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is it considered or accepted as gay?

I changed my mind. If you're not sexually attracted to at least the physical part of the person who is giving you head as in their whole body including their genitalia , will that person blowing you be a good experience?


If you can come from just a blow job and that's all from anyone then the technique wouldnt be that important so not really an issue having any blow job.


I dunno, it would not happen for me, I very much prefer being with a guy who I am passionate about and vice versa, even just lying together would be better than the karma sutra with some bloke I not give a shit about.

Maybe specified has not met the right woman and thinks a bloke blowing him is the answer, which wont be likely
 
Specified said:
is it considered or accepted as gay if a guy sucks another guy off with a condom on?
it's been on my mind for a while now as i want to see what its like for a guy to suck me off since all girls ive had suck my dick have been absolutely terrible at it (eg, biting, shoving it so far back there throat the foreskin is pulled back like really bad) anyway since i know im not gay but dont want to be seen as gay by people would it be gay if a guy sucked my dick with a condom on instead of without?
I could wait for a girl who does it right but lately ive lost faith.
im stuck in a rut:?
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Why would you want to give or get oral sex with yourself or the other man wearing a condom? Do you have a latex fetish? Or do you have sex with men who have various STDs like herpes, HPV, syphilis, hepatitis, or HIV/AIDS? It is akin to giving a woman oral sex and licking latex or some sort of barrier instead of flesh. Or think of it this way, it is like eating one of your favourite foods or desserts all wrapped up in plastic or latex.

Yes it is considered bisexual or gay if you want to suck or get sucked by a man.

Have you tried telling women how you want them to give you oral sex?
 
Apparently not.


Is it really that awkward to talk or at least mumble some pointers or ask or does no one do that anymore.
 
I'm quite offended and saddened you think I'm trolling.
It's bad enough being called poofter let alone a troll. What is fetlife? If there's a person with the name specified on there then it's one in a million coincidence, or what's the actual username if it's not specified?
 
@Specicified... LOL The lady dost protest too much, get thee to a nunnery.

And I'm deeply offended by your statement, btw.
 
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Specified said:
but would it make me gay?
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If you ask me it depends on what is going on in your mind like when you lean back and get head what is your mind focused on?

Are you going to imagine or have straight porn in the background? If you prefer women this is highly recommended.

Specified said:
For being deeply offended by my statement.
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lol they were being sarcastic.

You didn’t offend anyone from what I can tell.
 
Specified said:
I'm quite offended and saddened you think I'm trolling.
It's bad enough being called poofter let alone a troll.
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Dude we're not insulting you when we say that your obvious desire to get blown by a man is gay. This forum is gayer than a male flight attendant.

Your complaints about blowjobs mostly comprise things your partners did correctly. And furthermore you don't even respond to the people who are trying to help you get better head -- which is supposedly the problem -- but you're really interested in anyone who is talking about some guy on your dick. I wonder why that could be?

Specified said:
What is fetlife?
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Ok, question. Why did you post a thread about "setting up a bluelight group" on fetlife? Is it because you've never heard of fetlife? I'm guessing no.

Fun fact: Googling stuff used to be literally my job. Like holy crap dude if you want to hide from us you should do it better lmao
 
The problem is the trolls just don't put in enough effort these days atara - they got lazy :-(
 
^aw he's like our only one

surely the title of this thread and the original post is pretty trollish

but evn so if you get a good topic out of it
 
atara said:
Dude we're not insulting you when we say that your obvious desire to get blown by a man is gay. This forum is gayer than a male flight attendant.

Your complaints about blowjobs mostly comprise things your partners did correctly. And furthermore you don't even respond to the people who are trying to help you get better head -- which is supposedly the problem -- but you're really interested in anyone who is talking about some guy on your dick. I wonder why that could be?



Ok, question. Why did you post a thread about "setting up a bluelight group" on fetlife? Is it because you've never heard of fetlife? I'm guessing no.

Fun fact: Googling stuff used to be literally my job. Like holy crap dude if you want to hide from us you should do it better lmao
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Ohhhhh that site. I take a lot of benzos so I tend to forget, and I'm not on fetlife I know a few people on it and was curious if any other bluelighters were on it.

Re: You saying I don't respond to people about giving better head. I don't want to give better head, I want to Receive better head. You misread my post. It's ok.
 
Specified said:
Re: You saying I don't respond to people about giving better head. I don't want to give better head, I want to Receive better head.
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The Freudian slips are strong with this one. Here's what I said:

you don't even respond to the people who are trying to help you get better head
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Yes, I said "get". You can read it in the post yourself. You can even read it in the part of the post you quoted.

As to why you got "give" out of that... well, I have an idea.
 
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