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Need to Stop Masturbating

MachineGunBallad

MachineGunBallad

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Fuck, I need to stop. I average probably 5 times a week, but I'm a vegan and it depletes me of vitamins and protein. On top of that, to see such kinky shit can twist you mentally. Your concept of sex becomes skewed. It's just a plain, bad habit.

Does anyone have any tips? Especially in that half hour right before sleep. Just some mechanism to distract your mind and strengthen your willpower.

I also understand that october is the month when the male body produces the highest level of testerone, so naturally this habit will dwindle in weeks to come. but still, some help would be nice.
 
In my opinion, 5 times a week isn't a lot. And I also have a girlfriend.

Now I really don't believe that a teaspoon of cum every day or so is going to deplete your body of anything much at all. You need to quit worring about this, if you are actually serious.
 
^^^^^ The ejaculant that your body makes does have alot of nutritive things. Think about it that cum is a source of life that your body creates.

Ive been wanting to stop too even though i dont do it alot. I always come back to it even though it feels so empty to do it, has no meaning jus reminds me im alone. Ive been doing opiates recently and that has diminished my libido.
 
you worry about losing nutriants from cumming?

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if it makes you feel better, im healthy and i jerk it about 5 times a day.
 
I just dropped in to catch a glimpse of what a discussion about stopping masturbation would look like... since I have no personal plans of ever having this discussion.

Hmmm. Interesting.
 
Haha you beat it too much!!!!

No, 5 times isn't a lot. I'd be worried if it was 5 times a day though! I'd be exhausted! I thought I masturbate too much, and I have a girlfriend, who is mostly at college. Usually just once a day or every other day. I do it because I'm bored and there is nothing better to do than look at naked women :-/

I don't think I have any tips though....sorry
 
Just try not to do it. When you think about it, and start to go down that train of thought where you get turned on and eventually cant stop yourself, IMMEDIATELY think about/or do something that takes your mind off it. (something completely un sexy if you can). Try getting out of the house when you have the urge. Surround yourself with other people so you cant do it.
 
Of course semen contains heaps of vitamins etc, however one teaspoon is not going to have any sort of serious effect on your overall well being. Just make sure you eat enough food.

In fact the the more you masterbate the less chace you have of developing prostate cancer. Link

Researched showed that the protective effect was greatest when men ejaculated 7 or more times per week. Looks like I'm sweet.

Masterbation is a NORMAL thing to do! Enjoy it! =D
 
Yes. Jerking off is definately where it's at. I average anywhere from 3-9 times a day...I am technically fine.
 
haha, I do it once or twice a day.

Well is not like I'm not getting some, but these days I rather masterbuate
than have sex( cuts out all the hassle, know what I mean) lol.=D

But thats just for sex, I'm sure I would cho0se sex over masturbation if I found the right girl or guy and it was in a intimate level
 
I agree that it isnt physically harmful, although I personally feel that it can be damaging to ones spiritual health if they spend too much time looking at corrupt imagery (this completely depends on what an individual uses to masterbate though, a tasteful pic of a nude lady is far different than watching someone be beaten in full bondage). So while I dont think masterbation is unhealthy in itself, I agree with MachineGunBallad that it can twist someone mentally, especially a spiritual person.

Basically, if you start feeling like you need to stop or cut back, for whatever reason, you probably should.
 
I agree that looking at sick and twisted porn isn't good for the soul, but depleting yourself of nutrients?

Where do you guys come up with these crackpot ideas?
 
Seriously hahahaha.. You make all that stuff anyways, might as well get rid of it.
 
LOL

I masturabate once a day, just before i go to bed. I especially have to do it when i come home from a night of drinking or am scattered after rolling all night.

I agree, it does kinda make you more kinky, its like i need progressively kinkier stuff to jack off over :D . Probably cus you let your imagination out of hand a little when you do it all the time. I dont care, ill continue to do it.

We need chicks to start masturbating more so they get as kinky as the guys haha.
 
djwhirlpool said:
I agree that looking at sick and twisted porn isn't good for the soul, but depleting yourself of nutrients?

Where do you guys come up with these crackpot ideas?
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Well I study taoist energy work, and there is some truth to the body losing energy through ejaculation. During certain phases of the practice, I know (for the male practice anyway) the person doesnt ejaculate. I dont know the details of it because the female version is different, but there is lots of information about it in this book:

http://www.amazon.com/Taoist-Secrets-Love-Cultivating-Sexual/dp/0943358191

I have the female version of that book.
All that is relating to energy work though, I dont believe it has anything to do with the body losing protien or nutrients.
 
^yep - I've got that book (the Mantak Chia one). To be honest I've never made it all the way through to learning the full cum-but-don't-ejaculate technique. One day....

As far as not wanting to be compulsively jacking off to porn - that's fair enough. All you have to do is just whack off without the porn. After you cum, you don't crave the porn anymore.
 
5 times a week... 5 times a day here... on top of my normal sex rutine... I try to avoid it on days where teh female is abouts.

Take zinc tablets or somthing.... like peter north!

Way easier than stoping.

You might look into some more productive outlet for your energy though, I consider it sometimes.

But masturbation and LSD is so awesome, multiple orgasms... (the only tme I have ever experienced them), always sends me back in the hole.

Seriusly addictive stuff, right up there with cheese and chocolate.
 
definatly agree with the twisted porn makes you more twisted theory, prob with me is i live with my girl so im always having a quick pull while shes at the shops or in the shower so its just go for it and hurry up which isnt helping my sex life with my girl,or lack of it, so maybe cutting back isnt a bad option
 
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