Holy crap, I haven’t been on here for a really long time. It’s amazing reading the things people say on here, especially once you’ve recovered. Totally different experience than when I was desperate and suffering a year and half ago.
I guess I owe it to BL to do a final recovery post. I have a lot written down, so it’s going to be a long one, but there is one thing I have to get off my chest right now.
For those currently suffering but want more than anything to get better:
STAY THE FUCK OFF THIS SITE
The amount of complete and utter bullshit I read after scrolling through just a couple pages is unbelievable.
The most tragic part of all of this is; in your efforts to get better and help others, you guys are actually doing incredible harm to yourselves and each other. No wonder the people who linger here never seem to get better.
I’m sorry to come off so aggressively, but I can never forgive this site for what it did to me. It planted a very dangerous seed in my vulnerable and anxious mind. A seed that if I had not fought tooth and nail to overcome, may have buried me permanently. This same seed has been planted in the hundreds (maybe thousands) of people that have lurked here.
This place is the genesis of all the LTC myths that plague sufferers. Hell, even “LTC” itself, a completely made up condition, got it’s start here.
And the same nonsense, the same lies, get told and retold from generation to generation. It sickens me to think that people early into their experience are going to come here seeking help and instead are going to get the exact opposite of what they need.
If you are that person right now, stop reading through this thread. Stop right now and get the things you actually need to help. Your situation is 100% fixable. Dedicate every bit of your being to that and tune out the incredible amount of noise you’ll get here.
Like I said, I’m not going to outline every single thing you need to do to recover because that’s for a longer post. But to at least stop the bleeding for you newcomers, there are a couple of things you can do right away:
1) Don’t follow any advice from anyone who hasn’t recovered. I made a link of all the recovery stories on Bluelight (see below). If you don’t want to take my word for it, read from the 100s of other folks who all say (essentially) to treat it like an anxiety disorder. Again I could probably write a book on all the aspects to this, but keep it simple for now and educate yourself on anxiety and put this atop of your “most wanted list” in terms of recovery.
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2) Dont convince yourself that “your situation is different”. If you’re like me, you are already convincing yourself that I must have experienced something different and that you are destined to be doomed. Yes, the MDMA fucking wrecked your brain chemistry. The physiological experience you have right now is screaming “I’m damaged”. This, no doubt, is an extremely disturbing and physically painful experience…. BUT….. you unquestionably DO NOT have permanent brain damage. Yes, there is a ton more nuance between where the physiological and psychosomatic lines are drawn and they definitely overlap, but all you need to know for recovery is that you ARE NOT permanently brain damaged. Millions of people take MDMA every day and there has never been anything (outside of Bluelight lore) substantial saying so. Plant THIS seed in your head and don’t leave any room for the Bluelight terror seed (or any other crazy theories) to grow. YOU ARE NOT ANY DIFFERENT THAN THOSE THAT FULLY RECOVERED.
3. Live healthily. Yeah, this one is annoyingly obvious, but there are a couple quick things that have to be addressed. One being, don’t buy a single supplement. I just counted 22 bottles in my cabinet. Guess how many helped me? Guess how many helped any Bluelighter ever? If you guessed 0, you are probably less brain damaged than you think. If you need a placebo to ride for a couple of days then go for it, but they will not fix your predicament and probably just fuel your anxiety trying to find the cure. Also, guys, seriously… quit recommending these on here. You’re harming people in the sense your giving them false hope.
What does work? For me and many others… prescription medication. I’m not all in on the psychosomatic bandwagon like some folks are. To me, there is no doubt a physiological aspect to this and an important part is getting your chemistry right so you can get back into your life. Talk to a doctor and get what you need to not be sick anymore. If you broke your leg you wouldn’t refuse a cast, so don’t overlook what you need to get better just because they have societal stigmas to them.
4. Setup your life for a slow and insanely challenging recovery. There is no easy way out (that anyone knows of yet). So with that, start getting used to suffering, but at the same time putting yourself in the perfect environment to get better. Treating a chemical imbalance and the subsequent anxiety disorder takes a lot of patience, learning, counseling, support, and time. If you want to be part of a place with people who are committed to staying positive and supporting one another as we get better, there is a Reddit support group that I can invite you to. We’ve already had a bunch of folks recover and many more on the way. If you think there even “could be” a better way then send me a message on here or on Reddit (my username is Iamthespiderbro).
Anyway sorry if I sounded mean. I’m just saying exactly what I would say (more like shout) to my former self 18 months ago. That person needed definitive reassurance and a path to get better and that’s not what I found. But lucky for you, I did manage to extract the things you do need and am passionate about getting every single person I can out of that hell.
I do want to end on a positive note though. One thing I could not have comprehended and I don’t hear about much on here is how much removed you get from this experience once you are better. I once thought this would consume me for the rest of my life, and now that I’m better I took off right where I left off. But the amazing part is, now I am stronger and more fearless than ever. This WILL BE your future too if you do the right things.
Anyway, gotta go… Hang in there guys!