Well then, it seems that the most proactive way around this dilemma is to throw a counter-party that will include most of those not asked to play at MEMF (off the top of my head: all of Indiana, Michigan djs, and some of the better acts in Kentucky and Ohio)
This party should be thrown on the same day and should be free. If well-orchestrated, it should be more rewarding for Midwest party people to attend our show, rather than the larger more expensive party.
To make it fair, there should be a "buy-in" to be part of the party planning committee. The buy-in will be equally agreed upon and collected at the start of planning. Hopefully, some of the more experienced and resourceful promoters will take an interest (geek, shiva, Nate the Natural, NateFx, physix, i am looking at you guys). I am willing to be involved only on the condition that others join in to soften the blow. More than likely, I can find an outdoor place to have a party during the day and a nightspot to have an after party and maybe make back some of what we spent.
Anyone interested?
It really isn't that difficult if everyone works together.