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Need to Stop Masturbating

Osho certainly made some very valid points about energy management, yet I am unsure whether fucking it all away is a healthy answer to everything. It is, of course, an extremely pleasant way of reducing tension. I find about 50% of all the women I meet attractive enough to consider fucking them :D even though I do not pursue it as I am in a long-term relationship.

Osho also used his sexual-energy-outlet advice to take advantage of women, or at least some people seem people seem to think so. Surely there are other ways of energy management, too.
 
MachineGunBallad said:
On top of that, to see such kinky shit [porn] can twist you mentally. Your concept of sex becomes skewed. It's just a plain, bad habit.

Yeah, porn is horrible for you. Stick to softcore.

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Ximot said:
well, I am not saying I am (very good at) following the advice given in the book. But there is some truth in what i say when i say that the journey is at least as interesting as the destination.... if not more so, sometimes.

Fact is that you do lose vital energy everytime you ejaculate, especially from early 30s onwards.

I agree of course that the journey is fantastic, especially while I'm tied up watching porn with an apple in my mouth. :) However, short of me going and reading the book, is there any scientific evidence backing up the fact you lose energy when you come?

A source maybe?
 
/\ Daniel Reid: The Tao of Health, Sex and Longevity

This link here, which has some other funny (read: perhaps dubious... e.g. juggling will increase your sexual activity, etc.) info on it but also has a section on Daniel Reid's book that pretty much sums it up.
http://www.thelivingweb.net/great_sex.html

Here another link...

http://forum.kungfumagazine.com/forum/archive/index.php/t-21802.html

I don't have any other links as all I know is from Daniel Reid's and Mantak Chia's books. It is common knowledge though in the Traditional Chinese Medicine system that excessive sexual activity (read: ejaculation), in particular in conjunction with intoxication (everyone's favourite, isn't it? ;) ) is detrimental to health... any Qi Gong master will know about this. I do not know whether there are any English-language sources which state or verify this claim (translated from the Chinese or perhaps even Western-Science-based) but I do know (or believe so strongly that I think I know) that Qi Gong (Chi Kung) is not placebo but has a very real effect on the body, and that Traditional Chinese Medicine is not quackery. Western scientists have been able to verify some of the claims of Qi Gong, though not all of them as Western scientific measuring devices are not able to capture all there is.

Google also found me this link here, which kinda explains how it works... it's all theory obviously but I have found that in periods where I wank too much I am generally more listless, with less of a desire to be active... whereas during periods where I don't shoot my load as often I have more energy left, more bite... to the point of getting irritable or too tense and then I know it's time to stop not ejaculating and to relieve/release the pressure/energy :) Though I am still convinced that disciplined efficient energy management will allow one to diffuse blocked sexual chakra energy and use it for something else and have more passion for other things besides sex/orgasms... not that I am very good at it, sexual energy is very strong and the easy way is to just indulge it, which we all often do cos it just feels so good, instantly. http://sexual.spiritworld.info/male_sexual.htm

For women it's all different as they supposedly energetically benefit from male ejaculations into their sexual orifice and the related chakra. The energy women gain when men come in them is then lost to the man... (ying/yang energy transfer.. women being yin and men yang, yang energy being depleted as the man ejaculates, him therefore becoming more yin/weaker and the woman more yang/strong ...to put it simply).


another interesting link regarding chi and sexuality : http://www.50connect.co.uk/index.as...onships_index.asp?sc=romancestories&aID=13220

Sorry I can't seem to provide any conventional Western-science sources for all this, and I think Qi Gong may even be listed specifically on Quackwatch, but then I really find Western-science to be too much of a "what-the-eye-or-microscope-can't-see-ain't-real" thing, even though I am grateful to and respectful of Western science for its achievements.

To make my point about energy depletion, let me give an example from my personal experience... say you are taking good quality cocaine and some nice alcoholic drinks with your partner and have raw animal sex for hours without coming..... well, for me, when I eventually do come it's so powerful it's just unbelievable in 3 ways:
1) how it feels is just so intense
2) the amount of come that is released is phenomenally huge (due to extended excessive stimulation of the groin area and the over-excitement that goes with it)
3) the cum is projected outside of the penis with an enormous power compared to what you get when you have sex normally and even more so when compared to your everyday wank ... hell, sometimes it seemed I could make it touch the ceiling from a lying-down-on-the-bed position. A true fountain of life-force leaving the body! Inevitably, after such an incredible orgasm I am so depleted of energy I can hardly move.... of course the coke etc and having sex for hours are what really made me so tired, but with that vital energy not yet ejaculated I could keep going for hours... if that isn't life-force then I don't know.
 
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^^ ewwww? Is it still ewwww when a girl sucks you off and you want her to swallow?

Typical males!

I don't think its bad for you. If you had a gf would you refuse to have sex with her because you didn't want to deplete your nutrients? It's natural and can't be unhealthy for the body only doing it 5 times a week. Your body makes semen for a reason.
 
Ximot said:
For women it's all different as they supposedly energetically benefit from male ejaculations into their sexual orifice and the related chakra. The energy women gain when men come in them is then lost to the man...
This can easily be remedied. Just suck out the load you've shot in. My former kung fu/chi gong teacher used to recommend this, but he was a nut.
You do know that a lot of the stuff in chinese medicine is pure superstition? They make potions (so called "cures") from Bear gall bladder, endangered tiger penis, rhino horn, sea horse, eye of salamander etc.
 
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socko said:
This can easily be remedied. Just suck out the load you've shot in. My former kung fu/chi gong teacher used to recommend this, but he was a nut.
You do know that a lot of the stuff in chinese medicine is pure superstition? They make potions (so called "cures") from Bear gall bladder, endangered tiger penis, rhino horn, sea horse, eye of salamander etc.

Laughing my arse off! =D

Ximot, I am very impressed with your detailed explaination of lost energy!%)

Some of the things you talk about there I definitely relate to. However hitting the roof with your gift is definitely out of my range, however I do have very high ceilings. Imagine being the girl if you released into her with that force??? Magnificent stuff.

I will read those links you gave shortly when I have more time..
 
Ximot said:
/\ Daniel Reid: The Tao of Health, Sex and Longevity

This link here, which has some other funny (read: perhaps dubious... e.g. juggling will increase your sexual activity, etc.) info on it but also has a section on Daniel Reid's book that pretty much sums it up.
http://www.thelivingweb.net/great_sex.html

I have TWO copies of that book!!!! ;) Definitely an excellent read.
 
hahaha - this discussion reminds me of a friend of mine; he claims that when he was in high school, he would go into his second-story bathroom, stand on the radiator which was below the bathroom window, stick his dick out of the window, and masturbate until he came onto the backyard below. Apparently he was experiencing teenage hormone-rage, and he needed progressively kinkier shit to get him off.

The funny thing is that there was a duplex apartment right next door, and they were probably pointing and laughing at him from their windows!

As long as you don't get to that level, where you need to get all extreme with your masturbatorial practices, I think you'll be fine.
 
C / H said:
Apparently he was experiencing teenage hormone-rage, and he needed progressively kinkier shit to get him off.

I took this sentence of your out of context so you could see the consequences of using incorrect grammar.

Great story by the way!
 
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