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I’m a straight male, why do I want to suck dick?

You proberly bi sexual i have looked at men as attractive but never wanted to suck their dick or fuck them . Go for it nothing wrong about it sexual attraction a weird thing pick a dick and go for it fuck. those who judge
 
birdup.snaildown said:
I assume he means doggy style. This is the best angle. Apparently men like tits because they resemble asses. This image has the most primal reaction because it is the position that women would have assumed (more or less) in nature... but, beyond the natural aspect, it is a more flattering position, particularly as women get older.
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Yes this is precisely what I meant. Bent over from the rear view angle. It's a more compelling perspective.
 
birdup.snaildown said:
Yeah guys are repressed because from a very early age society (via guy culture) insists that they pretend to be repulsed by other men's genitals and the idea of gay sex. I experienced this in high school. There is a lot of homophobia among young men, driven by fear. I don't believe the repulsion is in any way natural. The pretence of repulsion mutates later in life into confusion and repression.

The healthiest place to be, psychologically, is totally unphased by sex.

Sucking a dick might not be for everyone, but it's not traumatic unless you have underlying issues that make it traumatic. It's just sex. It's no big deal. If you can put a sausage in your mouth, you can put a dick in there. If you don't like it, just take it out again. No harm done. People get really worked up about sex. Like I said - at the end of the day - it's just a bit of skin.
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Haha tell that to gay men I have talked to about giving a woman oral sex licking her clit and their reply is "Ewwwwww! That's disgusting! How could you do that?!" yet some of these queens are proud rimnists with NO SHAME, that love to lick ass or rim/get rimmed. 8) 😂

In my highschool there were jocks a grade level above me and I only found out after they graduated that a lot of them were bisexual or gay and would have orgies and sex parties, but discreetly.

There were twinks and queens in my grade but they were hyper-effeminate, and not my type.
 
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Did anybody in this thread tell OP about the world of asian ladyboys? He said he likes asians and wants to suck a cock. He just has to be careful because STDs in Asia are statistically worse than in America from what I hear

Hi, I'm Zuda and this is my second post
 
PriestTheyCalledHim said:
Haha tell that to gay men I have talked to about giving a woman oral sex licking her clit and their reply is "Ewwwwww! That's disgusting! How could you do that?!" yet some of these queens are proud rimnists with NO SHAME, that love to lick ass or rim/get rimmed. 8) 😂
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Rimnist. I learn a new word every day. Most vaginas are sloppier than most asses. I know people that are genuinely horrified - like, it's just so traumatic - about the idea of eating certain foods. That whole Ewwww thing is a high school mentality that some people don't shed. There is an extraordinary amount of repression in certain Western cultures. After the holocaust, I think Germany just thought, "fuck it, we might as well go full perv". No amount of scheizer porn is ever going to outweigh killing the Jews. Nothing to lose, at that point. This is part of the fun of being a villain, you don't have to live up to some bullshit code.
 
Edit—I didn't realize there's ten pages of this stuff, still getting used to xenforo on the phone. Sorry if I'm rehashing anything. I'm gonna leave this here anyway.

You mention having a sexually fulfilling relationship with the wife, but do you also use a lot of porn as a sexual outlet? That tends to escalate people's interest in, uh, alternative sexual acts. Straight guys who have issues with pornography often escalate to gay and/or transsexual material before vanilla doesn't do it anymore. It's like drug tolerance all of BL should be familiar with. If this is the case, no you're not gay and no it's not natural, and you very well might feel disgusted with yourself if you ever actually perform the act.

If you don't have the porn issue, then maybe you have some latent homosexual tendencies but maybe it's just a kink (say, maybe you get off on the implies submissive aspect of performing oral sex?) Sexuality is weird. Repressed desires and stuff like that can come seemingly out of nowhere but they're very real. Maybe you'd understand if you went through months to years of psychoanalysis or the like. I'm assuming you're not interested in digging that deep.

The more pertinent question is what are you going to do about it here and now? Anyway, it's a desire you have. If you don't want to go through with it, don't, and don't let it define you. When the image comes up in your head try to say a prayer or meditate or try to center yourself elsewhere in a way that works for you. (My priests have always told me to say some Hail Mary's and think of her in the event or intrusive sexual thoughts.)

Otherwise if you're going to do it, nobody is stopping you, but it's definitely a homosexual act and if that's an issue for you you're going to have to live with it and integrate the fact that no, barring being porn-sick or having something else like that going on, if that's really you having that impulse, then no, you can no longer really call yourself a straight man. Doesn't mean you have to go start sucking dick all over town, or at all, but it is something you'll have to live with.
 
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Thatguyyouknow92 said:
I’m a straight 27 year old male. I’ve never been sexually attracted to men at all. I do not want a guy to suck my dick and I don’t want to have intercourse with another man. I do however want to suck a dick for some reason unbeknown to me. Help me make sense of this, I’m pretty confused.
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Probably because you’re human and just curious as to what that would feel like. No one should make you feel weird about it either. I’ve called all my guy friends gay for wanting to give themselves fellatio but they all said they couldn’t reach it and were pissed off when I told them I could reach mine. Not just because of the size but I’ve always been flexible since I was a kid. But they were upset because I choose not to try it because to me I don’t feel it’s necessary putting even my own dick in my mouth. I’m sure I’ll find it weird and question myself because it’s not for me. I think I have a pretty nice looking dick if I may toot my own horn but I’ve always been fascinated with the female parts as that’s what gets me off! But more power to you and there’s no judgement here. I hate when people put a label on things and back then I was young and stupid and shouldn’t of teased all my guy friends and called them gay.. who cares. We are human and we are curious. Only person who can judge is God anyways.. and I’m sure he’d still love you for wanting to stick a dick in your mouth. Hopefully the journey will go well and I’m sure you’ll be just fine! Stay safe out there!
 
Zuda said:
He just has to be careful because STDs in Asia are statistically worse than in America from what I hear
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‘Asia’ is like 27 different countries and a thousand different cultures. Ranging from sexually buttoned up Singapore to sexual free-for-all of the Phillipines. I’d put my dick in a Singaporean before an American but an American before a Filipina.
 
birdup.snaildown said:
True story.
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Thanks for explaining. Given that we were writing about people's genitals and that you are gay/homosexual that you would find the words 'vagina, pussy, cunt, minge, etc.' to be annoying or cringe inducing to you. A gay/homosexual friend of mine told me, when we were drinking that if a woman flirts with him he goes into a very bad panic attack.

I showed him John Waters' films PINK FLAMINGOS and FEMALE TROUBLE. In female trouble the scene with Gator's girlfriend-not Dawn Davenport/Divine, or Edith Massey-was the first time he ever saw a woman naked, or so he claimed, and he said to me how "Female parts and women's genitals and bodies should stay covered up with clothes!". He did not like the close-up of the vagina in PINK FLAMINGOS or the singing spasming asshole scene. I said to him, "But you told me you love to rim men or lick their asshole, why would that scene disgust you?"
 
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Atelier3 said:
‘Asia’ is like 27 different countries and a thousand different cultures. Ranging from sexually buttoned up Singapore to sexual free-for-all of the Phillipines. I’d put my dick in a Singaporean before an American but an American before a Filipina.
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What about South Koreans, Chinese, Japanese, Malay, Thai, Indonesian, Javanese, Afghan, Indian, Bangladeshi, Pakistani, Uzbek, Syrian, Turkish, Levantine, Mongolians, or Russian Asians?
 
Atelier3 said:
‘Asia’ is like 27 different countries and a thousand different cultures. Ranging from sexually buttoned up Singapore to sexual free-for-all of the Phillipines. I’d put my dick in a Singaporean before an American but an American before a Filipina.
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Pfft, next thing you'll be telling me africa isn't a country,
 
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