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Legal drugs to extend sex

LucidDayDream

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I know that drugs like paxil, alcohol, and painkillers extend sex. I was wondering if there is anything that I could get over the counter that could extend sex. I really don' t feel like I last long enough. Sorry if this topic has been done before.. I couldn't find anything with the search thing. Are there some or have I listed the only few? I don't see how a drug company could not invent something to help early ejaculation..
 
But doesn't that stuff just help give you an erection ? I guess that would work so I could have sex a couple times in a row... but I'd rather have something that would make me not ejaculate so easily. I just maybe need to do the exercises..
 
They aren't legal but opiates tend to keep me up and going, but make orgasm extremely difficult. But I tend to not have a problem with lasting as long as I want normally (in fact sometimes TOO long). Guys I know (Two-Pump Chumps) have told me that some oxy or whatever gives them quite an advantage when they need to last.

As for a legal drug that'll WORKS for this sort of stuff, theres no such thing. Or I should say that there are several that CLAIM to give you these abilities but don't for most people.

What you said about excercises, -thats where its at. Seriously, you'll be gain way more abilities this way than with any pill. The excercises will help with the physical aspect, but theres also a mental aspect that you can only lean by yourself, however you can come about achieving it. The easiest excercise you can do without devoting much time and effort to the cause is: when you're taking a piss, try to stop midstream, and start again. Try to do this a few times every time you take a whiz and you'll gain much more control over ejaculation. Just from doing this and since an acid experience a few years ago, I've been able to have multiple orgasms and make them for more than a minute, and I'm a dude- NO JOKE!!! But when I'm on opiates its actually frustrating because I CAN'T shoot it, regardless of whatever unusual skills I have.

So if you're so inclined, try some painkillers, or if you really a wanna stay legal you could try that numbing gel they sell in sex shops. I have no experience with that stuff though.
-Good Luck!
 
Yeah I guess I am a two pump chump. Well I guess I go longer than that, but its just never enough for my GF and its really frustrating. Its actually one of the most frustrating things in my life, and I feel bad that I cannot satisfy my girl. I can't believe some drug company hasn't figured this out. What is it in oxy or paxil that makes it hard to ejaculate? Thats quite interesting that an acid experience allowed you to last longer.. You can really have orgasms that last that long? Is your penis just spasming for a half an hour? (Maybe I read that wrong) I guess I gotta just start doing the exercises, which I have done before and didn't see much results from.. Oh well, keep on tryin I guess..
 
uprima is better than the over hyped viagra. paxil good for sex? a lot of people find impotence 7 total loss of sex drive from paxil & most AD's although I found a course of moclobemide made me horny as hell. yohimbe works to a degree but made me quite ratty
 
ChillsH2o said:
The easiest excercise you can do without devoting much time and effort to the cause is: when you're taking a piss, try to stop midstream, and start again. Try to do this a few times every time you take a whiz and you'll gain much more control over ejaculation.
It works dude, makes you go for a lot longer.

And Painkillers will do the trick, the only problem could be that you'll last way to0 long. Three to four times longer than her, hehe... 8o ;)
 
Disassociate your mind from the situation, its suprisingly easy. I bet ketamine would make sex last longer, never tried it during sex. You might not feel much of anything. And opiates make me not want to have sex at all.
 
My doctor upp'd my lorazepam (Ativan) dosage for 1-1.5mg twice a day and that made me last quite a bit longer. So i've kinda used that a bit as a prolonger side effect from it, but it also can be a bad thing as it sometimes takes 'too' long, the frustration kicks in and thats no good. But it certainly has the potenital to make yah last longer :) Hope that helps
 
Ketamine does make a guy last longer IME...and it's odd, but still great for sex in general.

SSRIs will REALLY prolong your time in the sack...and are pretty easy to get ahold of.
 
I meant I had sort of a mental breakthrough on acid, and now I can extend an orgasm basically as long as I want and can have second and third ones that may even be more intense than the first, if I'm properly motivated :). I'm not trying to brag, just saying that theres infinite potiential if you get your head in the right place;)
 
Ok thanks for all the help guys.. I do have access to my leftover paxil and celexa, but is this safe to just pop these things before I have sex? I found that I have to get it into my system (as I once tried to use paxil to extend sex) and then I have a weird withdrawel or lingering effect of the drug once I go off of it. I also don't want to use any drugs like ketamine.. I would love to try that drug recreationally but I don't want to have to be on some odd drug every time I haev sex. What is that spray all about? Yeah we had a talk last night, and I felt so horrible. She is frustrated too because she thinks just as she is getting going I am done. I guess I will start the exercises but when do you use the newly worked muscle, to hold it back? I have a book on it I guess I better just get off my ass and read the thing..
 
You wouldn't want to take paxil as it has the most side effects....what dose of celexa do you have?
 
Yeah I tried going back paxil for about a week and it did benefit me after that time, but yeah i had some odd side effects like CNS stimulation and others. I have 30 mg celexa, but when I was on it I didn't notice if it prolonged my stamina.. Would it be bad to take this stuff to try it out?
This problem is really sort of ruining my life. I just have never enjoyed sex because I last about 4-5 mins max.
 
Technique is your best wax. Forget about some sort of miracle pill.

You can get your girlfriend going a long way towards orgasm before penetration. Have her show you how to touch her. Get some toys - nothing too big - and use those first.

Try to take sex out of the "do it until you come" mode. Make it all fun and not just some something you do until you get off.
 
I would try 10 mg of celexa...just take it several hours before you have sex...it SHOULD work very well.
 
Do you enjoy having sex for 4-5 minutes? Because you could try to learn some techniques, to make sure your gf enjoys the time before those 4-5 minutes.

anyone ever noticed how guys always have to learn these techniques, try to last longer, try to get harder, but it`s always the girl`s idea??? it`s never a guy complaining about a girl not putting in enough work(not often anyways). Not that they have to do much, but it`d be nice to see them going through all that trouble for us too.
 
ORIGINALLY posted by LucidDayDream

Yeah I guess I am a two pump chump. Well I guess I go longer than that, but its just never enough for my GF and its really frustrating. Its actually one of the most frustrating things in my life, and I feel bad that I cannot satisfy my girl.
also GrOwThSpUrT makes a very good point.. Nost women LOVE oral sex, and you would be surprised. But The women I have had seem to enjoy it more then men do.. Women just don't express there opinion as much as men about these things. But once you have been with one a good while, she will start to. I learned along time ago that women love men who can do the job oraly

Now I can tell you what your major problem is.. You are trying to day hard. "if you are sitting there thinking to your self the entire time, Don't get off, Don't get off, Don't get off. Guess what's the first thing that's going to happen? You going to get off. Also, While I'm not inplying how old you are or how much experience you have. Keep this in mind, practice makes perfect. but it sounds to me like you need some anxitey medication, you are putting WAY to much pressure on your self.. sex should be fun for you two. But your going to end up going into a panic attack.

Now I my self have found that painkillers are the best way to not get a nut. These things dull the sensation of pain , but when your having sex, that is just another type of felling that they dull.. but even that you will eventually loose if you get to taking to many pain pills but I do not see that being a problem for you. as you do not really seem to want to take them anyway. a vicoden or two may do it for you. Just pop a couple atleast about 40 minutes before you think you will have sex.

But I can relate, when I was about 15-18 I use to have the same problem, I could go about 5 or 10 minutes at the most. I started using the exercise that was listed above and after doing it for awhile I started seeing improvements of up to 45 minutes or so. my high school sweetheart at the time started asking me what was up.. See got very suspicious as to what was going on, because of the drastic changes in just a few months.

Well when I got out of high school I started dating this 29 year old, and here I was 18. And she always kept talking about how when she had sex that she was use to going for hours and hours. A friend of mine told me to do this. Next time he would tell me. when your getting ready.. tell her to just give you a minute (do this after your dick is getting hard) go to the bath room reel quick. Put a little bit of salive on the rim of the head of your dick (as this is where most of the sensories are) then take a little bit of coke and rub it all around the end there. This will give you a slightly numbed feeling simulare to what the pain pills do.. but your not putting tons into your body.. just numbing an area.. Not sure if others have tried this.. but it worked for me, but after awhile I found out.. that you don't need all this shit.. Its in your head.. all of it..
 
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