aanallein
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This is a hard issue..
I've been blacked out or to the point of making choices I wouldn't normally and nobody could tell. Alcohol does this - a lot. A seemingly normal drunk person is actualy beyond their limits but doesn't know it and nobody else does. If they meet somebody, the other person is drunk but not losing control and they go back to the other person's place and have sex. - who's to blame? The guy doesn't know the girl wouldn't have done this while sober but she's drunk, maybe REALLY drunk, and he can't even tell she's THAT drunk.
YES THIS HAPPENS. Don't try to tell me everybody should have a drunk-detector to know the exact fadedness of every person they encounter.
I'm not saying if alcohol is involved its a get out of jail free card but I have some sympathy for people who have sex with girls who are drunk and it gets turned into a rape case. That would just suck if at the time, both people were completely down to fuck and neither person knew the intoxication level of the other.
I've been blacked out or to the point of making choices I wouldn't normally and nobody could tell. Alcohol does this - a lot. A seemingly normal drunk person is actualy beyond their limits but doesn't know it and nobody else does. If they meet somebody, the other person is drunk but not losing control and they go back to the other person's place and have sex. - who's to blame? The guy doesn't know the girl wouldn't have done this while sober but she's drunk, maybe REALLY drunk, and he can't even tell she's THAT drunk.
YES THIS HAPPENS. Don't try to tell me everybody should have a drunk-detector to know the exact fadedness of every person they encounter.
I'm not saying if alcohol is involved its a get out of jail free card but I have some sympathy for people who have sex with girls who are drunk and it gets turned into a rape case. That would just suck if at the time, both people were completely down to fuck and neither person knew the intoxication level of the other.