Honestly, guys, have neither of you not ever done anything you regretted, never lost your temper & said something you regretted? Never hit someone who didn't quite deserve it? If you have ever lost your temper or said something hurtful, you must be able to understand remorse. I've never blown anyone away but I have without question got regrets & remorse for some of the things I've said & done.
Maybe I sympathise with this murdering prick because I too am a control freak. Perhaps his personality & mine are more closely aligned than yours are. Maybe having a foot in white African culture further advances my empathy.
Nothing I have said, as far as I'm conerned, condones this guys actions in any way whatsoever, does it? All I'm doing is trying to express how I would feel had I done something as momentously stupid, if not downright evil, as this guy has. For want of a better phrase, I'm tryin to put myself in his shoes. Yes, I know, I saw that pun the first time
I read somewhere that true enlightenment is love & empathy for all things. Even, perhaps most especially, towards those who appear to deserve it the least. I've tried this & it's actually done
me the world of good, I hate myself for my failings alot less than I used to. But I still hate myself. I'm sure, if Oscar Pistorius doesn't hate himself now it is because he is distracted by his predicament, he will. Sadly, time might heal but it cannot be turned back. He's going to live with this, in or out of prison, for the rest of his life. I would not be at all surprised if he opted out, if you get me...