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Looking for a junkie friend

TheUltimateFixx said:
I sometimes wish there was a social networking app or something for drug users. This site is as close as I've found Xd
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Your definitely on to something there. However, it's a double edged sword. One will always enjoy the product more than their dating 'match' and for that reason more than anything else, a friendship/penpal sorta thing would work a lot better than a 'dating' kinda thing ya get me? That's the way I see it.
And to kick things off my whatsapp/telegram is there for the op. I want a as I want 'junkie friends' too.
 
unfortuneteller said:
Hello!
Lately I’ve been feeling so alone. I would like to make some friends that also use. It sucks not being able to talk to anyone about shit or vent. I don’t think I would have much success putting “34, female, dope head” on match.com.
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I don't know if they have rules against that but assuming they didn't I don't see why you wouldn't. Statistically there would almost have to be some opiate users on the site and assuming you're female with a good pic they'd likely respond unless they thought you were a cop or something. In fact as I think about, that would likely be your biggest issue. Guys might think it was some kind of trap.

On another note I just quit my job and am experiencing major health issues right now and have nothing to do all day so if anyone wants to talk I am willing to chat. I don't use drugs anymore so I'm no fun in that regard.
 
^ I would think its a trap. A decent looking female willing to bring dope just sounds like a trap everytime.....unless its a longtime friend or somethin.

Oddly when I say I like to party I think I am communicating clearly that substance use is welcomed .... Im not just gunna go ahead and put it in writing that I am engaged in illegal activity. (says the guy on bluelight). But im a 'jonny was' so no worry.

Lol I need some new friends desperately but junky cant be the major bond/common interest; just never works out. I wouldn't go looking for that if I were you. (which im not so do as you please)
 
unfortuneteller said:
Hello!
Lately I’ve been feeling so alone. I would like to make some friends that also use. It sucks not being able to talk to anyone about shit or vent. I don’t think I would have much success putting “34, female, dope head” on match.com.
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Be careful who you do drugs with. You might end up on line. ;);) <3

Good luck and I hope you are able to find that someone to date and are able to meet somewhere !!

Enjoy your drugs and Safety first. :cool:
 
unfortuneteller said:
Hello!
Lately I’ve been feeling so alone. I would like to make some friends that also use. It sucks not being able to talk to anyone about shit or vent. I don’t think I would have much success putting “34, female, dope head” on match.com.
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It comes with the lifestyle. I've got too many junkie friends but now I'm trying to get well I understand the majority aren't real friends at all and are dragging me down.
Unfortunately most 34 yr old junkies arent the kind of people youd really like to be friends with, at least not the omes rojnd here.
When you say friend, you mean platonic?
If you're ffinding yourself lonely its probably the drugs.
Perhaps it could be time to seek some help and find a friend in recovery rather than turning to people with serious issues in their life?
Take care.
 
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Maybe some OP's don't want to be here anymore. Or maybe someone found a date.
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axe battler said:
It comes with the lifestyle. I've got too many junkie friends but now I'm trying to get well I understand the majority aren't real friends at all and are dragging me down.
Unfortunately most 34 yr old junkies arent the kind of people youd really like to be friends with, at least not the omes rojnd here.
When you say friend, you mean platonic?
If you're ffinding yourself lonely its probably the drugs.
Perhaps it could be time to seek some help and find a friend in recovery rather than turning to people with serious issues in their life?
Take care.
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You got a good point there; but I think she was explicitly looking for a using friend. There's a lot of prejudice and social stigma around drug use, and most non-users will treat you completely differently once they find that out about you. And there's things that come with the territory that non-users just don't get, there's certain conversations you just can't have with even the most tolerant non-user because it's outside their experience. Some stuff I mention that gets a laugh from the guys here at BL will get a pearl-clutching 'SHOCK HORROR' reaction if I were to say the same thing to a non-user mate. In some specific ways I can't relate to regular people.

PS it's also nice when I go 'so I didn't know the place and went cold copping' and the other person actually knows wtf I'm on about 😉, instead of, I dunno, wondering why I'm combing the streets for shivering policemen to date
 
TheUltimateFixx said:
You got a good point there; but I think she was explicitly looking for a using friend. There's a lot of prejudice and social stigma around drug use, and most non-users will treat you completely differently once they find that out about you. And there's things that come with the territory that non-users just don't get, there's certain conversations you just can't have with even the most tolerant non-user because it's outside their experience. Some stuff I mention that gets a laugh from the guys here at BL will get a pearl-clutching 'SHOCK HORROR' reaction if I were to say the same thing to a non-user mate. In some specific ways I can't relate to regular people.

PS it's also nice when I go 'so I didn't know the place and went cold copping' and the other person actually knows wtf I'm on about 😉, instead of, I dunno, wondering why I'm combing the streets for shivering policemen to date
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Yeah i get that. It's fun to have a partner in crime, I didn't mean to sound preachy @unfortuneteller just watch out for people who are going to take advantage of you or rip you off.
It's better to base a friendship around personality traits than what kind of drugs you do.
 
axe battler said:
Yeah i get that. It's fun to have a partner in crime, I didn't mean to sound preachy @unfortuneteller just watch out for people who are going to take advantage of you or rip you off.
It's better to base a friendship around personality traits than what kind of drugs you do.
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I always separated the two. I had a couple real friends (ie who would stand by me in times of trouble, and who weren't users) and my using buddies, whose company I enjoyed but whom I also wouldn't have trusted further than I could spit.

Honourable exception my best mate, who somehow managed to be both an inveterate junkie and the most loyal person whom I could (and did on occasion) trust with my wallet, belongings, confidences and literal life.
RIP brother.
 
That's like looking for the devil, just flip a switch on over the mouse hole in the floor and tell him what you want
 
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