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My girlfriend doesn't want to do anal..HELP!!!

I know women who enjoy anal sex, but they aren't common. Most women are dabblers, or not at all. Men have thicker rectal tissues than women because of testosterone, so women are more prone to injury from anal sex. Men also have a g-spot via anal which makes more sense to me. I really don't understand what some women get out of it besides the psychological aspect. I second the above suggestion that if you want your gf to explore anal sex for the first time then she should probably try toys on herself first. Going from zero experience straight to a real cock is more than likely going to be painful and because she won't know what to expect she may also be terrified, making her fail to relax.

But it sounds like she has no interest at all, so why bother.
 
this thread made me feel kind of bad, like i like to recommend music and stuff on this site. i don't want people to associate me being an anal sex freak with any music i might recommend. lol.

just thought i'd point out some dudes can get pretty creepy.
 
just thought i'd point out some dudes can get pretty creepy.
True dat. And the best way to counter this, and make the world just a bit safer for women, is to call out your guy friends for doing creepy shit. You don’t have to make it into a big thing, just be like, “dude. SO not cool.”

If everyone did this, the creepazoids would maybe keep their cringe behavior to themselves 🤪
 
True dat. And the best way to counter this, and make the world just a bit safer for women, is to call out your guy friends for doing creepy shit. You don’t have to make it into a big thing, just be like, “dude. SO not cool.”

If everyone did this, the creepazoids would maybe keep their cringe behavior to themselves 🤪
Ummm I kinda think they wouldn't keep it to themselves... They're creepy dudes after all
 
How about getting over yourself. You act like you can't live without sex. That's a terrible place to be in. She will leave you or be stolen. Don't eat your own words. I beat my machine to do what I command it to do. I would rather respect her. Her beauty. Cuz it can be gone in one second. Changed forever. Don't end up like Juicewrld cuz he needed help. I wished I could of help, not because he had wealth but I hear his pain and my heart bleeds. He meant for his lover. Still I'm up in the air what happened maybe one of his body guards shoved all those pills and codeine down his throat. Cuz to be honest. You have the power of good and evil in the tounge. Always talking about Satan. Girls sex and look where he ended up.
 
Frankly I don't get the obsession with anal that so many men have. Sure, I've done it a few times and I even had a gf once who really liked it (she was freaky and kinda crazy).
Buttfucking is overrated.
What's wrong with good ol' juicy pussy?
It feels wonderful and there's no shit factor.
It's a lot safer, too.
 
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