the hell not? It doesn't hurt you in any way. It's just come...your balls are full of it again quicker than you can say 'pass the tissues'.
 
^^ Truer words have never been spoken.. :D

Flickme said:
if your worried about loss of vitamins n nutrients or whatever,
maybe try drinking your semen after you climax?
just a thought..

I was going to suggest that one as well. ;)
 
To the Original Poster,

Do you need to really *need* to stop masturbating, do you have guilt issues, or is there something that you are neglecting to mention here?

First, follow crystalcallas' advice by jacking off as much as possible for as long as possible til you can't stand it anymore for the time being / til it is pretty much boring for now and then read the Taoist book recommended you about saving up your cumshot / ejaculation force energy.

Next, take my advice and check out The Abnormal, a book by the French author, Michel Foucalt, which deals with masturbation in places.

Remember, there is nothing wrong with occasional, periodic masturbation--particularly among post-adolescent, non-married males--when not accompanied by unhealthy thought processes and not done in public / unwanted places.

Use your best judgement.
 
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