xtcgrrrl
Bluelight Crew
Yeah but see, women’s looks vary so much, from time of day or from month to month or as they get older etc. so we tend to be really insecure about it. I mean, I can look either REALLY pretty or REALLY ugly. But guys look basically the same all the time and even across time; you look pretty much the same when you’re old as you did all your life (except for when you’re VERY old, I mean, but men generally age far more gracefully than women.) So it’s not as simple as “oh you look pretty so stop complaining.” The face that she shows YOU may not be the face that she always sees in the mirror, because she looks at herself when she’s tired, or sick, or right after a shower with no makeup. She sees the broken capillaries and the chicken pox scars and the acne. Age spots and wrinkles. Gray hairs and saggy skin. All those imperfections that are “ugly.”Thing is there are sooooo many bad looking people in this world. If you are even a tiny bit good looking, you are way ahead of the pack.
Women put so much of their self-esteem in their looks, you know. We shouldn’t, but it’s a fact of life. I’m just trying to point out that it’s not so easy as you say.