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"I just don't get you at all"... Personality Clashes, how do you handle them?

^ If the rude arrogant person actually IS smart and does have a point it sits better than someone who is mouthing off- gotta give at least grudging respect to an asshole that backs up his facts.

People tend to but heads with people they are similar to in personality IMO.

DQ- its BL, its the internet, personality clashes are nothing a few beers cant fix. :)
 
DQ you're not being censored, you're being annoying. I start fights with people all the time on here, it's synonymous with having strong viewpoints and being opinionated. However there's no reason to act like a four year old and rave about it in every thread. Chin up ay? Walk proud. Get over it.
 
i already did.... i said i'm over it already. Now you're the one bringing it up. What happened to you anyway? You used to be on my side. I guess some things do change.
 
I dont like selfish people... Take take take people.

I generally try to get alone with others.
Last year i entered a new group of friends, many are similar to me, others are very very different.

My past has taught me to adapt to those around me.
 
I wonder how many of these comments are spawned from ego clashes and perhaps are a tad (read: very) hypocritical.

would be very interesting to find out :)
 
Oh yeah and I had a point before I got distracted.

There is honestly only one person who I hate. It's a guy I work with. He's really, really into light sabres. Like, he collects them, and where other people have pictures of family on their desk he has photos of his collection.

This, in itself, is not a bad thing. I'd probably like his nerdy obsession if he wasn't such a fucking asshole. I have honestly never met someone with such a high opinion of themself with such little basis in reality. He is the most smug, arrogant, rude person I know. He thinks he is better than EVERYONE and he is always on a mission to make someone feel like shit. Either that, or he'll be whinging about something or spouting some bullshit about topics he knows nothing about.

Anyway, he got what was coming to him. A few months ago he went downstairs to buy lunch and came back with a black eye and split lip. Apparently he'd spoken rudely to an old lady in the supermarket and some random guy had followed him out and beaten him up. He left for the day and it was honestly the best day at work I've ever had.
 
up all night said:
People who ALWAYS think they're right and even when you prove they're wrong they won't admit it.

Also, people who have to have things that are bigger, better and more expensive than everyone else.
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I tend to clash with people who have to be right and make me feel uncomfortable by being overbearing and generally not accepting that I might feel differently about certain issues. Other than that I can appreciate different personality traits, I'd like to think of myself as easygoing most of the time.

I don't tolerate people standing over me, particularly when it comes to personal feelings, (justified) choices and morals. I happily accept differences in others but I'll clash with people who show disrespect towards my (or other peoples) beliefs or choices.
And if I clash with someone in that fundamental way, I let them go. Generally I can maintain civility but I kind of switch off to any emotional involvement because frankly, what would be the point in engaging with someone who doesn't respect my point of view?
 
i tend to be able to understand anyones point of view, or at least see that their is information that is important that i don't have/cant get. i was actually thinking about this 'ability' recently, and am still wondering if it's a rare thing. is it?
 
up all night said:
LMFAO I have definitely missed DQ.
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nice to know seeing as most people seem to hate that i'm here again. Why didn't you answer my last pm before i left then?
 
^Pipit^ said:
I tend to clash with people who have to be right and make me feel uncomfortable by being overbearing and generally not accepting that I might feel differently about certain issues. Other than that I can appreciate different personality traits, I'd like to think of myself as easygoing most of the time.

I don't tolerate people standing over me, particularly when it comes to personal feelings, (justified) choices and morals. I happily accept differences in others but I'll clash with people who show disrespect towards my (or other peoples) beliefs or choices.
And if I clash with someone in that fundamental way, I let them go. Generally I can maintain civility but I kind of switch off to any emotional involvement because frankly, what would be the point in engaging with someone who doesn't respect my point of view?
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yeah i totally empathise. As soon as i have a different POV and stick to my guns people jump down my throat and say that *I* am not accepting of other peoples views just cos i don't agree with them. It really sux to be misundertood and then looked at like you are the one in the wrong because you're a minority.
 
i cannot, will not and have never been able to get along with racist, biggoted, xenophobic people...
i cannot understand the pure hatred these people can display/feel towards others, and also feel really sorry for those that have never been taught otherwise.

them, and people who constantly think they are the victim... bah

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strumpet said:
I cannot STAND the parents at my school who think you have to hold your child's hand at every single turn of the day, and who think you should have FUN going to morning teas, Friday NIGHT chess matches, chaufering your kids around to various events and generally give up your right to an existence. And if you DON'T do that? Well, you are just plain old a BAD MOTHER.

Now, I'm not saying don't be supportive of your children - by all means attend a sports match or two, love them to death and support them, but don't let them take over your life.

Just because I cheer when I find out that a Friday night cricket match is cancelled, doesn't make me a horrible mother :X
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aarrrgghh! i hate them too! we just get looked at like vermin when we dont socialise with the other mums when we're waiting to pick up skig's daughter. no. we dont want to go to your tupperware party. no. i dont want to pay $10 to buy one of her paintings she did in art class (we get these for free at home). there are plenty more of these circumstances - and of course if you dont put up your cash and time for the school (even though you spent all of prep helping out with reading, have attended many school events) YOU are a BAD PARENT.

..... they probably dont dig the two mums idea all that much either... but the little one seems to enjoy having 3 parents ;)
 
Right now I'm working with this girl who disagrees with me about everything.

I know that doesn't sound like a big deal, but when you're actually living it, it turns out to be a pretty big deal. Like, any small idea or thought I have on a subject or project, she disagrees with me. EVERY single little thing, it's unreal.

"I think he should stand here."
"Oh no, he's definitely got to stand anywhere other than there."

All day, every day, on everything.

It's pathological. I'm sure of it.

I don't know how to deal with it. I'm using humour right now. We can still sit down together and have a conversation. But the amount she disagrees with everythig I say every day is just not normal. Seriously, never before have I encountered someone who pipes up to tell me my ideas are crap so often.
 
People that argue for the sake of arguing.

People that, to quote a saying, "Cut off their nose to spite their face".

People that run hot/cold. I don't want same old all the time, but for fucks sake, a little consistency would be good.

Nasty people.

How do i deal with people like that? I avoid them like the plague and if i can't avoid them, i pretty much ignore them. If that doesn't work, i'll let them know what the problem is. Having said that, i try, at least for a while, to understand that they must have had a pretty shit time of it to be the way they are and to just let them be, but as Muzby said, it's only when they inflict their crap onto me, that i'll do or say something.
 
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