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My plentyoffish.com meet-up gone wrong...

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The life of the wife ends with the knife.


The 2nd 1 had a 3rd sip from the 5th that sent his head spinning back and 4th.


Lysis said:
Ignorance? Not likely, but perhaps. I've personally never had an alcoholic rage, never been hit or beaten, and pride myself in avoiding situations that lead me to the point of dealing with situations such as yours. My intuition in human behavior is likely better than yours since my ability to rationalize and avoid rage is far superior.

Again, I'll say to you: get therapy, because what you did is unhealthy, and you put this poor girl in a situation she didn't deserve to be in.
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Wow. This post is a bit pretentious. You really aren't helping the guy at all by just saying "therapy" and allowing that to be the patch for all the things you just said that display a superiority complex.

And isn't it a little rude to assume the girl in this story is poor? We really know little about her, I mean she has a phone, check, a car, check, no car charger for the phone though, so damn, she's poor, huh? THAT POOR GIRL!
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Lysis said:
^ Yes, I agree that the girl didn't make the best decision on meeting up with him, but I really hate blaming the "victim" as much as I think it was stupid for her to do. We don't know what he said to her, so perhaps she really just thought he had a bad day. Plus, she might have been desperate herself. Who knows... Not her best decision, but it doesn't excuse his behavior towards her.

I stand by my gut that a person who will flip out on a first-time meeting over "looking at me" will be incredibly worse and even violent as the "relationship" progresses. Therefore, she dodged a bullet.
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LOL... really?
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I've had 6 beers, this is only the internet and I don't wanna make any enemies, but I can see both sides of the story....Maybe he overreacted(did I spell that right?).....Maybe, it sounds a lot worse than it was! Maybe it was worse than dude is making it sound! Who knows?

She did agree to meet him and then blew him off! He was drunk and sent "angry texts" or whatever....They seem to be incompatible anyway, so who's really the bad guy in this situation?

This is Bluelight...

I worked for years and I'm a musicianand like to write, etc......but right now, I have no job and no car and my girlfriend is supporting us! It's just the situation I'm in.....

I post on this website and read all you guys post because I relate to it a hell of a lot more than I do most of the other bullshit out there....Shouldn't we support somebody who's asking for help, rather than ridicule them and making them feel worse?! Whether or not we personally agree with their actions?

Is this not what Bluelight is for GODDAMMIT! lol...

Obviously if somebody was performing blood sacrifices with kittens in their backyard, I'd be a little more harsh, but we're talking about "Harsh words at the coffee shop!"....
 
No they were harsh, and somewhat justified words ove rthe internet. I don't even want it be this way man. I wish she'd just take her silly antics out of my thread.

I feel like she realized a page ago she was being way too melodramatic but can't admit it so she's hanging onto whatever last shred of foolishness she can, and it's tiring.

I didn't ask you to make a (completely false) grammar check on me. Like why? Leave me alone already, christ...
 
I've had 6 beers, this is only the internet and I don't wanna make any enemies, but I can see both sides of the story....Maybe he overreacted(did I spell that right?).....Maybe, it sounds a lot worse than it was! Maybe it was worse than dude is making it sound! Who knows?

She did agree to meet him and then blew him off! He was drunk and sent "angry texts" or whatever....They seem to be incompatible anyway, so who's really the bad guy in this situation?

This is Bluelight...

I worked for years and I'm a musicianand like to write, etc......but right now, I have no job and no car and my girlfriend is supporting us! It's just the situation I'm in.....

I post on this website and read all you guys post because I relate to it a hell of a lot more than I do most of the other bullshit out there....Shouldn't we support somebody who's asking for help, rather than ridicule them and making them feel worse?! Whether or not we personally agree with their actions?

Is this not what Bluelight is for GODDAMMIT! lol...

Obviously if somebody was performing blood sacrifices with kittens in their backyard, I'd be a little more harsh, but we're talking about "Harsh words at the coffee shop!"....
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What always confused me about some people on BL is their correlation between support and coddling someone when they are completely in the wrong and need to be told that what they did was wrong. This dude goes off on some girl, puts her in an awkward situation, yells at her for "looking at him" and I'm supposed to coddle him and tell him "it's ok?"

Uh, no. Doesn't work that way.

I expressed an opinion that he is capable of a lot worse if he's raging on some girl for looking at him. If you don't like that opinion, you're welcome to disagree, but don't try to suppress my opinion because he is clearly in the wrong and plenty of people told him. Sometimes, the mob is indeed right.
 
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KoreyS said:
And are you just gonna ignore your my rebuttal to your failed jab about deep-seated and deface? lol
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You almost had my sympathy... until you had to childishly bring up that you proved yourself right. Now you look like the same insecure, overtly aggressive (to those are trying to help) and immature person that you did in the OP.


You just got called immature by a 17 year old....

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I think this thread was summed up in the first post.

fakeplastictrees4 said:
You might want to get your shit straightened out before seeing people.
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It's gone straight downhill since then.
 
Okay, once and for all, I DID NOT YELL AT ANYONE FOR LOOKING AT ME. You know this too. Read the initial post. You know that didn't happen. Stop saying that
 
Folley said:
You almost had my sympathy... until you had to childishly bring up that you proved yourself right. Now you look like the same insecure, overtly aggressive (to those are trying to help) and immature person that you did in the OP.


You just got called immature by a 17 year old....

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She dug her own grave.
 
Dude get some help. Really... I've been in abusive homes and even lived in a domestic violence shelter as well as their transitional housing..... and from everything I've seen, went through and heard about, I can say you sound like a wife beater in the making (if you aren't already). You can deny it but with the way you act and how heavy your abuse of alcohol... I have no reason to believe otherwise. I can't believe how you belittled that girl but still can justify the way that you treated her. You have no excuse to do the shit you have done.

Trust me there are a lot of abusers with the same traits as you and they always think they're right or that there was a good enough reason to react badly to someone. I can go on and on about this but I'll be nice and stop here. I just pray for any woman that encounters you next. Unless you get your shit together you shouldn't date. You may think things will be different if you find the right girl for you but what if she gets on your nerves and she will. Are you going to be able to hold back your rage? From the looks of it, no.

Again I repeat get help.
 
Like I said, you're desperately trying to sprinkle tiny little fabrications and falsities into the story to skew the true events, because you know damn well you jumped the gun and acted a fool with some of your posts in this thread. Just stop already man. It's like you're trying to tell them what happened more than I can. lol man... ughhh...
 
xstayfadedx said:
You may think things will be different if you find the right girl for you but what if she gets on your nerves and she will. Are you going to be able to hold back your rage? From the looks of it, no.
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And then what? OH NO! They may get into an argument!? Oh my gosh, that's something that never happens in relationships.
 
Lysis said:
What always confused me about some people on BL is their correlation between support and coddling someone when they are completely in the wrong and need to be told that what they did was wrong. This dude goes off on some girl, puts her in an awkward situation, yells at her for "looking at him" and I'm supposed to coddle him and tell him "it's ok?"

Uh, no. Doesn't work that way.

I expressed an opinion that he is capable of a lot worse if he's raging on some girl for looking at him. If you don't like that opinion, you're welcome to disagree, but don't try to suppress my opinion because he is clearly in the wrong and plenty of people told him. Sometimes, the mob is indeed right.
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I'm not China, I'm not trying to supress anyones opinion! I just don't know if there's really evidence of "raging" here!....

for example, someone pissed me off so much one time, I took all the dishes out of the cabinets and proceeded to smash them on the back deck....I was totally out of control and wrong to do that! I had reason to be angry, but my actions were WAY off! And, I guess thats my point here...

Someone mistreating you and telling you to show up somewhere and then blowing you off completely is reason to be angry....Yelling at them could be considered inappropriate, but there's worse things...

I'm done....
Love, sex and welfare chex!
 
I'm not China, I'm not trying to supress anyones opinion! I just don't know if there's really evidence of "raging" here!....
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I'll give you the handicap that you haven't likely seen his posting history...
 
Laika said:
And then what? OH NO! They may get into an argument!? Oh my gosh, that's something that never happens in relationships.
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Except he can't handle arguments the correct way..... Its just the truth. Tell me from everything he has said that you really think he would be able to handle the fight without lashing out? Who knows it could get physical... and he would most likely belittle her so bad and that is still abuse.
 
Lysis said:
I'll give you the handicap that you haven't likely seen his posting history...
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The same can be said about yourself. I have been a lurker for years, as my registration date proves. You constantly bring up wife-beating in so many of your threads. Why do you constantly bring up spousal abuse in your threads?
 
KoreyS said:
She dug her own grave.
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That's your other problem. You know, besides all the self-esteem and anxiety and drug abuse shit..... you're all too willing to put the blame on someone else. It's them reading your posts wrong, or being too "normal" (lol the fuck does that even mean), them not sharing your interests.... you seem to have some serious growing up to do before you'll be able to interact with humans in a functional way.
 
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