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my girlfriend confessed me something about her past,something that keeps bugging me.

treezy z said:
man i'm ice cold i can't relate to this (not to insult you or anything)

i use to get feelings like this as a kid but now i'm cold-blooded
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its never too late to feel like i do, you just need to find the one whos gonna change your life,views,soul,heart...everything :) wish you to find the one who will dance with your soul ;)
 
treezy z said:
nothing lasts forever, ex-girl to next girl is the way of the world
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maybe so but to me its always up to people to do the right thing whether you choose to fight for things you love or choose to let them slip out of your life. its not a factory thing nor set to be the way you say :) :) :)
 
treezy z said:
first off, if this chasteness is a religious thing cool, if not stop. 99% of girls aren't chaste and don't want a frigid male.

second, 3-5 guys or so is basically 2014s version of a virgin.

also pussies do not loosen up from sex. they return to original size basically.
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This is probably the most ridiculous I've heard in a while. Man, I can't believe what I read
 
Mate, you said she's "the love of your life" and "you can't picture your life without her" so why should you care about her history? Her past shouldn't bother you. Your with her now and should be looking at your future together, time goes forward not backwards.

Take it from me, fuck off all thoes questions and just get on with what's going to make your relationship good with each other.
 
treezy z said:
first off, if this chasteness is a religious thing cool, if not stop. 99% of girls aren't chaste and don't want a frigid male.

second, 3-5 guys or so is basically 2014s version of a virgin.

also pussies do not loosen up from sex. they return to original size basically.
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This is so spot on, its not even worth me posting except to tell you how spot on this is.

And his post below the original.
 
Dude, I used to have a girlfriend who used to be a high class call girl. At one point, she had a couple multi-millionaire boyfriends. That was a head-fuck and a half. It took a bit to emotionally digest. But eventually, I figured that she was with me so she had to consider me an improvement other those other guys. Otherwise, why would she be with me?
 
inneedforanswers said:
1 CAN I SAY SHE HAD TOO MUCH SEX KNOWING THAT SHES DONE IT 17-20 TIMES ?
2 DOES IT MEAN SHE HAS A LOOSEN P*** ?
3 WILL SHE EVER BE ABLE TO FEEL IT THE SAME WITH ME?
4 WILL SHE COMPARE ME TO THE THREE MEN SHES BEEN WITH?
5 AND LAST HOW SHOULD I FEEL ABOUT IT. IT HURTS SO MUCH
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I think, if you love her truly, then you should leave all the past matters, whatever she has done, because if you think all the above question, then definitely you will not happy till the last. So, I recommend that you forget all the things and start your lovely relationship with an initial point. And be sure that she would be happy with you if she get satisfaction regarding sex from your side.
 
OP,
LIGHTEN UP.

You claim you love her? Then keep it simple and for goodness sake, stop over analyzing and torturing yourself with self doubts and projected BS.

Who cares if she's slept with a few men or how many times; all sounds fairly standard. and btw, your you, not them and your experience with her will be unique so don't allow the doubt to screw it up
 
thank you guys for your answers they actually helped a lot both in understanding why i feel the way i do and accepting past as past
 
lowski E said:
I was posting too one thousand words ..... Not you man... Don't worry most guys bust their nut in a minute. Take some benzos and opiates if your worried and you'll fuck like a porn star. I've faked an orgasm and I'm a guy cuz sometimes too much heroin makes u not cum. So norcos are perfect if u want to impress her
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I hardly see how taking benzos and opiates would help this guy. His problem is a mistaken belief that every woman must remain unsullied for them to be worthy enough to receive his wonder dong. This sort of thinking is offensive to women and is a puritan throw back to the middle ages. The older and more experienced you get the more you realise that virgins make the worse fucks. It is awkward and downright boring. Give me a woman who knows her way around her own body any day of the week.

I wouldn't use porn as a measure of a healthy way to have sex. Macho grunting in metronome rhythm like a robotic machine is a sure fire way to turn a woman off. Often long and slow drives a girl more crazy than a 30 minute battering ram. Besides the majority of male porn stars are actually gay so throwing men into this will only confuse the poor dude.
 
Hello i am a woman from Ethiopia,Addis Ababa..may be my English is not as perfect as you do ..however am not hesitating to share my opinion on the subject matter.If you can do do not judge your loved one by her past life...past is past..now you two are in an affection so that work on that for your togetherness and to end up by establishing a happy family .. have a nice day :D
 
You said you loved her and yet you can't accept her past... When you love someone you accept them as who they are as a person... Respect her even more that she even was honest to tell you when asked her... If you feel disgusted just because she told you how many time she's done it... Then you don't really love her.
 
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