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I am 100% sure I am NOT GAY...but why do I find it so unattracitive? Anyone the same?

Please note the following comes from a female. Do not feel weird! I would say you are definitely in a minority group. Most men I know love the look of a vagina and are extremely aroused by the image. I happen to have a boyfriend that is not wild about the look and squirms at the thought of making contact with a vagina using anything except his penis. So, you two are much alike.

I have seen some really jacked-up vaginas that looked like they were attacked by a lawn mower. I have also seen some very pretty vaginas that would arouse the masses of vagina lovers. On the same note, I have seen some mouth-watering penises. However, the sight of a penis is not exciting for me. If I never saw another image of a penis, life would continue perfectly well for me. Unless it is by boyfriend's, I am not likely to be stirred even slightly by seeing some dude's junk.

Perhaps you have not seen a vagina, you find attractive. Maybe they were too fuzzy or not fuzzy enough or just not stellar specimens. You may want to make a point of taking in more with your eyes and fingers (gently and patiently). My advice is that you try to become more appreciative of the look, taste and feel of a nice clean vagina. Every woman I know scores major points to a man who works well with his hands, explores every curve and enjoys eating his dessert like a good boy. :)


Good luck, dear!
 
My post isn't contradicting at all..

The only people I've met who are disgusted by vaginas have been heterosexual women
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Q. "Do you mean only lesbian women find them unattractive?"
Why would homosexual women be disgusted by vagina? I'm saying, homophobia/heterophobia (from heterosexual/homosexuals respectively) isn't uncommon.
Fearing the genitals of a gender you're attracted to is less common.

Q. "Do you mean the heterosexual women find other women's vaginas unattractive"
Not always, but that's what I was saying. It's more common, IME, than anyone else but homosexual males.

Qa. "but see their own as attractive?"
If they're disgusted by vaginas, the chances that their vagina is attractive to them are very small.
Qb. "(sort of like how fat girls think they are hot, but see the smallest of faults in other girls?)"
Fat girls are told they're unattractive in nearly all social settings. If they see themselves as attractive, chances are they're not going to think other fat girls are ugly for being fat.
I don't know what compelled you to come up with that thought.. Seems like baseless hate on fat girls for something they don't really do.


Your girlfriend is only a whore if she's having sex in exchange for money/goods. A girl can have as much sex as she wants, she's not doing to have her labia grow and droop from it.
I'm the one that mentioned "innie" labias, and there are plenty of guys who prefer them to longer labia.


You certainly can't please a woman if you're afraid of her erogenous zone, maybe you should look for a girl who can orgasm from nipple or foot play or spanking.. or even better a transgirl!
 
one thing with genitals: They are part of a body and imo their attraction comes from that they are part of a body:

Imo:
body, breasts = hot (hot as in beautifully hot. Hot in an aesthetic way.)
Sex organs as such = hot (in an instinctive way)
 
Abject said:
My post isn't contradicting at all..



Q. "Do you mean only lesbian women find them unattractive?"
Why would homosexual women be disgusted by vagina? I'm saying, homophobia/heterophobia (from heterosexual/homosexuals respectively) isn't uncommon.
Fearing the genitals of a gender you're attracted to is less common.

Q. "Do you mean the heterosexual women find other women's vaginas unattractive"
Not always, but that's what I was saying. It's more common, IME, than anyone else but homosexual males.

Qa. "but see their own as attractive?"
If they're disgusted by vaginas, the chances that their vagina is attractive to them are very small.
Qb. "(sort of like how fat girls think they are hot, but see the smallest of faults in other girls?)"
Fat girls are told they're unattractive in nearly all social settings. If they see themselves as attractive, chances are they're not going to think other fat girls are ugly for being fat.
I don't know what compelled you to come up with that thought.. Seems like baseless hate on fat girls for something they don't really do.


Your girlfriend is only a whore if she's having sex in exchange for money/goods. A girl can have as much sex as she wants, she's not doing to have her labia grow and droop from it.
I'm the one that mentioned "innie" labias, and there are plenty of guys who prefer them to longer labia.


You certainly can't please a woman if you're afraid of her erogenous zone, maybe you should look for a girl who can orgasm from nipple or foot play or spanking.. or even better a transgirl!
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Aye carumba! 8o
 
i seen in porn alot gnarlay va jay jays... trust me,if u find girl with nice thing that doesnt look like someone is drying pair of red carpets on rotten torso of dead cutlefish,then u will love to eat that 24/7
 
:| Beef curtains?? My goodness! I guess I have been lucky to have partners that admired a woman's goodies. I wish there were more female input on this topic.
 
Vaginas aren't necessarily attractive and that's okay. Trust me, there are a lot of straight guys who aren't attracted to vaginas. When you're having sex, are you really looking at her vagina anyway? IDK, my boyfriend and I are usually looking at each other.

I don't find dicks particularly attractive either. But going down on my bf is enjoyable to him. There is more to a person than just their vagina or dick. :)
 
Abject said:
The only people I've met who are disgusted by vaginas have been heterosexual women and homosexual men.

Do women know their privates are unattractive? No, because they're not. It's not that vaginas are unattractive, it's that you're not attracted to them.
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Apologies, the first question about lesbians was a typo. What I mean is I thought it was a contradiction on your behalf about the statements I have above in the quote. The only people you have met that are disgusted by vaginas are gay men and heterosexual women. Then, when I asked if women know that their privates are quite ugly, you said "no". Is this not a contradiction if heterosexual women find them disgusting, then how can they simultaneously find them attractive?

Lol at Tranny, ahaha.

I had a feeling I was not that weird, and the above posters sort of agree. I mean, I am seriously dampened to only normal sex as I can not give oral to her nor touch it with my fingers in any sort of continuous fashion....
 
Heh. From a purely aesthetic point of view genitals clearly aren't beautiful, no. As many have already pointed out, popular terminology reflects this widely accepted judgment: "bumping uglies," "hatchet wound," "spam butterfly," etc. To turn the critique to males, just consider the scrotum -- two asymmetrically hung glands that slowly creep past each other in a sack hanging lazily behind a wrinkled mushroom stuffed in a fleshy blood-deflated windsock. It looks like something that was "meant" to be inside that became distended in an accident (and it sort of can be described as such when you consider how a male fetus develops from the female morphological default). Testicles are only on the outside because the temperature has to be kept lower than the body to keep sperm alive and most animals have far less prominent penises than human males. Smooth transitions and generalized symmetry are the norm on good looking human bodies, and our genitals are deviations (arguably only erect symmetrical penises and symmetrical conservative labia are aesthetically pleasing sights). That's why it's medical libraries that contain publications that only have photos of genitals and not adult book stores. Turn off the lights if you don't like the sight of it and most of the problem is solved.
 
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psood0nym said:
most animals have far less prominent penises than human males
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Not true at all. If we scale humans down/animals up, we see that humans have quite small cocks in comparison.

This idea that symmetry = beauty is such a joke I'm not even going to address it.

I don't know what's up with the people in this thread, but I think genitals are very attractive.
All genitals? Of course not. Nor are all faces, breasts, asses, legs, feet, stomachs, and everything else.

You guys keep acting like attractiveness/beauty is objective and the way you personally feel about vagina reflects on vagina itself...

Good luck with the cognitive dissonance, faggots <3
 
I love meat curtains, so soft and lickable.

Sure they are ugly, but I find them attractive.

Saying this for the sake of the large labia women, they are nice.
 
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