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My boyfriend wants to cum on my face

You obviously got past the taboo barrier. Congratulations! Now it's time to explore and have fun. For him it is about the visual stimulation and the thought of seeing the most intimate part of himself splashing onto the most recognizable part of you. For you it might be about intensely satisfying your partner and the warm and intimate giggle you both share afterwards. For variation, the suggestion above about getting on you knees while he stands above you is a good one. Another would be you on your back with knees pulled back far and apart with him kneeling near your pelvis (or if you're flexible enough place your ankles behind your head). In this position he can see your vulva and your face at the same time and, with a bit of luck, land some of his semen on both (WOW!). Let your imagination go wild. Sounds like your having fun.
 
I loved it when my x let me cum on her face............. It showed me that she liked me and my desires and she was willing to be nasty with me.... Huge fucking turn on!!! No it's not that I was wanting to belittle her........not at all.....
 
samnslumberland said:
As of late, my boyfriend has been telling me that he wants to cum on my face while we're having sex and has been more sexually aggressive overall. I'm slightly uncomfortable with this because a) I'd rather he didn't, to be completely honest, and b) we've been sleeping together for over six months (we were FWB before being exclusive) and he's never expressed a desire to do anything of this sort. He always says, "I want to cum inside of you" or something along those lines. He's also been pushing for anal more so than usual, which is something that we're easing into slowly as I'm new to it.

I've gone through some pretty drastic weight loss recently and although I had an attractive figure before, it has definitely improved and even I can acknowledge that. Because of this I've been more comfortable in bed, particularly with completely removing all of my clothes while on top and in the daylight. I'm wondering if this is why he's become more aggressive and explicit in the bedroom? Is it a result of an increased attraction to me? Or, should I worry that there are other things going on and we're experiencing some sort of emotional disconnect? I'll admit that we've both been stressed lately and haven't been perfectly getting along all the time.

I plan on asking him about it myself, but I'd also like to get some opinions from other men and women who may have some insight or experience with this. I've read/been told from other men that when they're in a loving, committed relationship with a girl whom they truly care about, they don't have a desire to do things such as cum on their girlfriend's faces out of respect for them; that it's reserved for porn. Thoughts? Am I reading too far into this?

Edit: I should also mention that his sex drive has seemed to increase along the same time that he has begun being more aggressive, and he's been able to last longer. He is not taking any medication, does not indulge in any drugs other than cannabis, and drinks beer almost daily but not enough to get drunk.
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It may be a fetish he recently developed or something he heard about or saw on a porno and now he’s curious. I completely understand your view on it but, maybe let him do it once and get it out of his system. Get in the shower and give him a blow job and let him do it there. That way you can rinse it off immediately. Or give him a trade. He can cum on your face if you can PEG him! LOL
Good luck, I hope you can find a solution to your dilemma.
 
Do what you feel comfortable with. Remember there are two of you, your partner and yourself. Take this in consideration before you make up your mind. If you don’t want to he should respect your choice in this matter.
 
i think some guys like to start to push girls into sex acts they are uncomfortable with so they get sick of the relationship and break up.... not everyone, some people just have fetishes, but i could definitely see it being that... the OP from this thread is probably not on this site and done with that situation or comfortable with the relationship anymore... just saying where this thread brought me. definitely could be dudes that just like to cum on the face of their loved one though... just randomly looking for anal and looking to cum on a person's face after not really expecting that makes me think the person is just being a dick. i might be wrong though.
 
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Damn that was probably jarring as hell. It's such a toddler move just right on the couch out of the blue haha

I did it to a girl when she was asleep once lmao. Admittedly, she was a bit of a freak and basically told me to previously
 
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Personally I'd rather finish inside my partner as it feels better.. don't really understand the attraction to facials. But there's a lot worse things he could be asking for to be honest. A little spooge in the face isn't going to kill you, just don't get it in your eye xD
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I'm probably going to offend people by saying this, but the facial fixation is 100% the product of porn. I'm not saying it isn't something people like or have done on their own throughout history, but the reason it is so common is because it is in a ton of porn. It's popular in porn because the whole point of porn is to be visually stimulating for the viewer, not so much the people engaging in the sexual acts. It makes a good scene for the viewer.

You can't really discuss the influence widespread porn (and exposure at younger ages) is having on peoples sexuality without being dismissed as some insane anti-sex anti-freedom puritan though. People are very defensive over their sexual interests and seem to take questioning this stuff at all as an attack on them. I still think it is something worth investigating, both on a personal level and on a societal level though.
 
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I thought this was a very common desire for men. Ive just had 4 different partners but it’s something they all really wanted to do. Maybe a dominance thing? Not saying all men are like that tho. We all have our fetishes. It just wasn’t something I was into.


I would be pissed if I was sleeping and a dude cummed on my face. I’ve been woke up before by my partner fondling me but that is going a little too far. Damn
 
But sometimes you gotta give to receive. I’m willing to compromise 😂😂😂

If it makes him happy and he makes sure you get yours good then just do it
 
samnslumberland said:
As of late, my boyfriend has been telling me that he wants to cum on my face while we're having sex and has been more sexually aggressive overall. I'm slightly uncomfortable with this because a) I'd rather he didn't, to be completely honest, and b) we've been sleeping together for over six months (we were FWB before being exclusive) and he's never expressed a desire to do anything of this sort. He always says, "I want to cum inside of you" or something along those lines. He's also been pushing for anal more so than usual, which is something that we're easing into slowly as I'm new to it.

I've gone through some pretty drastic weight loss recently and although I had an attractive figure before, it has definitely improved and even I can acknowledge that. Because of this I've been more comfortable in bed, particularly with completely removing all of my clothes while on top and in the daylight. I'm wondering if this is why he's become more aggressive and explicit in the bedroom? Is it a result of an increased attraction to me? Or, should I worry that there are other things going on and we're experiencing some sort of emotional disconnect? I'll admit that we've both been stressed lately and haven't been perfectly getting along all the time.

I plan on asking him about it myself, but I'd also like to get some opinions from other men and women who may have some insight or experience with this. I've read/been told from other men that when they're in a loving, committed relationship with a girl whom they truly care about, they don't have a desire to do things such as cum on their girlfriend's faces out of respect for them; that it's reserved for porn. Thoughts? Am I reading too far into this?

Edit: I should also mention that his sex drive has seemed to increase along the same time that he has begun being more aggressive, and he's been able to last longer. He is not taking any medication, does not indulge in any drugs other than cannabis, and drinks beer almost daily but not enough to get drunk.
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GROSS!
 
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THIS^^^^ communication is key
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There had to be something deep for him going on with why he did that to you. This almost sounds like he was trying to mark his territory lol. Some men can be super possessive. I could be biased in my thinking tho cause I use to have some crazy stalker situations that got kinda scary back when I was a poster girl for some of the Hooter promotions. A guy had a pic of just my face that he had been ejaculating on. This was someone that knew me personally that I interacted with daily and had no clue thay he had an obsession. Freaked me out a bit.
 
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Kellsee said:
THIS^^^^ communication is key

There had to be something deep for him going on with why he did that to you. This almost sounds like he was trying to mark his territory lol. Some men can be super possessive. I could be biased in my thinking tho cause I use to have some crazy stalker situations that got kinda scary back when I was a poster girl for some of the Hooter promotions. A guy had a pic of just my face that he had been ejaculating on. This was someone that knew me personally that I interacted with daily and had no clue thay he had an obsession. Freaked me out a bit.
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I love that the OP’s simple question “should I let my bf splooge in my face?” has generated 10 years of discussion. It’s been through Covid, MeToo, wars and financial meltdowns, and still just keeps on going. It’s some sort of eternal dilemma. Surely Plato must have given moral guidance on this one? Or Nietzsche. I’m certain Nietzsche covered splooging etiquette in Zarathustra.
 
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