I met this woman in July of 2005 who has a learning problem. She is by no means "thick" and thus, I think she's just the manipulative type.
We initially met in a charity shop when I was involved in a course at college, and she just happened to be there. She lived in a suburb with her family, and had these highly immature younger friends who were relentlessly annoying. They kept harassing me pretty much every single time I went to see her, just because they were that type. It made me feel rather uncomfortable and I did not like certain other people in that area either.
Well, one time my ex lied and said these friends of hers were being kept in, but she was just saying that to get me to travel out to hers. When I got there, they were indeed there and they were lippy again. Then I never went back, for several years. My ex never come to see me again after that night anyway. We never even had contact numbers or anything.
I'm not sure why, but I never really accepted that she was just another idiot in my life, and I never had another girlfriend until I briefly had one in 2008. This made me feel very lonely and I spent years obsessing over what could have been, and she had moved elsewhere. We never even had sex when I initially knew her, so it was never a real relationship.
I never actually found her until in 2012. She uses Facebook. That's how I got in touch with her. The thing is, she knew all along I wanted to meet up with her, because I found her family members on social media back in the day after following a trail, and her own mother once lied and made out they lived in Spain, but they had only gone there for a vacation.
Within just a week, my ex had become my "partner" again, but I was aware she had been seeing this other guy on and off. She was okay at first, then she wanted me to buy her an iPod because she took a fancy to my iPod. Now I said I would get her one, but I did not say when. I'm mildly autistic and receive allowances, including DLA. So she went nuts and moaned at me, and threatened to leave me. Then I got her one on credit just to shut her up, but that was a foolish move. In a short period of time, she denied damaging it. The iPod was taking out on a credit deal, so I was unable to get it repaired through the shop I signed the sales agreement in, and had to end up paying extra in a different shop to have it fixed. To complicate matters, some of my money was stopped and I had to get it set up again through filling out forms, which took a while. She had dispassionate sex with me just a few times. Not long afterwards, she reverted back to being horrible towards me all the time, and then she once threatened to get the police to 'lift me' if I kept calling her landline, then she instantly changed her mind and invited me around to hers after I let her know my benefits were reinstated, after just saying a few minutes beforehand that she hated me. Even that never kept her happy for very long, because she started being nasty in next to no time yet again.
Using me for my cash is not all she did that was bad. She once went with me for a walk and had me waiting around like a moron, but she went elsewhere after saying she just needed the loo, and made out she fell asleep in a friend's house. Eventually, I ended up guessing her Facebook password and told all these people what she did, yet no one cared. We were on talking terms again several months later. And I bought her a PlayStation 3 that I intended to share with her. She was meant to pay half the cost this time though, and scammed me by taking it away and not returning it. Apart from that, her stepfather insulted me for having myopia when I got away at him because he was being rude on purpose. He asked if I was deaf as well as blind because he was getting out of line and I had to tell him to cool it. This was actually the first time I met him.
After the stunt with the PS3, I seen her well over a year later in 2014 for just a day. When I tried to meet her someplace after that day, she had me going there on a wild goose chase. She refused to give me her mobile number and I could only talk to her on Facebook. At the time, I had an Internet enabled phone, but I did not really know what Wi-Fi was, so there was no way to contact her had I shown up and she was absent.
The last time I saw her was in September of last year, just over 10 years after we initially met. She was in the street and I was across the road when I noticed her. Well, I'd been in trouble with the law because of a few care workers I got infatuated with. That's an even longer story, and I was jailed over and over again for contacting them, but all she did was ask me if I had money instead of listening to me. Once she figured I had nothing for her, she asked me to go away.
I feel quite stung here, and I thought me contacting both her and those support workers to make amends was noble, yet it never resulted in anything except heartache, stress and then some.
We initially met in a charity shop when I was involved in a course at college, and she just happened to be there. She lived in a suburb with her family, and had these highly immature younger friends who were relentlessly annoying. They kept harassing me pretty much every single time I went to see her, just because they were that type. It made me feel rather uncomfortable and I did not like certain other people in that area either.
Well, one time my ex lied and said these friends of hers were being kept in, but she was just saying that to get me to travel out to hers. When I got there, they were indeed there and they were lippy again. Then I never went back, for several years. My ex never come to see me again after that night anyway. We never even had contact numbers or anything.
I'm not sure why, but I never really accepted that she was just another idiot in my life, and I never had another girlfriend until I briefly had one in 2008. This made me feel very lonely and I spent years obsessing over what could have been, and she had moved elsewhere. We never even had sex when I initially knew her, so it was never a real relationship.
I never actually found her until in 2012. She uses Facebook. That's how I got in touch with her. The thing is, she knew all along I wanted to meet up with her, because I found her family members on social media back in the day after following a trail, and her own mother once lied and made out they lived in Spain, but they had only gone there for a vacation.
Within just a week, my ex had become my "partner" again, but I was aware she had been seeing this other guy on and off. She was okay at first, then she wanted me to buy her an iPod because she took a fancy to my iPod. Now I said I would get her one, but I did not say when. I'm mildly autistic and receive allowances, including DLA. So she went nuts and moaned at me, and threatened to leave me. Then I got her one on credit just to shut her up, but that was a foolish move. In a short period of time, she denied damaging it. The iPod was taking out on a credit deal, so I was unable to get it repaired through the shop I signed the sales agreement in, and had to end up paying extra in a different shop to have it fixed. To complicate matters, some of my money was stopped and I had to get it set up again through filling out forms, which took a while. She had dispassionate sex with me just a few times. Not long afterwards, she reverted back to being horrible towards me all the time, and then she once threatened to get the police to 'lift me' if I kept calling her landline, then she instantly changed her mind and invited me around to hers after I let her know my benefits were reinstated, after just saying a few minutes beforehand that she hated me. Even that never kept her happy for very long, because she started being nasty in next to no time yet again.
Using me for my cash is not all she did that was bad. She once went with me for a walk and had me waiting around like a moron, but she went elsewhere after saying she just needed the loo, and made out she fell asleep in a friend's house. Eventually, I ended up guessing her Facebook password and told all these people what she did, yet no one cared. We were on talking terms again several months later. And I bought her a PlayStation 3 that I intended to share with her. She was meant to pay half the cost this time though, and scammed me by taking it away and not returning it. Apart from that, her stepfather insulted me for having myopia when I got away at him because he was being rude on purpose. He asked if I was deaf as well as blind because he was getting out of line and I had to tell him to cool it. This was actually the first time I met him.
After the stunt with the PS3, I seen her well over a year later in 2014 for just a day. When I tried to meet her someplace after that day, she had me going there on a wild goose chase. She refused to give me her mobile number and I could only talk to her on Facebook. At the time, I had an Internet enabled phone, but I did not really know what Wi-Fi was, so there was no way to contact her had I shown up and she was absent.
The last time I saw her was in September of last year, just over 10 years after we initially met. She was in the street and I was across the road when I noticed her. Well, I'd been in trouble with the law because of a few care workers I got infatuated with. That's an even longer story, and I was jailed over and over again for contacting them, but all she did was ask me if I had money instead of listening to me. Once she figured I had nothing for her, she asked me to go away.
I feel quite stung here, and I thought me contacting both her and those support workers to make amends was noble, yet it never resulted in anything except heartache, stress and then some.
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