The IDF and Hamas are both despicable terrorist organizations and neither one should be supported by America or any other country
To suggest that the two are equivalent in any way is absolutely absurd. The IDF does not target civilians. The IDF does not seek to annihilate an entire race of people. They have their issues as any military does but to say they're the same is a very cringe take.
Hostage taking is a war crime on both sides
Israel does not take civilian "hostages". They arrest people who have committed crimes, including Hamas terrorists. If you want to say that some of those are bullshit or that their trials are unfair that is a separate discussion. (and I would agree that some of them probably are) But it is very different than going into Gaza, raping and killing civilians on purpose, and kidnapping more to take back and hold as hostages. Again a completely false equivalence.
The IDF's slaughter of 30,000-40,000 Palestinian civilians, multiple Israeli civilians, and hundreds of journalists and aid workers is a war crime
Slaughter implies that they deliberately went in with the intent of killing civilians. Only the most unhinged tankies believe that shit. I doubt you read the analysis of Israel's warning and evacuation campaign, but if their intent was to slaughter as many as possible I don't see why they'd do go to such lengths to warn them beforehand.
Israel blocking food, water, water purification technology, medicine, and electricity from reaching civilians in Gaza is a war crime
They've been sending in humanitarian aid from the beginning. Unfortunately lots of the trucks are attacked and the resources hoarded or sold on the streets. Again when you are at war with an enemy/government who lives and operates amongst the civilian population to shield themselves from attack, there will be unfortunate unintended consequences. If you were at war with someone would you allow them to use your power grid?
It is not acceptable to level entire cities to kill a handful of terrorists, and Israel clearly has the ability to not do that but still chooses to do so
So explain the process where Israel eliminates Hamas without widespread destruction? How does that work exactly? Also why are you downplaying the number of terrorists? I've seen estimates anywhere from 30,000 to 40,000. In an area the size of Philadelphia? Operating out of civilian infrastructure? Tell us how that works exactly, and what evidence you have that Israel is "choosing" not to minimize civilian death.
Israel is not "defending itself" any more or less than Hamas is
I don't see what your point is here. Hamas can attempt to defend itself all it wants. Doesn't change the fact that they are bloodthirsty terrorists who target civilians. Self defense is not purposely killing, raping, and kidnapping civilians. You have no evidence that the IDF as an organization has ever
intentionally targeted civilians. That WOULD actually be a war crime.
A single democratic and secular state in which Israelis, Palestinians, and people of any religion or ethnicity can live together peacefully is the only realistic path forwards
There is already a place where any religion or ethnicity can live together peacefully. It's called Israel. Arabs live there. Muslims live there. Jews live there. Christians, atheists, Homosexuals live there. Should they continue to improve the lives and rights of minorities there? Absolutely. Should they have a leadership change? I would think so, yes. All of these things are possible in a relatively progressive democracy.
How many Jews, homosexuals, and atheists live in Gaza or any of the surrounding Arab states?
A secular state is a nice goal to work towards but the Muslims there don't want that any more than the Jews do. I think one state solution is copium bordering on suicide for Israel. Seeing as the leadership elected in Gaza wants to literally exterminate their Jewish counterparts.