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masturbation is gay (is jerking off a clone gay?)

bird.is.the.word

bird.is.the.word

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I'm not sure 100% what straight guys do when they jerk off (I haven't asked the question before creating this thread) but I assume bisexual guys and gay guys enjoy their bodies when they do a bit of self-love.

If you're straight guy and you're jerking off, isn't it weird if you're looking at your dick? Like if you're jerking off without porn. Say you're in the shower or something. Do you avoid looking at it?

Do you ejaculate with a hard dick in your hand, while looking at yourself jerk off? How is that not - at the very least - a little bit gay?

Masturbation would be much less enjoyable if I didn't like looking at myself. I don't need porn.

Curious about the ladies, too. Women tend to be a bit less repressed about this sort of stuff.

Do bisexual women or lesbians get turned on by their own reflection?

I would happily suck off my clone. Is that gay? Or is that incest? Or both/neither?

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I understand the question and my answer as a straight person is no, I do not look at my dick or myself when I masturbate, because it is not attractive to me.

The act, however, could be considered gay, but I don't feel gay.
 
do not look at my dick or myself when I masturbate, because it is not attractive to me.
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You don't look down when you're coming?

I realised some time ago that is what I look at when I climax even if I'm looking at porn because I have to aim or it will go on the ceiling.

Looking at it is unavoidable.
 
I've seen countless posts on Reddit about some girlfriend who posts about their stinky ass boyfriend who refuses to wash their asshole in the shower because they think touching their own butt is "gay"....

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In the past when I used to get particularly "tweaky and kinky" I would stick stuff up my ass to stimulate my prostate. Never thought it was gay at all, just fun. I suggest all straight guys try it before knocking it or having some existential "am I gay?" crisis.

I wouldn't mind being pegged, tbh, if the woman was into it, and I consider myself very vanilla hetero.
 
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Nas47 said:
No is not gay i think.some form of narcisism,if i understand right.I can jerk without a porn lookin' or not my dick...mirror doesn't matters.all is in my head.more physicall/physiological sensation.after then i am more calm.that's all......as for meth..haha that's anoda story
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iv never done meth (never intend to) but iv heard it makes people insane horney, like ridicules. if its anything like mkat that i got by mistake a couple of times (adulterated pills) then i think it get it, just this weird general arousal towards anything
 
90sdance said:
iv never done meth (never intend to) but iv heard it makes people insane horney, like ridicules. if its anything like mkat that i got by mistake a couple of times (adulterated pills) then i think it get it, just this weird general arousal towards anything
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Yeah. Meth is one hell of a drug.
 
bird.is.the.word said:
I said a little gay.

If you don't look at it, do you wear a glove... Or is touching dicks okay?

Is auto-fellatio a little bit gay?
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It's not gay because gay is a sexual orientation, that's something directed at OTHER people. Self-pleasuring has zero to do with your attraction to other people. Your relationship to your OWN body is a totally different thing. I wouldn't consider sucking yourself off gay, because a blowjob simply FEELS GOOD, and if you can provide that sexual sensation to yourself why wouldn't you. And same goes for looking at oneself. You might have to have a great figure and be a narcissist to routinely do it in front of a full - length mirror perhaps, but yes it can be a turn-on simply because it provides a visual feedback to the activity - making yourself extra conscious of the fact you're getting off right now and this can be stimulating to some people regardless of sexual preference.

Again, unless you feel attracted to men, are aroused by the thought of naked male bodies, fantasize about same sex activity during masturbation, you are not gay. It's perfectly possible to be straight as an arrow and enjoy giving yourself a blowjob because hell, you don't exactly have willing partners around anytime you want one, but you'd still be extremely put off at the mere idea of putting ANOTHER MAN'S dick in your mouth.
 
I consider myself strictly heterosexual, and I look at my dick for at least some of the time when I jerk off. What else would I do, stare at the wall the whole time?

Are narcissists gay for fucking someone of the same sex if they consider everybody else to be extensions of themselves?
 
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