rave_itsrealfun!!!
Bluelighter
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I guess I'm just looking for other lonely guys who have gone years and years without hooking up to talk with possibly privately. If you haven't experienced this kind of pain then you won't really understand me I feel. It is the worst pain I have ever felt. And I understand I sound like a bitch, but ime males start bitching about not hooking up after even just a month or 2. Try your whole life.
I don't even know why I'm posting this because there is no way I can be helped. Do psychologists suck cock? Apparently not, they give out brain damaging "medicine" I'd rather abstain from. There is nowhere I can go to find love, it takes a special connection that I am very capable of, but the ladies just won't have me. They never have. And I can't be happy having lived forever without love, I just can't.
Hey guys I am 23, have lived my entire life without female company. i am not a virgin technically but i consider myself one because the only sex i've ever had is blackout drunk mdma sex. basically this has ruined my life, i have been miserable for years only due to this one issue. i don't see any other problems in my life, except for this innate repressed desire of mine that can never ever be satisfied. i have done everything i can to attract girls into my life... i have an engineering degree, i have a big chest and 8 pack abs, like you think this would fucking help me out a bit, it doesn't do shit. my self esteem has become so low that i have had this degree for a year and i can't get hired because my vibes are just off in interviews and i guess it just takes time, but it's not that bad, i still have the confidence to get through those. But I am not reaching my full potential because I am in constant pain.
My point I guess about being smart and jacked, as well as humble and nice, and career oriented, is that I know I am everything a girl could want. I'm such a good guy, I hear this all the time from my lady friends, that I will end up with a chill bittie. This should boost my confidence, but it actually worsens the pain.
i think this has to do with how i have been stoned for nearly a decade. being high just makes me invisible to girls, it's cosmic lady repellant. however, if i didn't have a girl problem then i don't think the weed would even be an issue - it's the combination of both that messes me up. i wrote quantum physics exams baked, i'm not that dumb on the stuff. oh, and i had terrible back acne in high school - that is how this all started. By the time it went away I was the only virgin left and I had missed out on the whole confidence development thing, and have continued to miss out ever since. So sure I smoked too much pot, and took a little longer to mature, but do I really deserve this shit? Why?
so I have quit smoking weed and feel a hell of a lot better, but since I'm not a zombie anymore I need to learn how to deal with this constant pain. I have dropped mushrooms and acid recently, and I have been getting into oxycodone, so I am still abusing drugs. I went through periods of abuse with cocaine, alcohol, and mdma so I really shouldn't be doing more drugs than I've done. I feel I should have made the switch from pot to oxy years ago, i would have a job and a girlfriend by now I bet. And I also feel that I can no longer live life without getting on these painkillers to help me out of this rut, because I am suffering too much.
Now I will just repost what I wrote someplace else:
i will continue using psychedelics and oxycodone in moderation but who knows what I'll end up doing. i'm certainly not in control anymore. hell, bring on the needles, for i no longer give a flying fuck, because things cannot possibly ever become worse than they are. every moment of my existence i am a tortured soul. i wake up in the morning, get up and start wishing i was dead until i lie awake restless at night hating myself. girl after girl, year after year, failed attempt after failed attempt it's same shit different day. nothing ever changes. i meet them and then i become a texting object for their pleasure, before i am discarded for some abercrombie clean cut loser. i can blame it on the pot because i don't know what the fuck else to blame it on. i am very muscular and fit, nice, smart, outgoing... i try really fucking hard to meet them, i can carry on fun conversation about random shit, i go out all the time, i'm doing something with my life, i just have a little too much passive female energy - i shouldn't have to live without them it has driven me insane, beyond fucking insane. it has made me boil with anger and despair for as long as i can remember. why only me? why am i the only man i know who must live forever alone?
i just wish i could figure out how to be happy, can't seem to get over the animal instinct part of myself that tells me i'm inferior to all other males. even with psychedelics, i can't get over this for long! all i can say is i wish the opposite sex did not exist, only thing i despise more than mean girls and their stupid fucking games is myself for not being able to go along with them, for failing totally. but i just popped an oxycodone so i will soon be able to at least think straight enough to start doing a little yoga here, another thing that has gotten me nowhere but more flexible.
I don't even know why I'm posting this because there is no way I can be helped. Do psychologists suck cock? Apparently not, they give out brain damaging "medicine" I'd rather abstain from. There is nowhere I can go to find love, it takes a special connection that I am very capable of, but the ladies just won't have me. They never have. And I can't be happy having lived forever without love, I just can't.
Hey guys I am 23, have lived my entire life without female company. i am not a virgin technically but i consider myself one because the only sex i've ever had is blackout drunk mdma sex. basically this has ruined my life, i have been miserable for years only due to this one issue. i don't see any other problems in my life, except for this innate repressed desire of mine that can never ever be satisfied. i have done everything i can to attract girls into my life... i have an engineering degree, i have a big chest and 8 pack abs, like you think this would fucking help me out a bit, it doesn't do shit. my self esteem has become so low that i have had this degree for a year and i can't get hired because my vibes are just off in interviews and i guess it just takes time, but it's not that bad, i still have the confidence to get through those. But I am not reaching my full potential because I am in constant pain.
My point I guess about being smart and jacked, as well as humble and nice, and career oriented, is that I know I am everything a girl could want. I'm such a good guy, I hear this all the time from my lady friends, that I will end up with a chill bittie. This should boost my confidence, but it actually worsens the pain.
i think this has to do with how i have been stoned for nearly a decade. being high just makes me invisible to girls, it's cosmic lady repellant. however, if i didn't have a girl problem then i don't think the weed would even be an issue - it's the combination of both that messes me up. i wrote quantum physics exams baked, i'm not that dumb on the stuff. oh, and i had terrible back acne in high school - that is how this all started. By the time it went away I was the only virgin left and I had missed out on the whole confidence development thing, and have continued to miss out ever since. So sure I smoked too much pot, and took a little longer to mature, but do I really deserve this shit? Why?
so I have quit smoking weed and feel a hell of a lot better, but since I'm not a zombie anymore I need to learn how to deal with this constant pain. I have dropped mushrooms and acid recently, and I have been getting into oxycodone, so I am still abusing drugs. I went through periods of abuse with cocaine, alcohol, and mdma so I really shouldn't be doing more drugs than I've done. I feel I should have made the switch from pot to oxy years ago, i would have a job and a girlfriend by now I bet. And I also feel that I can no longer live life without getting on these painkillers to help me out of this rut, because I am suffering too much.
Now I will just repost what I wrote someplace else:
i will continue using psychedelics and oxycodone in moderation but who knows what I'll end up doing. i'm certainly not in control anymore. hell, bring on the needles, for i no longer give a flying fuck, because things cannot possibly ever become worse than they are. every moment of my existence i am a tortured soul. i wake up in the morning, get up and start wishing i was dead until i lie awake restless at night hating myself. girl after girl, year after year, failed attempt after failed attempt it's same shit different day. nothing ever changes. i meet them and then i become a texting object for their pleasure, before i am discarded for some abercrombie clean cut loser. i can blame it on the pot because i don't know what the fuck else to blame it on. i am very muscular and fit, nice, smart, outgoing... i try really fucking hard to meet them, i can carry on fun conversation about random shit, i go out all the time, i'm doing something with my life, i just have a little too much passive female energy - i shouldn't have to live without them it has driven me insane, beyond fucking insane. it has made me boil with anger and despair for as long as i can remember. why only me? why am i the only man i know who must live forever alone?
i just wish i could figure out how to be happy, can't seem to get over the animal instinct part of myself that tells me i'm inferior to all other males. even with psychedelics, i can't get over this for long! all i can say is i wish the opposite sex did not exist, only thing i despise more than mean girls and their stupid fucking games is myself for not being able to go along with them, for failing totally. but i just popped an oxycodone so i will soon be able to at least think straight enough to start doing a little yoga here, another thing that has gotten me nowhere but more flexible.
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