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Need to Stop Masturbating

MynameisnotDeja said:
Well I study taoist energy work, and there is some truth to the body losing energy through ejaculation. During certain phases of the practice, I know (for the male practice anyway) the person doesnt ejaculate. I dont know the details of it because the female version is different, but there is lots of information about it in this book:

http://www.amazon.com/Taoist-Secrets-Love-Cultivating-Sexual/dp/0943358191

I have the female version of that book.
All that is relating to energy work though, I dont believe it has anything to do with the body losing protien or nutrients.
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I would agree about the loss of energy, but I don't this he's going to become malnurished from wacking.
 
MachineGunBallad said:
Does anyone have any tips?
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Best way I've found to quit masterbating is to stop playing with your penis. I could be wrong tho. ;)
 
If you only jerk off 5 times a week I think you need to start masturbating more, that sounds unhealthy.
 
Or masturbate and then choose not to come ... if you can do that. This book will teach you how and also explains why excessive ejaculation is bad for you:
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(Mantak Chia - The Multi-Orgasmic Man)


Alternatively, just eat your own cum and reabsorb the nutrients if not the lost energy. Nothing disgusting about that... if we men are happy when women swallow, then who are we if we are disgusted by our own secretions? ;)
 
If you're into trying out the methods in that book, you should get into hatha yoga too. With enough practice you'll be able to suck yourself off over and over, having multiple orgasms, and come to a crescendo with a big blast of your own sperm in your mouth. You won't lose any nutrients, nor will you have to waste your time looking for women.
 
maybe seeing those "hot" celebrities without makeup will help curb dirty thoughts?

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if that doesnt work, consider those that are frightening with heavy makeup..


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Coolio said:
If you're into trying out the methods in that book, you should get into hatha yoga too. With enough practice you'll be able to suck yourself off over and over, having multiple orgasms, and come to a crescendo with a big blast of your own sperm in your mouth. You won't lose any nutrients, nor will you have to waste your time looking for women.
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HAHAHA! Nice one. Just wonder what my wife would think about that.

Sctually, there are guys out there who can self-suck... though most of them probably just had their 2 bottom ribs taken out - quicker than becoming well and truly good at hatha yoga. =D
 
Suppress your kundalini ;) kidding!!!
Why would you want to stop releasing the apparent abundant energy in your groin area ? I think that would be more harmful to you in the long run . Just keep whacking off until you can't anymore....at least that's my advice.
 
Ximot said:
Or masturbate and then choose not to come ... if you can do that. This book will teach you how and also explains why excessive ejaculation is bad for you
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Mate thats like turning on the TV and not watching it. Or cooking dinner and not eating it. Or buying drugs and not taking them.

Dude, I think it's time to read something different! You can find books to back up just about anything you want to.

I've been having sex, jacking off, watching XXX porn, and generally being a deviant for half my life and things are progressing very nicely...

This thread is an eye opener!!!!
 
crystalcallas said:
Suppress your kundalini ;) kidding!!!
Why would you want to stop releasing the apparent abundant energy in your groin area ? I think that would be more harmful to you in the long run . Just keep whacking off until you can't anymore....at least that's my advice.
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Read some of the books mentioned in this thread...if you are genuinly curious as to why that energy loss could be bad for you...

Its NOT like turning on the tv and not watching it..there is legitimate energy work and excercizes that have to do with this kind of thing. But they are not for the begininer. Its serious stuff, Ive been reading about it for a few years now.

Dont automatically laugh at/put down something just because you dont understand it or know nothing about it. If you had actually ever studied/practiced this type of energy work you would understand it.

I just hate when people talk down about something they dont understand/know about.
 
^Once again, this thread is an eye opener. There are obviously many different opinions in this world about what is right and wrong. Good for you for having a different opinion, I'm sure in some way it is doing you well.

In day to day life, the things I do and believe in are based on my personal experience's throughout my life. If things are working fine I see no need to change them. Ejaculating frequently is one these things and I see no need to abstain from this.

I guess when ejaculating all over the place becomes boring, then one day I will read one of these books.

I posted a link earlier in this thread about how there was research showing that the more a male ejaculates, the less chance he has of developing prostate cancer. They talk about at least once per day being the best protection. How does this fit into these exercises and readings?
 
chopped_chimp said:
Mate thats like turning on the TV and not watching it. Or cooking dinner and not eating it. Or buying drugs and not taking them.

Dude, I think it's time to read something different! You can find books to back up just about anything you want to.

I've been having sex, jacking off, watching XXX porn, and generally being a deviant for half my life and things are progressing very nicely...

This thread is an eye opener!!!!
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well, I am not saying I am (very good at) following the advice given in the book. But there is some truth in what i say when i say that the journey is at least as interesting as the destination.... if not more so, sometimes.

Fact is that you do lose vital energy everytime you ejaculate, especially from early 30s onwards. Now, if one is able to transform that energy into something else... think what it might do to your creativity potential around any other chakra apart from the one in your groin area... obviously, a good ole wank and there isn't much (need for) creativity afterwards ;)

I would be happy to fight Mike Tyson if he had had a wank just before he gets into the ring. But only then ;) (j/k - even then I think I wouldn't)
 
MynameisnotDeja said:
Read some of the books mentioned in this thread...if you are genuinly curious as to why that energy loss could be bad for you...

Its NOT like turning on the tv and not watching it..there is legitimate energy work and excercizes that have to do with this kind of thing. But they are not for the begininer. Its serious stuff, Ive been reading about it for a few years now.

Dont automatically laugh at/put down something just because you dont understand it or know nothing about it. If you had actually ever studied/practiced this type of energy work you would understand it.

I just hate when people talk down about something they dont understand/know about.
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Um...when did I laugh or put down someone? Or are you even referring to me? I hope not.

I have read MANY books on taoist healing energy, chi, and similar subjects. All I'm saying is that suppression of any energy is inherently bad in itself.....if the OP really wants to stop or to curb his habit, he should read up and learn about how important it is to remember that sexual energy must be used in the proper way and NOT be suppressed OR eliminated. Hence my comment that he should definitely wack -off whenever he feels the need...it's better than suppressing the energy and manifesting itself in other more harmful ways. At least until the Op learns how to CHANNEL that excess energy into other areas of his life. Get it? Telling him to just outright stop masturbating and to think about other things when he feels the need now is just not going to help him unless he knows what he is doing. Repression is one of the main reasons why a lot of people in this world are fucked up beyond comprehension.

I don't think it is insulting that posters here are making jokes about it...it's lighthearted and not malicious in any way. But I ask that they also see that there is a deeper meaning to all of these, and that the exercises for the reallignment of sexual energy developed in the Taoist teachings are much more sophisticated and focused than in the West. They go right to the source of our sexuality and cultivate it in a way that brings sexual energy and strength to those who use them properly.

Sex is a creative force that moves through the body, feeding the emotions and thoughts and creating the impulse of desire. It is pleasure in its raw and unrefined state. If that energy is not understood and used in the right way, it is the cause of dissatisfaction, destruction, and overall unhappiness in our lives.

To those who think this is a bunch of bullsh*t, I urge you to educate yourselves and dig a little deeper. It is a fascinating subject.
 
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Remember this: energy is neither anger nor love nor hate. Energy is simply energy - neutral. The same energy becomes anger; the same energy becomes sex; the same energy becomes love; the same energy becomes hate. These are all forms of the same energy. You give the form, your mind gives the form, and the energy moves into it.

So remember, if you love deeply you will not have much energy to be angry. If you do not love at all, then you will have much energy to be angry, and you will go on finding situations in which to be angry. If your energy is expressed through sex, you will be less violent. If your energy is not expressed through sex, you will be more violent. That is why militaries will never allow sexual relationships for the soldiers. If it is allowed, the militaries will become absolutely impotent to fight.
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~osho
 
Lol, you gotta cum once a day or your not gonna keep the doctor away! ;)

I cum at least 10 x a week and that isn't enough so dont worry, not that i masturbate if it counts 8)
 
chopped_chimp said:
Of course semen contains heaps of vitamins etc, however one teaspoon is not going to have any sort of serious effect on your overall well being. Just make sure you eat enough food.

In fact the the more you masterbate the less chace you have of developing prostate cancer. Link

Researched showed that the protective effect was greatest when men ejaculated 7 or more times per week. Looks like I'm sweet.

Masterbation is a NORMAL thing to do! Enjoy it! =D
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Same about sex i guess...
 
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