yes, buspar is an archaic anti-anxiety pill that doesn't work, and usually makes things worse.
the time release paxil is not easier on you.
complain about GI side effects, say it makes you to nauseous and you just can't handle the nausea. you can also mention the loss of limbido, say you have a girlfriend so you need it. but i would really just complain about the nausea, it worked for me. i can't take any of the SSRI's (paxil, prozac, zoloft etc) because of nausea. but if you need to go the SSRI route then try the new lexapro, it's the new celexa with less side effects (although it still made me nauseous) and didn't work.
you can ask for a tricyclic., which will help levels of serotonin and norepinephrine , but it was the first anti depressants made (besides MAOI's , trust me you don't want to go there) and side effects are usually sleepiness and sexual dysfunction...back pain and tremors less common...so i wouldn't go there.
what's best for side effects are wellbutrin, which should be taken in the morning because the side effects will be like caffeine effects.
but i would most reccommend REMERON which has no sexual side effects , no GI side effects, but will make you really sleeply so it should be taken at night, ohhhh and it will make you HUNGRY as hell, worse then pot munchies i swear, but they wear off in 2 weeks. and you can get the SOL tabs that dissolve under the tounge and taste like oranges...he should start you with 30 mgs then go up to 60 mgs after 2 weeks or so. it effects both serotonin and noradrenaline. and the soltabs work faster then SSRI's if you need quick relief, check it out here
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definitely don't take the paxil, paxil is developing quite a bad buzz, they're saying it's addictive and causes withdrawal if you need to go off of it.
so to sum it all up, say it makes you too nausous so you need a pill that doesn't cause nausea. say you've heard good things about REMERON and you want the dissolving tablets because they work faster then the regular ones.
hope this helps a little.
i've been on every single class of anti depressant out there. and still fighting the battle.