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Morning Sex

i know what you mean, my boyfriend loves morning sex, and of course i do too when im actually having it .. but im so cranky in the morning all i want to do is go back to sleep. afterwards i feel really bad, because i know im being a complete bitch to him, but at the time i cant help it, whatsoever.
 
Vandalaay said:
lol, yes but you're not helping your cause at all! :)
j/k men are cool, you guys offer a refreshing reprieve from female drama
and bullshit. I love you fuckers!
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But you prefer women? Is that just for sex? You prefer the company of men? I dunno, seeing who can piss highest, beltch the loudest or make lists of the girls they would like to f**k loses it's appeal, to me at least. I hate sports and when a group of guys start talking about it, I get real bored. Then again, I hate soap operas and cannot deal with people (mostly ladies) talking about that.

I guess we are just coming at this from different angles. I love women & prefer their company. If I'm ill, I want a female doctor, if I'm in the middle of a depression, I want a female counsellor. Men seem useless at empathy and thats real important to me...

I pride myself that I know the right spots; maybe not all, it's a constant learning experience. stroking, brushing fingers through hair, gentle kissing all over the body. I don't think many guys know that a womans stomach is a very responsive point, or inside the upper arms. Brushing your hair over a ladies body seems to elicit the right responses. gently stroking the thighs without just diving in on the genitals. I usually begin with a massage and go from there. I always have scented candles. I ALWAYS ensure I'm freshly washed with fingernails/toenails clipped (you never know where your fingers might end up and long fingernails are a no no). Making love, properly, is a major project to get right! Of course, when you know someone well you learn their body and can perfect & experiment. It's always a learning experience though...
 
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My spin is this: Yes, I've a definite preference for women for many of the same reasons you mentioned.
I love their compassion, softness, warmth & understanding. There is something about a woman's touch
I can't put into words. It's not just sexual, though it would be easier for me if it was.

That said, I'm not attracted to the kind of behavior you mentioned (pissing contests, etc.) in anyone. I
wouldn't want to offend any men but I enjoy their company precisely because they're simple. In no way
do I mean shallow- I just appreciate low-maintenence.

Anyway, you sound like you know your way around a woman's body and that's awesome. You give me
some hope! :)
 
It sounds like you love cock. Wouldn't a vibrator for sex & a cat for company work out better?
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Haha helll no. i know you jjust jokin but damn. I love my man. it aint just sex you know. its that whole thing called love......

Aint no chick that understands me but my man does. aint no chick i can spend hours with just relaxing, but i can do it with my man.....

I would never want a chick to hold me when times get rough or take care of me when im sick. i cant even stand to be in friendships with most females, shit.

A woman dont necessarily have something that a man dont have. I am with my man for 4 years now and i would never want anything else than what I am so blessed to have. :)
 
Men ARE simple. Look at how god designed our genitals. One piece action, self cleaning (to an extent), simple to arouse & easy to please. Women are like the rubiks cube. It takes a lot of practice to solve even in a reasonable time & very few people master how to do it really well. I'm just an enthusiastic amateur.
I understand your 'low maintainance' perspective but a lot of men seem to have psyche that's so shallow that you couldn't get your ankles wet if you went for a paddle. That's why most of my friends are women. Empathy is a tricky thing to master for a man. Women just seem to do it naturally. That, I like...
 
haribo1 said:
I understand your 'low maintainance' perspective but a lot of men seem to have psyche that's so shallow that you couldn't get your ankles wet if you went for a paddle. Empathy is a tricky thing to master for a man. Women just seem to do it naturally. That, I like...
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A 'shallow psyche'? What does that actually mean? That the men you commonly associate with (and you've admitted there aren't many) have interests that you don't find interesting? That you are 'deep' because you have more interests than sports and sex?

Empathy is a tricky thing to master for a man, is it? You, of course, have overcome the handicap imposed by your gender because you are superior to the average man. Bullllllshit. I think what you are trying to say is that men aren't interested in listening to you talk about your 'deep insights', so you run to women and try to curry favour by bitching about men with them.

I'm going to take a wild guess that you are the 'best friend forever' that listens to various women bitch but never has them touch your penis, which you desperately want but would never admit. You would be an embarrassment to your gender if you weren't a face full of teary, smudged mascara away from being a man.
 
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^^^Wow, one angry dude flaming me all the way. I love your wild guesses. Everyone is entitled to their own point of view. My predudice against men is caused by post like yours. Well done for re-enforcing the viewpoint. The empathy is... non-existant. I won't bother commenting on you, I feel that everyone reading this thread will make their own minds up :) I am just me. I was brought up to be chivelrous. It may be old fashioned, but that's the way I was taught to treat women.


Could I also point out the posting rules for this site:

1) Respect Others: This forum is a place where people have SERIOUS discussions. If you belittle a serious conversation your posts will be EDITED or DELETED. No nonsense will be tolerated! Use common sense when judging what is appropriate and what is not, based on what is being discussed. If your sense of judgment is poor we will let you know. In general you will find people here very accepting, open-minded and helpful: this is the atmosphere we want to nourish, given the sensitive nature of many topics.


I didn't see any respect, just a lot of nastiness. If you think something like that, PM it rather than placing it onto a board. I think everyone was enjoying themselves until you appeared.

Can you define what empathy means without resorting to a dictionary?
 
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As for morning sex i have heard that guys have a higher sex drive in the morning while girls have a higher sex drive at night. I am also a little bastard when woken up in the morning, but if it was a naked girl i think i might be less agitated. I can have sex even if i need to pee but my gf is the type to make sure to utilize the bathroom before engaging in sexual behaviors
 
robatussin said:
As for morning sex i have heard that guys have a higher sex drive in the morning while girls have a higher sex drive at night.
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I've heard this to. I seem to remember someone explaining it from prehistoric times when the men were the hunter-gatherers. Sex in the morning means that the woman could get pregnant & if the bloke dies that day, she has nobody to help bring up the child. If he makes it home, the woman is more likely to say yes since he's got back & most likely brought food and whatever. Could be a total crock but myself, I like sex in the mornings whereas the majority of my partners preferred it in the evening. Not a large cenus but 4 out of 4 seems a bit unlikely if it was 50/50%...
 
DarthMom said:
after rubbing my coochie, he will sniff his fingers and act like he is smelling a fine wine, and it absoutely drives me nuts. that man loves the p. he will say how he isn't gonna wash his hand all day so he can keep sniffing me 8(

perv :D
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Too funny. I enjoy the smell as well but my wife thinks I'm strange when I sniff my fingers afterwards.

As for morning sex...that became a thing of the past along w/ BJ's once we got married, so expecting a BJ in the morning is deinately out. Funnything is on those VERY rare occassions when I can be persistant enough to get it in the morning, she finishes in like...two minutes...of course I finish in one (it's morning). Anywho, maybe she won't read this thread, and maybe I won't get grounded for talking about our sex life.
 
TBritton said:
Too funny. I enjoy the smell as well but my wife thinks I'm strange when I sniff my fingers afterwards.

As for morning sex...that became a thing of the past along w/ BJ's once we got married, so expecting a BJ in the morning is deinately out. Funnything is on those VERY rare occassions when I can be persistant enough to get it in the morning, she finishes in like...two minutes...of course I finish in one (it's morning). Anywho, maybe she won't read this thread, and maybe I won't get grounded for talking about our sex life.
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Just my 2 cents. But I don't think the problem is with you or your marriage. I think society puts this vibe out for marriage like it's the end of everything and people subconsciously follow it like sheep. It's so sad to hear people say, "I'm married" as the equivalent of "I'm dead".

Also I think married couples just stop tryin to impress the other after they get married because the mindset is like, "Even if I don't try...where's your lockdown'ed ass gonna go?"
 
Morning sex can be great, but I tend to end up with girls who have been raped, and they always ask me to wake them up with sex, but then they think they're being raped, because they are dreaming, and I get beat up, so I just don't bother anymore.

It's fine when they initiate it, but they hardly ever do, because all my ex's sleep a hell of a lot longer than I do....in fact women in general just seem to sleep way to much compared to me, so I guess I won't ever be woken up with sex.

That plus morning breath can really kill it....
 
The thing I like most about morning sex is the way my ex looked in the morning. He's hair would be all smooshed to one side and he would have sleep in his eyes and a gruffy beard growing. I would usually wake up before him so i would get to see him with his mouth all open and snoring. It was like viewing a vounerable really comphortable side of him.

Also the memories of the night before were still in my head so I was thinking about the nice dinner we had or the cute thing he had done before we went to bed so the sleepy nice sex was an unreal beginning of the day.

Man I miss him....
 
workhardplayhard said:
Just my 2 cents. But I don't think the problem is with you or your marriage. I think society puts this vibe out for marriage like it's the end of everything and people subconsciously follow it like sheep. It's so sad to hear people say, "I'm married" as the equivalent of "I'm dead".

Also I think married couples just stop tryin to impress the other after they get married because the mindset is like, "Even if I don't try...where's your lockdown'ed ass gonna go?"
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I agree and just for the record, our sex life is just fine. I didn't get married for the BJ's, and they were infrequent BEFORE we got married, and yes, I'm sure once we got married they pretty much stopped because she was comfortable not doing something she doesn't really enjoy. That's fine, after all the Bible says it's better to give than receive.

My wife is wonderful, and sex is a bonus that comes with the package. I'd rather have my wife and no morning whistling dixie on bobo, than be with someone else and BJ's every morning.
 
aww, that was sweet :) what a gentleman.

it is true, with time, in relationships, some things don't come as often as you like. kids are hard work. kids, a home, a job....my hubby constantly complains that i am not the sex machine i used to be. and i'm not....

but there are ups and downs. the ups make up for the downs. ;)

but saying you won't get married because of that? are you kidding? you are saying your life revolves around your sexual life. that is sad!! relationships are more than just sex, silly! i would trade a lifetime of sex for security, respect and love and most of all....love without judgement.
 
DarthMom said:
i would trade a lifetime of sex for security, respect and love and most of all....love without judgement.
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Me too. This isn't the best (god I hope he doesn't read this) sexual relationship I've ever been in, but it's the most emotionally stable, the most fun, the most supportive, the healthiest - and he's made me happier than I ever was when I had bedroom antics on tap. So many more things matter than sex - as long as it's happening sometimes, and it's satisfactory, it's all good.

Of couse MORE would be ideal, but sometimes you can't have everything :)
 
i love morning sex and have actually been refused it once by my bf. i woke him up with my mouth on his penis and he moaned and opened his eyes and then said "i'm too tired" and rolled over.
i was pissed off all morning after that.
this is kinda weird, but sometimes the feeling that i need to pee makes it easier to come, like my clit feels more senstive or something? no one else mentioned this so i guess it's just me
 
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