I Think My Family Has Cut Me Out Of Their Will.

[Robi]

you really should ask to find out for sure rather than stewing in this uncertainty

if this is being used as a threat for leverage (i.e. do what we say or you're out of the will) then it really depends on your relationship with them otherwise. women ime will say really, really cruel/shitty things and not really mean them. men might really cut you off if they're threatening it.

 

[notsmokeymcpot42088]

What is ones share? 91 look at ya go

I am sure he meant people can.....oh no he did qualify at the end haha.... I tell you huwwhatt when my ma makes a threat (To others, im alright) it is absolutely bone chilling as I know it will come true.

Nicest little ol lady but she means what she says and if it is mean.... I try and warn my friends (well I did before we moved) "However gangster, tough, crazy, w/e you think I am --- I am telling you if you cross that woman it is a whole other level that I cannot really control or walk you back from! Few of them learned the hard way

 

[fuckabout89]

What Should I Do? Just Politely Ignore It? I'd Like To Say I Don't Resent Them For It, But I Do.

Take a shit on their graves when they die, I wish I could live long enough to do it on my parents funeral.

 

[Jnowhere]

What Should I Do? Just Politely Ignore It? I'd Like To Say I Don't Resent Them For It, But I Do.

You should make sure you can get yourself together and ask them.
Hey, if you're around my age and on here, I bet you have been through a lot of shit.

How do you know? Can the relationship be repared? Is there anyway to get back in their good graces, so to speak? How much money are we talking?

Are we talking about enough money, assets, property, ect.. to retire off, of?

I would say you should try to repair your relationship with them. Get clean, get yourself together.
Would that work? Because it seems that we might be talking about a significant amount of money.

I would ask them. Are they conservative, liberal, centrist( pragmaticish) Far left, very old fashioned, what?

I think at your age which is around my age: If it is a significant amount, then you should do whatever it takes.

The world has become so greedy, so expensive and as you described your life: I would do whatever it takes to get back to a place where you will inherit some money.

I am assuming that this is a significant amount and if it is, it could make your life a lot easier.

It seems that you need to reconnect with them if it is a serious amount; and I know that sounds greedy. However, if it is enough: it could really help out, with what sounds like a bleak future, become at least, secure and better.

Your parent(s), I assume are alive and obviously old. Do you have siblings?
Have you done anything to really piss them off?

How was your family when you growing up? From your description of your life; it seems that a decent inheritance could be the lifeline you need; especially in an uncertain economy.

I don't know enough about your situation, but please feel free to send me a DM.

If we are talking a million+ or millions of dollars, then this is seriously bad for you. Even an inheritance in the 6 figures could mean, the difference between poverty and security.

People on here can say whatever. But if you posted on here about it; it must be at least enough to cause concern.

I would seriously, try to get do whatever you can to fix this; if that is possible. Can you do anything that might reverse this?

Are they cold, nice, sympathetic or what? Why do you think that you are cut out of the will? It doesn't seem like you have much to fall back on; if that is the case, you really need to fix this.

Is that possible? If so, then do whatever you have too. Getting old and being in the the situation you described is, a huge cause for concern.

Find out what is the case. Swallow, your pride and repair your relationship with them, if it is possible.

Like I said please feel free, to Dm me.