Is this just horribly wrong, or is that just me...

[Jimboach]

dbailey11

Dude, that's a very distorted self-image you have of yourself and it was a big headache for me to read.

1. Use proper grammatical punctuation and utilize identation and spacing. My eyes hurt.

2. Cheer up man. Everyone hits a bad patch...some are longer and darker than others but they ALWAYS clear up and when they do, it's real nice. You just need to stay active and put yourself out there. Exercise, participate in things with ppl, and try to see the better parts about you and work on improving those. Try to hide the lesser aspects or work on fixing those. You'll amaze yourself on how one day, so many things will have improved without you realizing it till that moment.

3. It's cliche but just keep thinking...It definitely could be a lot worse. I once spent a short time in jail for doing something bad i won't mention. I thought to myself, "how could this get any worse?" Then I noticed, it could be worse, I could have been sharing a cell!

 

[dbailey11]

Sorry, I was feeling extra self important and gloomy last night. Mostly I roll with it. ^^^^

"the author of this text must be incredibly lonely and will likely die that way." by Ximot

You may be right. But that doesn't mean I deserve it. I've conditioned myself to bring that about. It's hard to undo.

 

[doesntmatter]

this piece is just like the ladder theory http://www.intellectualwhores.com/masterladder.html
its mostly for fun, but has its truths.

you can't prove it against all women, but you can prove it against a lot.

women do react to the opposite sex differently than guys do, but their reactions are as varied as mens reactions to women.

 

[lady grey]

i think the ladder theories pointless, this guys theory is pointless. People, actually men spend far too much time analyzing how to fuck women. Its honestly NOT THAT HARD. unless your a complete tool in which case you probably do have to play games in order for women to sleep with you.

Why do guys spend so much time analyzing this subject???

Honestly get over it8) i love it how guys discover this & think they are the smartest thing on the planet. EVERYONE male and female are capable of manipulating situations in order to get what they want. Whether they choose to do so or not is another thing altogether.. Some people dont have to manipulate because they are capable of getting what they want without resorting to that.

Of course men and women are different, no shit! its just ignorant though to think you are superior. i pitty this guy, can't see him ever really being happy with someone.

^ Actually, people bail on relationships quickly because they're just not that into you...

Sorry to burst your bubble, but what you've posted above is a load of illogical tripe. It's completely logical to break it off with someone, if you don't care for them enough [read: to tolerate existing circumstances.]

QFT

 

[Strawberry_lovemuffin]

Sorry, I was feeling extra self important and gloomy last night. Mostly I roll with it. ^^^^

"the author of this text must be incredibly lonely and will likely die that way." by Ximot

You may be right. But that doesn't mean I deserve it. I've conditioned myself to bring that about. It's hard to undo.

dbailey just needs some lovin' *hugs*

It would be hard to snap out of the victim mentality, I don't envy you. Once you're used to throwing yourself a Pity party for One every day, it probably becomes ingrained in your psyche right? (and I didn't mean to sound facetious there, I just really wanted to write Pity Party for One 'cause i think it's funny )

The first thing I guess you've got to realise that these feelings of inadequacy are just that - feelings. They're not the truth. Just emotions. You can recognise they're there but then choose to ignore them and get about the business of life anyway. Challenge those thoughts when they pop up - it's bullshit! Who said that's you? Where's the proof? It's all just thoughts, man. Intangible thoughts. Nothing more than a fart in the wind, it's all shit your mind has made up about yourself.

But unfortunately by entertaining and indulging them, you're creating yourself into what you don't want to be, every day.

What you're doing now is allowing one hurt to dictate your whole life, and through the destructive habit of introspection you've gotten everything completely out of perspective. At least you haven't directed your anger outwards towards women, but internalising it is probably just as destructive.

The author of the article didn't know what to do with his hurt so he projected it outwards; yours inwards. Better solution? Surround that incident with a red line and mark it "anomoly". Everything outside that, which is all of your life and everyone in it, is still good and trustworthy until proven otherwise.

And hey: Allow people the chance to get to know you and like you before you convince them otherwise, okay? That's where self esteem begins.

 

[nuke]

People are stupid.

Women are people.

Man writes article because he's proud of how much he puts his penis into vaginas, inspires feeling of superiority and jealousy in other men.

Men are people.

People are stupid.